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A 46-year-old Nigerian woman broke down in tears while revealing she has never been married, is “still a virgin,” and is struggling with spiritual battles.

In a recent interview on Agidigbo FM, the woman, who chose to remain anonymous, said despite being hardworking and independent since her youth, she has faced constant rejection and isolation.

She shared her desire for a romantic partner, explaining that ‘I’m not the one pushing men away. Those who approach me either see me as too old or only want intimacy”.

“I have been making money since I was young. All of a sudden, everything went down. I am not the only child of my parent. There are many, but I am the only one still with her. The other children also have challenges. I am 46 years old. I have never had sex. If there’s anything you can use to test me, you can do it,” she said.

“I am not the one pursuing the men away from me. I am selling goods. I do not like following men all around, but I do know how to run after men. Three years ago, I discovered that men see me as an aged woman.

“When children see me, they call me grandma. I noticed that it was becoming too much. That is why I am here for you to help me.”

She said she believes her struggles may be spiritual, recalling a prayer session where she was told “a veil has been placed over me, blocking my blessings”.

“I have gone to the mountains to pray about it. During one of the prayer sessions, I was told a veil had been used to cover me and had not allowed me to receive help,” she said.

“Only married men approached me. And they only want sex.”

Zooposki:
You don't need a husband. You need someone that loves you, or rather you should learn to Iove yourself, then you would not need a husband, but rather a partner in the true sense.

NJV:
These kind of wicked talk should be among what kept her unmarried till age 46! Person say she's looking for husband, you say she doesn't need husband. Continue with your evil counsel. Maybe if she was your sister you would understand her plight better.

I pray she gets her desires fulfilled soonest. It's not a pleasant situation at all.

Zooposki:
I repeat, she does not a husband. She will come to regret it.

franchasng:
She said she needs a husband and you that is not in her shoes keep repeating that she does not need a husband....listen my dear sister, forget whatever experience you have had with some guys in the past or present....if you are fortunate and wise enough to attract a worthy husband, you will thank God everyday of your life. Forget stories....worthy husband take away a lot of worries from a woman that you may never know until you get to a certain stage in life.

I know not one not two, not three ladies; some not Nigerians but Americans seriously searching for husbands, not because they are broke or unemployed...these are well achieved ladies that can be classified as rich in the Nigerian term....so change your mentality about men....I am a married man and I am a blessing to my wife, her family and even friends, yes.....let me brag small. And there are millions of worthy husbands-to-be that will even be better than me....pray to find one of such and you need to change your mindset, attitude and demeanor to attract them.


Don't champion this kind of toxic advice for single ladies....I have a pretty daughter and I pray to God everyday that she will marry at the right age and to the best man that will treat her well. I don't pray my daughter remains single for life, its not a good thing....so advising single ladies not to think about getting married is toxic, it doesn't always end well.


All the men you are seeing that are single now will definitely get married...none of them wish to die single....it is mostly financial lack and constraint that is stopping most from settling down...and some its inability to meet the right lady and others its cos of the fun of being a bachelor and having too many options of ladies.


Please change your mindset for your own good, all the best and thank you for your attention to this matter

Zooposki:
You don't need a husband. You need someone that loves you, or rather you should learn to Iove yourself, then you would not need a husband, but rather a partner in the true sense.

NJV:
These kind of wicked talk should be among what kept her unmarried till age 46! Person say she's looking for husband, you say she doesn't need husband. Continue with your evil counsel. Maybe if she was your sister you would understand her plight better.

I pray she gets her desires fulfilled soonest. It's not a pleasant situation at all.