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Not having focus in life (your future) and not thinking about your legacy (what you leave behind).

You'll just be flowing with the wind. Anywhere Belle face.

Also letting your joystick direct your affairs and letting women manipulate you.

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6Fs you want to give a fork and spoon for as a man (in no particular order)

1. Family
2. Friends
3. Food
4. Fun
5. Focus
6. Failures

Quote me if you want an explanation

cultist and drugs
gambling
woman
joining terrorist group like ipob and Boko Haram

1. Women
2. Drugs
3. Gambling and betting
4. Laziness
5. Bad friends

...most importantly, not putting God first

The answer is in Proverbs chapter 5 from verse one to the end

Any abuse of mind altering substances - from alcohol to marijuana to hard narcotics.

Addiction and No of fear of God

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Wrong friends. Believe me bad friends with negative influence can mess up your life

Nai make many dey fail exam.
What is the quickest way a...?


Many dey list..


Why you no go fail exam or interview?


One quick way to mess up one's life is...
***Intake of hard drugs

Not being closer to God and not yielding to His advise concerning life.

Sleeping with every woman that comes your way.

Spending more than your earnings .

Not planning for the future .

Not truthful to yourself by living fake life .

People pleaser, etc.

Bad wife...... Making matter worse, you love her much.

Drugs... Like hard ones!

Sleeping with married women
Drugs
Desperation to make money illegal
Gambling
Lack of focus

1.Drugs
2.womanising
3.gambling
4.cultism
6.dishonesty
7.fake lifestyle
8. Disregarding elders and perent
9.hanging around with the wrong friends
10.Disregarding God

Fvcking banies , masturbation, drugs and the likes are just a path bcs we have a lot of successful guys who live long enough who doing these , the most destructive things are:
Negative mindset and fear is the surest way to destroy yourself .
Though the aforementioned can only affect you a bit but not totally destroy you

No other habit affects your destiny like pre/extra marital sex....

It reduces a responsible man to a loaf of bread.

Playing baba Ijebu
Taking hard drugs
Masturbation
Laziness
Lack of focus
Fake life.

Through untreatable sexual infection or committing murder.

A man can mess up his life if he's doesn't have his own business. As for me now, am suffering as a type 1 diabetic as I work for a pay that's no helping me to live. I'm depressed

I eat only once everyday. I don't eat on Saturdays. I don't have a brother nor sister

Brazino:
What is the quickest or fastest way a young guy can mess up his entire life?

Smoking cigarettes.
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flokii:
In no specific order:

1. Drugs
2. Gambling
3. Cultism

Drugs will eventually drive you crazy, gambling will eat up your savings and cultism will make you lose your peace of mind and productive time.

Do you know gambling does all the three
Seriously oooooooooo

A man can quickly destroy his life through a combination of impulsive decisions, poor habits, toxic relationships, and neglect of responsibilities. Here are some of the quickest and most common ways:

1. Addiction (Drugs, Alcohol, Gambling, Porn)

Rapidly drains finances, health, trust, and relationships.

Leads to job loss, legal trouble, and mental breakdown.


2. Crime and Illegal Hustles

Fast money attracts fast ruin. Getting arrested, jailed, or killed is often just a matter of time.

Loss of freedom and future opportunities.


3. Neglecting Health

Ignoring mental and physical health leads to irreversible damage.

Unchecked stress, bad diet, no exercise = slow decay.


4. Toxic Relationships

Staying with or chasing the wrong person out of loneliness or lust can destroy peace, drain resources, and ruin reputation.

Emotional abuse or domestic drama spirals quickly.


5. Living for Validation (Social Media, Peer Pressure)

Chasing clout or comparing constantly breeds insecurity and foolish spending.

Leads to debt, anxiety, and fake friendships.


6. Refusing to Work or Learn

Laziness and entitlement kill potential.

No skills = no income = no respect = no progress.


7. Reckless Spending and Debt

Living beyond your means catches up fast.

Loans, gambling, and get-rich-quick schemes end in shame.


8. Uncontrolled Anger and Ego

One bad outburst can cost your job, relationship, or life.

Pride ruins chances to grow or be helped.


9. Abandoning Responsibilities

Walking out on family, kids, or commitments haunts a man’s soul and legacy.

Creates lifelong regret and reputational damage.

10. Ignoring Purpose or Values

Drifting without direction makes a man a slave to random emotions and external events.

He becomes whatever the world makes of him usually, a cautionary tale.

The number 1 is gambling. The no 2 is drugs. The combination is death

we had a guy working with us who was using.

very capable guy

one day he had a major episode on site. went crazy. was stark naked, waving knife etc.

that was the end of his employment. he is yet to fully recover. i was actually considering engaging him again, then he relapsed

so drugs is one way

gambling is another

also erm - the wrong woman

one of my colleagues started dating an expensive chick. next thing dude started small fraud here and there. he was caught and his boss covered it up. then he did another and this one got out. dude was sacked. very sad because like six months later - we all cashed out with exit package

Wenonawde:
Clubbing every week
Funking every girls that comes ur way
Drug
Marry the wrong woman
Giving woman head
Ignoring GOD
Pleasing the flesh
Procrastinating
Listen to every advice
Pleasing people
Masturbating

Wowww You Nail it.

Clubbing every week
Funking every girls that comes ur way
Drug
Marry the wrong woman
Giving woman head
Ignoring GOD
Pleasing the flesh
Procrastinating
Listen to every advice
Pleasing people
Masturbating

drug addiction
Gambling addiction
Dating Delilah's apprentice

telling people ur secrets.

unprotected sex with multiple partners, simple.

Allow procrastination plus any addiction of your choice to run your life for you.

iReddington:
Betting

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exactly
Betting has ruined a lot of lives of young men

Gambling and betting like me, it has really messed me up big time

Investing in a woman.

That's the quickest way.. theu will tell u in the face "what have done for me sef"