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I don't blame girls who date guys because they have money. Money is a magnet that attracts anybody both male and female..

I never knew that as a guy I will fall in love with a girl because of her money..

NOW THE STORY
I met this lady in lagos she came to our photo studio after taking some pictures we exchanged contact. She is not beautiful so I didn't make any attempt to ask her out. She was giving me signal by calling often, chatting me up, but I wasn't giving her attention..

I never knew she was a rich. She invited me to her place 3 times I declined. I just gave her excuse.. The 4th time when she called and I told her that I can't make it, she got angry, I had to change my mind.

When I got to her family house I froze in shock . it was a duplex, she owns a car. as if she wanted to me know her worth for neglecting her. she asked me to follow her to her shop. she drove me in her car, and when we got there, lo and behold she has 4 staffs on salary.. The funniest thing is that I couldn't hid me shame.. She was just looking at me like, so you think am a small girl.

After I Ieft alot of thought were flowing through my head. When I got home I told some of my friends and they told me to go back an start loving the lady. But deep down I know what I have made her pass through. I made it obvious that am not interested in her through my reactions.. And now it's too late..

We still chat once in a well but I dont have the courage to ask her out knowing all I have done to her..

What made me post this is that I only started liking this lady immediately I knew she has money but before that I didn't give her a chance..

just hustle your own. Money shouldn't make you take steps you'll live to regret.

I didn't write that garbage I think my moniker has been hacked by a nairaland insider

This isn't gold digging at all. In clear terms, your admiration and respect for her simply grew due to her success and well do life. It's very okay.

OP i have lots of love for sell...



But the FTC has said it all

There are also male gold diggers

Ndubuisipaul1:
We still chat once in a well

which well?
plz come out of it

Ntorrrrr

zeuss:
Op is a Hoe...... a common love peddler.......exchanges loe for money. ashawo

How is this comment not flagged down but when I make less disparaging comments, I get flagged and banned for 30 minutes immediately. Is it peculiar to politics section only?

I don't even understand Nairaland again

Seems nairaland is been hacked or them done change mods. Outdated post as far back hiting fp in 2025 lol

another movie tale from the stable of a dream addict.

Good for you that you are gold digger

Continue digging

Post of 5 years ago... Mods are really working overtime ooo 😁😁

This one romance stories are just making front page this morning...
What happened?

Why is the frontpage mod digging up old posts from the Romance section??

TallNigerian:
How is this comment not flagged down but when I make less disparaging comments, I get flagged and banned for 30 minutes immediately. Is it peculiar to politics section only?

I don't even understand Nairaland again

That comment was made 5 years ago when freedom of speech was good and the mod were sane and godly people

5 years later,
This hits front page.
Thank you MODs...

Everybody have u noticed that ever since Nairaland did this below, people don't comment so much on the forum again

Not enough original content
Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.

Unlike before, comments fit reach 10 pages but now even FP post, highest 2-3 pages.

Lol

E no easy to be a man in Naija so all way na way if u no wan shed blood ni...

Don't judge people by looks

I really don't classify this as gold-digging even if it looks like it. Something must actually attract you to someone. It could be intellect, good look, body shape, religious background, succees or any.

Hezzyluv:
just hustle your own. Money shouldn't make you take steps you'll live to regret.

Give this advice to the ladies... Most guyz are hardly influence by money... Most!

God dun pick OP call today. I mean since 2020 OP made post na today e reach FP. If you like give up, that one concern you

zeuss:
Op is a Hoe...... a common love peddler.......exchanges loe for money. ashawo

He still didn't go for her even after all he saw.. read the write up again dear

bobonla:
That comment was made 5 years ago when freedom of speech was good and the mod were sane and godly people

Oh I see. Thanks for the insight. Nairaland is now a shadow of itself

My ex was wealthier than I was, but I always took her out and gave what I could afford no pressure, just genuine effort. Even though she owned a house here in Lagos, I never stayed over; I preferred her coming to my place. When she moved to the U.S., I ended things I don’t do long-distance, and I don’t double-date. We’re still in touch though.

If you’re thinking of dating her, don’t ask her for money. Build your own. That way, you’ll earn her respect and keep yours intact

You are not a gold digger, my friend. You have conscience. Some girls will start loving a man immediately in their presence. Standfast bro!

Oga, if u go hear me, just move and date the girl, play smart, collect money from her and improve your studio to better your life, all hustle na hustle, just no kill human being...lol, but for real girls dey date guys because of money, them collect money from the guy improve their lives still dump am, especially if the person dey ugly. So omo advice your self, na TUNUBU regime we dey ooh!! Make u dey wise.

Idi honest Ndubuisi


To be honest with you,money softens ones heart... A generous person hardly does any wrong in the eyes of people..

It's one of the inspiration of generous persons ...the love and respect u get in return

Oga, if u go hear me, just move and date the girl, play smart, collect money from her and improve your studio to better your life, all hustle na hustle, just no kill human being...lol, but for real girls dey date guys because of money, them collect money from the guy improve their lives still dump am, especially if the person dey ugly. So omo advice your self, na TUNUBU regime we dey ooh!! Make u dey wise.







quote author=Ndubuisipaul1 post=92034621]I don't blame girls who date guys because they have money. Money is a magnet that attracts anybody both male and female..

I never knew that as a guy I will fall in love with a girl because of her money..

NOW THE STORY
I met this lady in lagos she came to our photo studio after taking some pictures we exchanged contact. She is not beautiful so I didn't make any attempt to ask her out. She was giving me signal by calling often, chatting me up, but I wasn't giving her attention..

I never knew she was a rich. She invited me to her place 3 times I declined. I just gave her excuse.. The 4th time when she called and I told her that I can't make it, she got angry, I had to change my mind.

When I got to her family house I froze in shock . it was a duplex, she owns a car. as if she wanted to me know her worth for neglecting her. she asked me to follow her to her shop. she drove me in her car, and when we got there, lo and behold she has 4 staffs on salary.. The funniest thing is that I couldn't hid me shame.. She was just looking at me like, so you think am a small girl.

After I Ieft alot of thought were flowing through my head. When I got home I told some of my friends and they told me to go back an start loving the lady. But deep down I know what I have made her pass through. I made it obvious that am not interested in her through my reactions.. And now it's too late..

We still chat once in a well but I dont have the courage to ask her out knowing all I have done to her..

What made me post this is that I only started liking this lady immediately I knew she has money but before that I didn't give her a chance..[/quote]

TallNigerian:
Oh I see. Thanks for the insight. Nairaland is now a shadow of itself

I've been banned more 3 times today ooo. For nothing