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That is for you,me my wife knows everything about me.I know about her.secrete kills relationship faster,a woman that will bad will be bad.

eniteden:
Cry in the shadow? Na wetin my 80+ mother customer dey always tell me be this, "Una dey die quick because of una no dey gree share una problem" Nai make we dey last past una See me 80+ but my husband don die even before i clock 50" Make una dey always share nothing human ears never hear before.

Oga be a man, be a man nai make man dey pass Kpai go, another man go come chop beans wey e no plant guuuuuuuyyyyyyyssssss? If e pain u cry abeg cry well well, make she see say that situation dey weigh u down no form come die troway if not somebody else go oil that exhaust before one week .

U don see oyibo man dey hide tears? African women want u to act strong while them dey free to pour out their own emotion thereby making them free and live longer meanwhile they love those oyibo men for tv wey dey cry well a infact them dey cry wit them sometimes, Oga i say cryam out not in public but face her in private face to face cry for her hand infact make the tear touch her lip make she taste if na real or fake

May we Live Long

If only these men knew this truth you shared! Men are taking their lives instead of crying out loud and proud! You are huMAN! Let it out.

That's a time bomb!

Its suppose to be your own secret!

polite2:
Then it's not ryt yet...my wife knows my exact bank account.. infact she manages my account..yet we ve been cool over 15yrs..

Stay single biko

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Samantha125:
I know all of these points about my husband apart from his personal bank balance, but we have a joint bank account for house hold essentials and emergencies... He also doesn't know my personal bank balance.

We also share each other's location...

You see how women have lizard brain..

You only know what he chose to tell you. Very few men reveal their deepest trauma. If at all.

Women too don't reveal.

Well, his life, his choice... You can never know every single thing about a person anyways.

As long as they won't affect our marriage in the long run, then I don't care.

Godfullsam:
what you think you know about his deepest fears or darkest secret may not be the deepest fears afterall.

Why pls?

I think she has to know, so as to be grateful to you and also acknowledge your kindness.

Bahamas95:
9. Don't tell her everytime you send money to members of your family.

I keep seeing the word kayamata here but I don't know what it is, so what's a kayamata?

bigcasava1:
what are you using on him, kayamata abi? You try well well 😊😊

But why would he offend me in the first place though?

TemmyT002:
Please don't show him pepper anytime he offends you

Love800:
Why pls?

I think she has to know, so as to be grateful to you and also acknowledge your kindness.

That's if you did it for her family member(s).

I made that mistake years ago with my ex girlfriends and won't repeat it as a married man even though I love my wife so much. Some things are better left unsaid.

A day will come when she would tell you to assist someone from her family, just pray make you get money to send.......

SifonAbasi:
Nobody should have a secret. It destroys a relationship faster than cheating.

shift joor, who keep secrets more than women? A man has an unpredictable life that keeps him being a man.

Kobicove:
This is not true.

There are some sensitive info you do not need to tell your spouse

don't mind that hypocrite. Who keeps secret more than her gender? Their secrets even die with them.

Brazino:
No matter the love, don't ever try to share these few Secrets with a woman. They may comfort and empathize with you today, and go on to use it against you tommorow.

Some guys, when they drink or need sex seriously, they go to any extent to spill out some very deep secrets. Men, you'll learn the hard way if you share these secrets.

You can add other secrets to these if you feel the list is not complete.

Secrets you should never tell your woman?
Here’s the truth every man needs to know:

A chronic, broke and irredeemable bachelor has drop a quote.

Get married after twenty years come back, drop these same and exact quotes.

SifonAbasi:
Nobody should have a secret. It destroys a relationship faster than cheating.

Do not trust in a friend; Do not put your confidence in a companion; Guard the doors of your mouth From her who lies in your bosom.
-Micah 7:5

Not all questions require answers.

Only what adds value to the union is important.

Love800:
That's a time bomb!

Its suppose to be your own secret!

I don't agree with you... Wat if anything happens to you today? De bank will just eat ur hard earn money.. I trust my wife on dat and we been good going to 2 decades

Some of you think life is PS 5 that you'll go and cry in the shadows, then bounce back..
You have no business being with any woman you can't confide or put your trust in.. if you both can be seeing each other's nak.edness and be fvcking morning and night, is it your issues you can't discuss together?
Abegi.

Brazino:
No matter the love, don't ever try to share these few Secrets with a woman. They may comfort and empathize with you today, and go on to use it against you tommorow.

Some guys, when they drink or need sex seriously, they go to any extent to spill out some very deep secrets. Men, you'll learn the hard way if you share these secrets.

You can add other secrets to these if you feel the list is not complete.

Secrets you should never tell your woman?
Here’s the truth every man needs to know:

There should be no secrets between a husband and a wife except its not a valid Christian marriage. In christian marriage 1+1=1.

I made the No. 2 mistake and it hunted me till we separated.

HelenaWills:
Men no fit even cry in peace? Now they need to rent a new apartment because they want to cry and be emotional?

Na madness dey worry the OP and the commenters saying men shouldn’t cry in his partner arms. Kids wey never see life.

Samantha125:
I keep seeing the word kayamata here but I don't know what it is, so what's a kayamata?

something weh every woman knows, ask the nearest woman close to you

I just wasted my data and time. If you're in a genuine relationship,there is no secret your partner should not know. It strengthens the bonds. Some may hurt but it's better. Hiding secrets from him or her will destroy the relationship at the end of the day.

That's just the truth dear, same blood, same flesh and same brain even if strength differs no let anybody deceive u as a man.

A good woman will hold her husband tight as hell and console him all through

And even reassure them of how much the stand by them .

Opss is that u? You are so beautiful

Double0h7:
If only these men knew this truth you shared! Men are taking their lives instead of crying out loud and proud! You are huMAN! Let it out.

Wow.

I really appreciate.

Yea. Your advice is worth it.

Have a great day.

Bahamas95:
That's if you did it for her family member(s).

I made that mistake years ago with my ex girlfriends and won't repeat it as a married man even though I love my wife so much. Some things are better left unsaid.

A day will come when she would tell you to assist someone from her family, just pray make you get money to send.......

Alright.

You made alot of sense though.

I really appreciate.

polite2:
I don't agree with you... Wat if anything happens to you today? De bank will just eat ur hard earn money.. I trust my wife on dat and we been good going to 2 decades

eniteden:
That's just the truth dear, same blood, same flesh and same brain even if strength differs no let anybody deceive u as a man.

A good woman will hold her husband tight as hell and console him all through

And even reassure them of how much the stand by them .

Opss is that u? You are so beautiful

Thanks 🙏.

I guess a lot of people are just getting married for the sake of getting married because how can they not cry in front of their spouse

Samantha125:
I know all of these points about my husband apart from his personal bank balance, but we have a joint bank account for house hold essentials and emergencies... He also doesn't know my personal bank balance.

We also share each other's location...

Madam rest. Having a back up story and analysis on every thread makes you a liar.

Samantha125:
I know all of these points about my husband apart from his personal bank balance, but we have a joint bank account for house hold essentials and emergencies... He also doesn't know my personal bank balance.

We also share each other's location...

Madam rest. Having a back p story and analysis on every thread makes you a liar.

I wonder o

If u can't express ursef to ur spouse why marry? Spouse are ur secret keeper, ur confidant in times of trouble, your elixir of hope show them when u are truly hurt not just when u are happy.

Double0h7:
Thanks 🙏.

I guess a lot of people are just getting married for the sake of getting married because how can they not cry in front of their spouse