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Virgin indeed which means my grandma too nah virgin

i watched and listened to the woman, she is the architect of her problems, not only that white man culture and religion has also contributed to this problem . she says she cant date or marry a married man and i am sure all this is because of the white man education and culture of one man one woman. no culture or religion forbids polygamy, and that is why many women are single, instead of dating responsible married men who are ready to marry them, a woman of 46 years or even some with kids will be saying they are looking for single men.
secondly, she mentioned the problem of not wanting to spoil herself and that most men coming to her only want to sleep with her, i don't know how she managed to know they were not serious. 90% of marriages started like a hit and run dating affair. no one is sure about marrying until you enter a relationship, but in her case, she has been judging men even before dating them.

Zooposki:
You don't need a husband. You need someone that loves you, or rather you should learn to Iove yourself, then you would not need a husband, but rather a partner in the true sense.

You are dead in spirit yet still walking, having corrupted the most sacred truths that God holds dear. Wokeness has consumed your soul so deeply that you dismiss marriage—a divine institution—as something trivial. But let it be known: God’s word stands firm.

The Quran declares, "And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed, in that are signs for a people who give thought" (Quran 30:21). Likewise, the Bible affirms, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh"(Genesis 2:24). Marriage is not a worldly contract but a sacred covenant ordained by God.

To those who mock or belittle this truth, the Quran warns, "And when it is said to them, 'Do not cause corruption on the earth,' they say, 'We are but reformers!' Unquestionably, it is they who are the corrupters, but they perceive it not" (Quran 2:11-12). The Bible also cautions, "Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness" (Isaiah 5:20).

I pray that Almighty God resurrects your soul if you repent, for His mercy is vast. But if you refuse, may He separate you from the righteous as far as the east is from the west. As the Quran states, "And who does more wrong than one who is reminded of the verses of his Lord but turns away from them?"(Quran 18:57). And the Bible echoes, "It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God" (Hebrews 10:31).

immortalcrown:
It is obvious that her virginity is not the reason she is still unmarried.

Many issues with her:
1.
No father.

2.
Her sibling also has issues which are not disclosed.

3.
Children call her grandma, meaning she looks older than her age. 46 is normally not old enough to be mistaken for a grandma.

Your 3 analogy is wrong. You can become grandma at 42 oŕ 44 years old if you give birth at 22 and your child als9 does give birth at 22 years old

BlackViper:
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She maybe the type of those ladies I want rich guy

Pelanowire:
What's the difference between partner and the husband she is looking for?

A partner is someone who is in a serious, long-term relationship, regardless of whether they plan to marry or not. I could equally throw in that the partnership might even be a non-sexual, non -romantic friendship with the same or opposite sex, so far as her needs are fulfilled. A true partnership is where each partner cares about, supports, and provides value to the other.

A marriage is a subgroup of a partnership.

May God in his infinite mercies meet us all at the point of our needs, Amen!

Zooposki:
I repeat, she does not need a husband. She will come to regret it.

Just like you are regretting now?









You women ehn! Chaiiiiii



No wonder they say 'NO WOMAN, NO CRY'

SultanYoung:
You are dead in spirit yet still walking, having corrupted the most sacred truths that God holds dear. Wokeness has consumed your soul so deeply that you dismiss marriage—a divine institution—as something trivial. But let it be known: God’s word stands firm.
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How many times have I invited all your dead gods to come face me? For some reason them no show face. Probably scared of the truth I know.

Zooposki:
You don't need a husband. You need someone that loves you, or rather you should learn to Iove yourself, then you would not need a husband, but rather a partner in the true sense.

show pity not confusion.partner=husband

specialmati:
show pity not confusion.partner=husband

A partner might not necessarily be your husband.

I know a woman like that , she gives the best head and knows how to treat a man well and well to do financially, but is keeping herself for marriage at the age of 36.

IAM4BAT4plus4:
Just like you are regretting now? You women ehn! Chaiiiiii. No wonder they say 'NO WOMAN, NO CRY'

Oya na, convince me wetin I dey miss na. 40 characters for seun.

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franchasng:
She said she needs a husband and you that is not in her shoes keep repeating that she does not need a husband....listen my dear sister, forget whatever experience you have had with some guys in the past or present....if you are fortunate and wise enough to attract a worthy husband, you will thank God everyday of your life. Forget stories....worthy husband take away a lot of worries from a woman that you may never know until you get to a certain stage in life.

I know not one not two, not three ladies; some not Nigerians but Americans seriously searching for husbands, not because they are broke or unemployed...these are well achieved ladies that can be classified as rich in the Nigerian term....so change your mentality about men....I am a married man and I am a blessing to my wife, her family and even friends, yes.....let me brag small. And there are millions of worthy husbands-to-be that will even be better than me....pray to find one of such and you need to change your mindset, attitude and demeanor to attract them.


Don't champion this kind of toxic advice for single ladies....I have a pretty daughter and I pray to God everyday that she will marry at the right age and to the best man that will treat her well. I don't pray my daughter remains single for life, its not a good thing....so advising single ladies not to think about getting married is toxic, it doesn't always end well.


All the men you are seeing that are single now will definitely get married...none of them wish to die single....it is mostly financial lack and constraint that is stopping most from settling down...and some its inability to meet the right lady and others its cos of the fun of being a bachelor and having too many options of ladies.


Please change your mindset for your own good, all the best and thank you for your attention to this matter

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Zooposki:
A partner might not necessarily mean your husband.

you are funny,the lady said she need a marriage partner which should be a husband not a business partner or any other type . wishing her a good partner is not bad na.just show pity

specialmati:
you are funny,the lady said she need a marriage partner which should be a husband not a business partner or any other type . wishing her a good partner is not bad na.just show pity

OK, I wish her a marriage partner, but the quality of her life might reduce further due to the nature of man. Pretty sure after a short while she will start wishing secretly that she was single again, like most married women.

abuhusna1:
Your 3 analogy is wrong. You can become grandma at 42 oŕ 44 years old if you give birth at 22 and your child als9 does give birth at 22 years old

A virgin mother?

You no hear say she be virgin abi you no read the post?

Letmecum:
She should meet a man to impregnate her. Why all this stress of getting husband marriage is not for everyone. if she have given a man chance to impregnate her she would be very happy by now seeing her kid. Sometimes we miss calculate things and blame the world for our selfishness.

this is best advice so far.
After all she knows the father of her child or children even if the man denies she can always send the children to their father when the time comes.
Time will reach when she will really need those children or even a child but might be late .
I always advice any lady that is getting early or late 40 to get a guy to give u pregnant because this is ur signature,this is ur identify who is ur own who u can talk to who can see u through at ur old age and no body can do it perfect than ur blood, forget about how the society will look at u and focused on how u look urself. Even 99% of every marriages is all about children , why crying about marriage when u can get this thing done and be happy to urself forever especially when time is still on ur side .

She's from IBADAN, my eyes don c shege

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Zooposki:
You don't need a husband. You need someone that loves you, or rather you should learn to Iove yourself, then you would not need a husband, but rather a partner in the true sense.

I hope you realise that regarding the write-up you attached, every single statement therein can be reversed - i.e: that human males equally should not enter relationships with human females beyond for reproduction.

Same goes for the statement above. What do men need wives for? Are they not better off without?

First check her tribe, if it click what I'm thinking then lies your predicament!

Those particular set of people don't mind getting old unless them meet a rich achalugo man!

Zooposki:
You don't need a husband. You need someone that loves you, or rather you should learn to Iove yourself, then you would not need a husband, but rather a partner in the true sense.

Suspected les. Anyway na you get your life. Wetin concern me

Na tha ur spiritual problem be the problem.
The risk too high.
I no fit follow my fellow man drag babe not to talk of spirit.
Med o!!!

immortalcrown:
It is obvious that her virginity is not the reason she is still unmarried.

Many issues with her:
1.
No father.

2.
Her sibling also has issues which are not disclosed.

3.
Children call her grandma, meaning she looks older than her age. 46 is normally not old enough to be mistaken for a grandma.

No.3 scared the shit outta me
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Zooposki:
OK, I wish her a marriage partner, but the quality of her life might reduce further due to the nature of man. Pretty sure after a short while she will start wishing secretly that she was single again, like most married women.

you have something against the person just wish her well that's al.if she get a good partner and play her own part of being a good party too.then it will be done on Earth as it's done in heaven

Just relate with good people...
Someone could recommend you base on the character they see in you to a responsible man..

Most marriages came on connections too

Time will come when many stupiid will realize what they did to themselves

She should hustle and create an enduring investment and prepare for care home. The chance of meeting a single man at that age bracket is almost impossible..probably divorcee, widower, married men or baby daddies...her character go bad.