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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by mosicola(m): 10:22pm On Jun 28, 2025
Bros relax. Even us here,na prostitutes in form of girlfriends that every man is knacking.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by JustPowerApps(m): 10:37pm On Jun 28, 2025
There is no big deal there as long as you have the money, all girls are bitches, one loyal girl is another man's LovePeddler.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by meobizy(m): 11:00pm On Jun 28, 2025
I don’t see a problem.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Komo4dmoney: 11:15pm On Jun 28, 2025
You probably won’t want to hear this because of your religious mindset, but honestly, the poster’s problem has nothing to do with Jesus. He doesn’t need deliverance or a pastor - he needs a therapist. But you see, we Africans...

DaCharis2016:
Draw nearer to Jesus Christ, He will wash you as white as snow.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by mirrael68(m): 11:17pm On Jun 28, 2025
KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.
Since you have realized and cried out, may God help you. Run to him quickly because this one na death sentence.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by DrAkpa(m): 12:12am On Jun 29, 2025
Love800:
Are you joking or what pls?

Where is the prostrate in the human body if i may ask?
Is it an organ?
Please how old are you tand what is your level of education, before I can decide if I can engage you further?


Not enough original content
Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by jaxxy(m): 3:32am On Jun 29, 2025
KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.
There are many solutions to ur problems but a silver bullet will be to go completely celibate. I don't support masturbation but I think it's better to masturbate than sleep with a prostitute however self discipline and control over ur body and emotions is priceless.

A habit is an addictive cycle but it can be broken.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by blesdman(m): 4:54am On Jun 29, 2025
Mariangeles:
Honestly, that was the first thought that came to my mind.
Imagine all that she'll have to deal with. 😟


Op, you messed yourself up real bad, right from the moment you had your first sex with a prostitute.
You created a pattern.
You need deliverance.
With a good girl, u will forget about prostitutes...
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by okeke6969: 5:41am On Jun 29, 2025
KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.
You are never ready, continue until you get a trophy.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by greypencils: 5:59am On Jun 29, 2025
KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.
An habit you picked up in JSS2 has become more than an habit. It has become a lifestyle. You basically need therapy. I don't know how much good that will do at 40. But it's a start.

I would have said that you should get a regular girl but even I won't want to sentence that girl to a life with you unless that habit has been curbed totally.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Scamburster(m): 6:04am On Jun 29, 2025
RichBoy247:
I have fuccked prostitutes from Nigeria to America, to Australia and to Europe. My brother, nothing do you. Stop thinking like Choir Master wey dey Bleep Pastor’s wife.

But get married, don’t be unfortunate in life. By now your children should be in their early teens. Get married and continue the game
You meant cheating on your wife?

Because I want to marry so let me understand very well 🙄.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by greypencils: 6:06am On Jun 29, 2025
ThaThinka:
Bro, I will just advise you to repent and pray to God to both forgive and save you in Jesus name. I don't think sins of the flesh (specifically, sexual sins) are that easy to stop without the help of God.

Hey, this is not me saying you're a sinner and I am not.

However, I believe it should be easier to stop sleeping with prostitutes and call girls. Try to get yourself a lady you'd like to marry instead. You're definitely of age! Getting married would, at least, help ensure you have someone that could help fulfil your desire for intimacy.
People who started masturbating at age 21 still find it difficult to curb the habit not to talk less of a sexual habit that he picked up since JSS2. It is going to be an uphill task dropping that habit. And believe me, he has already tried to stop it, He can't except through therapy or divine intervention.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by bigcasava1(m): 6:49am On Jun 29, 2025
KiNg0G:
To be sincere I got disvirgined by prostitute while back when I was still in secondary school Jss2 to be precise. I still remember that day clearly I met with one of my class mate who took it upon himself to show me different joints since that day my life has never been the same.

I don't approach women not like I can't but I find it stressful when I could just go to a joint and pay to be serviced.

Years has gone pass I have graduated from arshawol joints to hook ups which we all know is very expensive. It's not like I can't keep up with the lifestyle but I am tired of having to live this way year in and year out with no changes.

Every morning when I wake up with a different girl beside me I feel emptiness within me like a loser. I might decide to stop but immediately as time goes I relapse.. it's almost like I have been programmed this way.

All my age groups are married with kids of their own but I keep on dumping mine in condoms every night.
look for one of the olosho marry
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Exousiang01(m): 7:10am On Jun 29, 2025
fuckingAyaya:
if he visit any therapist and they are able to make him quit I will transfer 100k to him. You think say na beans? Those engaged in masturbation tell them to visit the best therapist in the world for help 😆
I said Discipline and therapy.

You picked the one that you want to argue with.

You think Pastors who masturbate are not prayerful?

Its is a psychological thing.

Check all those who are addicted to masturbation, they started in their developmental stages. Anyone who starts masturbation at the developmental stage will find it difficult to get rid of it without therapy and Discipline......
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by 2ng2ng(m): 7:42am On Jun 29, 2025
Brother, thank you for your honesty—it takes courage to speak up. What you’re feeling is real, and it’s not too late to reset. You’re not alone; many have walked this road and found healing. The cycle you're in can be broken, but it starts with a decision and support. Consider therapy or counseling—it’s not weakness, it’s wisdom. Reconnect with your values and surround yourself with people who uplift you. A new chapter is possible—but it begins now, with you. Don’t give up on the better version of yourself.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by erico2k2(m): 8:44am On Jun 29, 2025
Caaz:
Apologies to the woman that would eventually husba(nd) you.
The Eggstra energy she would use in visiting prayer houses, na only God know.
Realy, nothing is wrong with the guy,unless he got something back from them
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by TheGift: 9:13am On Jun 29, 2025
free2ryhme:
After mentioning these nonsense you still posted for advice from under age children on nairaland. Have some shame
Is it not better that he knows and admits his issues?
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Westwood2580: 11:32am On Jun 29, 2025
BeginsAtHome:
Choose one from the lot.

Nothing bad in it.

Mary Magdalene was a prostitute at least...

Let he who is without sin cast you a stone...
Where do you read this? I'll love to know the bible passage if you dont mind to share.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by MrGoldman: 11:47am On Jun 29, 2025
Mariangeles:
This is not about anybody intimidating him.
That emptiness, that overwhelming void he carries with him on the inside is enough to tell him all is not well.

The truth is, a lot of people are in that situation.
but he is doing well in life
Lol sinfull lifestyle is expensive
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Mariangeles(f): 12:04pm On Jun 29, 2025
MrGoldman:
but he is doing well in life
Lol sinfull lifestyle is expensive
Is his soul doing well?
That is the question.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Nijimog: 1:33pm On Jun 29, 2025
Jamsam:
Pray for yourself and marry a woman from your believed religion also the person should be a prayer warriors with a high libido, so that she can satisfy you, you won't have time to think of olosho of hookups babes
how can a sister be a prayer warrior with high libido, you just dey talk for talking sake

Once a person is truely sanctified with the holy spirit, the tendency of having sex reduces drastically due to immense training of their mind and willpower overtime
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by free2ryhme: 3:03pm On Jun 29, 2025
TheGift:
Is it not better that he knows and admits his issues?
Admits to children? How is that even better 😒
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by thonyokun(m): 4:00pm On Jun 29, 2025
Divert your money to something else like buying a land and start building.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Jamsam: 5:15pm On Jun 29, 2025
Nijimog:
how can a sister be a prayer warrior with high libido, you just dey talk for talking sake

Once a person is truely sanctified with the holy spirit, the tendency of having sex reduces drastically due to immense training of their mind and willpower overtime
I have an hijabian sister, it her husband that disvirgin her, she pray alot also she has a high libido, she never cheated and her husband his not always around, my conclusion is if someone has a high libido and you can't control it that person will have issues (I am not talking for talking sake)
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by ThaThinka: 6:43pm On Jun 29, 2025
Kwinesther:
But the girl he would be marrying should be one of the prostitutes he's sleeping with.
I don't know about that sha. smiley I don't think he's the only one that has been sleeping with those ladies.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by fuckingAyaya(m): 6:54pm On Jun 29, 2025
Brazino:
Na how you dress, them go address you o
have you watched a video of a phyno's bouncer tryna bounce zenco from his mother's funeral because he zenco wore a simple cloth? Don't judge a book by it cover in 2025
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by Nnamdipapa(m): 7:08pm On Jun 29, 2025
Op, you are better than lots of your friends who are in a miserable marriage with lousy kids. Never feel bad about yourself.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by DaCharis2016: 7:14pm On Jun 29, 2025
sprints1:
isaiah 1:18 Numbers 23:19 and 2 cor 5:17 and Romans 1:6... Read your bible judiously and in no time u will become a pastor and you will open your church.
Thank you, very much
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by zebra(m): 9:13pm On Jun 29, 2025
Hmmm!
U can continue if u wish. Less stress sha. All the best.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by TheGift: 9:38pm On Jun 29, 2025
free2ryhme:
Admits to children? How is that even better 😒
Oh! so you're a child?

I am guessing you are, since you assume the only people on Nairaland are children.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Now I'm Close To 40 by free2ryhme: 10:03pm On Jun 29, 2025
TheGift:
Oh! so you're a child?

I am guessing you are, since you assume the only people on Nairaland are children.
You guess and assume erroneously. Nairaland is filled with children
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