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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Anonimoux: 5:44pm On Jun 28, 2025
Hey bro, thank you for being honest and open. That alone is a major first step. What you’ve described is more than just a physical habit—it’s a spiritual trap.

What you’re dealing with is not normal lust; it’s deep bondage likely tied to marine spirits and sexual soul ties formed from your first experience.

The good news is: you can be free.

But it’s not just by “trying harder.” You need to turn your life over to Jesus Christ fully—not religiously, but relationally. He is the only one that has the power to break spiritual chains and heal your inner man.

Here’s what I suggest:

1. Give your life to Jesus genuinely. Talk to Him, surrender everything.

2. Begin deep fasting and prayer—not casually, but seriously.

3. Target your prayers at marine spirits and sexual covenants. Ask for the blood of Jesus to break every tie.

4. Start studying the Word and listening to teachings that awaken your spirit. Apostle Joshua Selman, Apostle Arome Osayi, and others speak powerfully on deliverance and identity.

5. Surround yourself with accountability—godly brothers who will help you stay strong.

You’re not alone. Many have walked this road and found healing. That feeling of emptiness isn’t your portion. There’s still a great man inside of you, and God can restore everything—your purpose, peace, and even your future family.

Jesus still saves and delivers, if you're willing.

Stay strong.

@KiNg0G
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by iykololo(m): 5:45pm On Jun 28, 2025
KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.
Get on your knees, raise your right hand and repeat after me: My FATHER My FATHER, who do me this kind thing. I pour myself spit!
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by loffyloffy: 5:46pm On Jun 28, 2025
fuckingAyaya:
this is too wrong, una go make people to dey die in silence rather than bringing their problem to a public forum for advice.
As rough as that advice sounds, it might be the best advice for him.

The guy has gotten so used to relating with ladies in that class, that it might be difficult to near impossible for him to relate with a lady that lacks that tendency.

So his best bet might be to look for one of them and marry and be prepared to cope with all the associated bagages
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by fuckingAyaya(m): 5:50pm On Jun 28, 2025
Exousiang01:
Oga no be prayer.
When are you black people going to get it right that everything is not spiritual.
This is an addiction, what he needs is discipline and therapy.
Its a psychological thing since it started at his developmental stage in JSS2 it means the only women he has actually ever known are the prostitutes.

Even thw Bible talks about the renewal of the mind.
The mad man Jesus delivered in the bible returned in "his right mind"
You can be delivered and still have the wrong mind.

So deliverance and the renewal of the mind are two different things
if he visit any therapist and they are able to make him quit I will transfer 100k to him. You think say na beans? Those engaged in masturbation tell them to visit the best therapist in the world for help 😆
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by fuckingAyaya(m): 5:53pm On Jun 28, 2025
Brazino:
Your advice is good but your moniker betrays you
judging a book by it cover in this planet? Take am play first
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Bigcowhorn:
Caaz:
Apologies to the woman that would eventually husba(nd) you.
The Eggstra energy she would use in visiting prayer houses, na only God know.
Stop talking nonsense I have been in his shoes before

I'm happily married now with a strong dislike for any kind of sex linked to monetary rewards

Olosho.., the kind of hatred I have for them now amazes even me


All the op needs is a strong will and a good woman he really likes
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Nelochukwu: 6:35pm On Jun 28, 2025
musicwriter:
First of all, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you, and you didn't commit any so called sin, except that you seem to be biting more than you can chew.

As long as you're an adult, that's actually what God wants you to do. Or would God prefer that you rape someone?

All you have to do is learn to take your due share. Too much of everything is bad, including drinking too much water or eating too much
Huh huh huh huhyour second paragraph "that's what God wants him to do"? Which God? To be sleeping with different holes? Abi what exactly r you insinuating?
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Sammy5413(m): 6:40pm On Jun 28, 2025
I pity you bro
May God help ur soul
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Brazino(m): 6:56pm On Jun 28, 2025
fuckingAyaya:
judging a book by it cover in this planet? Take am play first
Na how you dress, them go address you o
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Kobojunkie: 7:11pm On Jun 28, 2025
reubenobi:
✓ by their fruits, you will know the ones for JESUS. A good tree produces a good fruit and a bad tree produces a bad fruit. But how can you be able to know these fruits when you don't have the Spirit of GOD in you?
You mean I should have your Christian spirit which has so far produced over 46,000 different fruits all of them which suggest different images of Jeezus that can never be reconciled as one even under the very same banner that is Christianity? I will pass abeg! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Successsearch90(m): 7:26pm On Jun 28, 2025
Omihanifa:
Since you no know it's a problem, just change your lifestyle
If it was that easy, he wouldn't be here...
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by reubenobi(m): 7:27pm On Jun 28, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You mean I should have your Christian spirit which has so far produced over 46,000 different fruits all of them which suggest different images of Jeezus that can never be reconciled as one even under the very same banner that is Christianity? I will pass abeg! 🥱🥱🥱
if you genuinely want to know the truth about GOD, it is only by HIS Spirit you can achieve that. HE reveals HIMSELF to those that deligentely seek HIM. I tell you the truth, the devil too trys to masquerade himself as an agent of light and has led many to the wrong path.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Kobojunkie: 7:32pm On Jun 28, 2025
reubenobi:
➜if you genuinely want to know the truth about GOD, it is only by HIS Spirit you can achieve that. HE reveals HIMSELF to those that deligentely seek HIM. I tell you the truth, the devil too trys to masquerade himself as an agent of light and has led many to the wrong path.
Your Christian gods are abominations to me. I don't genuinely wish to be caught in any religious delusions. 😑😑😑
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by reubenobi(m): 7:35pm On Jun 28, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Your Christian gods are abominations to me. I don't genuinely wish to be caught in any religious delusions. 😑😑😑
There is only one GOD in all the earth and is through JESUS who has redeemed us from our sin you can get to HIM. HE is the passage to get to GOD. HE reveals HIMSELF to those who genuinely seek to know him and know the truth.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Kobojunkie: 7:40pm On Jun 28, 2025
reubenobi:
✓ There is only one GOD in all the earth and is through JESUS who has redeemed us from our sin you can get to HIM. HE is the passage to get to GOD. HE reveals HIMSELF to those who genuinely seek to know him and know the truth.
Lies upon lies. There are over 4000 known deities out there with Christianity boasting of over 46,000 different images of the one. 🥱🥱

Don't you ever get sick and tired of the brain washing? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by reubenobi(m): 7:42pm On Jun 28, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Lies upon lies. There are over 4000 known deities out there with Christianity boasting of over 46,000 different images of the one. 🥱🥱

Don't you ever get sick and tired of the brain washing? 🥱🥱🥱
Do you believe in the existence of a GOD?
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Kobojunkie: 7:45pm On Jun 28, 2025
reubenobi:
Do you believe in the existence of a GOD?
Your Christian/religious/traditional delusions are an abomination to me. All lies without substance. I don't believe in or care for any of it. What I wonder is why you lot continue to stay blind to reality. undecided
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by therajah: 7:47pm On Jun 28, 2025
You need Jesus Christ. Would you give your life to Him and be saved. He will break the chains that entangle you
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by DrAkpa(m): 7:56pm On Jun 28, 2025
Love800:
What causes prostrate cancer?

Can you lecture us pls?

Thank you.
Inadequate sex for an adult male is a major cause of prostate issues which lead to cancer
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Wenonawde(m): 8:16pm On Jun 28, 2025
Any other advice people give you without Accepting Christ, I mean accepting Christ and know him deeply is nothing.. what can save you is holy sprit because your mind and flesh need to be purify with the blood of of the savior lord Jesus Christ.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Saig: 8:17pm On Jun 28, 2025
KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.
Find the Church of Christ nearest you for worship bro. God will wash you clean and deliver you
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Love800(m): 8:29pm On Jun 28, 2025
Are you joking or what pls?

Where is the prostrate in the human body if i may ask?
Is it an organ?
DrAkpa:
Inadequate sex for an adult male is a major cause of prostate issues which lead to cancer
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by CaptainFM1: 8:40pm On Jun 28, 2025
KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.
Just make one of them your wife. It might just be the best decision you'll ever make. Not like you will still not cheat afterwards.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Habib101: 8:44pm On Jun 28, 2025
Apply discipline nothing is impossible.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by akpumping7720(m): 8:49pm On Jun 28, 2025
DuttyChuks:
Things dey happen shaa! Try as much as you can to relocate or change your environment.
Where he wan relocate to in Nigeria wey he no go see asewo house or hook up babes. Even for North sef Dem plenty
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by goran3310(m): 8:55pm On Jun 28, 2025
KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.
♥️🙋🏻
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Blitzerz: 9:08pm On Jun 28, 2025
Pootle:
you a finished man, but there is away out jus marry one of the hookup babes
Learn how to talk to people that are opening up
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Blackmercyvelly: 9:35pm On Jun 28, 2025
You too young to start complaining now make it to age of 60 in prostitution business and after that Jesus Christ will marry you
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Nokio2: 9:38pm On Jun 28, 2025
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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by HaneefahRN(f): 9:41pm On Jun 28, 2025
Please stay single for the sake of one innocent woman. Continue to enjoy your escapades, marriage won't change you
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Warmaterial(m): 9:55pm On Jun 28, 2025
Why always every issue here you will see people telling the Op to pray to God... This is an addiction which can only be solved by the Op. Try get a wife, a young girl of 18- 20 your problem solved.
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