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StPete:
People get stupidly emotional when they read posts like this knowing fully well women can be manipulative.

What concerns 1k with sleeping with him at night if not to use that to emotionally stare the wrong sets of people?

What if that 1k is all the man had and had no nothing for himself to eat?

What does the woman do to contribute to the welfare of the family in these hard times.

Always listen to both parties before u descend heavily on one side especially ye men on this forum. One day, a woman will criticize you and lie against you, and people will judge you bitterly without hearing your own side of the matter

So the poverty is an excuse to send the woman packing with 5 children? Who is he leaving the children for to train? You?

Ishilove:
So the poverty is an excuse to send the woman packing with 5 children? Who is he leaving the children for to train? You?

Don’t be emotional. Listen to the man’s side is what I’m saying before you judge based on your emotional stupidity

You're very correct women can be manipulative and very deceptive, I know she's lying many premature minds like taking sides especially when it comes to such issues men are always to be blamed beware of this eve gender their tongues are so slippery

StPete:
People get stupidly emotional when they read posts like this knowing fully well women can be manipulative.

What concerns 1k with sleeping with him at night if not to use that to emotionally stare the wrong sets of people?

What if that 1k is all the man had and had no nothing for himself to eat?

What does the woman do to contribute to the welfare of the family in these hard times.

Always listen to both parties before u descend heavily on one side especially ye men on this forum. One day, a woman will criticize you and lie against you, and people will judge you bitterly without hearing your own side of the matter

StPete:
People get stupidly emotional when they read posts like this knowing fully well women can be manipulative.

What concerns 1k with sleeping with him at night if not to use that to emotionally stare the wrong sets of people?

What if that 1k is all the man had and had no nothing for himself to eat?

What does the woman do to contribute to the welfare of the family in these hard times.

Always listen to both parties before u descend heavily on one side especially ye men on this forum. One day, a woman will criticize you and lie against you, and people will judge you bitterly without hearing your own side of the matter

some boys on this forum have clearly never experienced a a NIGERIAN woman and they are are gonna learn the hard way. They are gonna learn.

SIRWILLIAMS7:
Uwooooo



But with five children one thousand is just enough for what she bought.

I ask again: why do women go to school? You're in the same class with a man.

And boom, he's the one to marry you. He's the one to provide for you.

If you're going to attain any form of training as well as the man, be willing and ready to take up the same responsibilities you're expecting from the man.

In all, we learn from you.

I think say say nah only my head this question dey play.. and many times in school they have proved to be intelligent. But some how society and marital institution want to make you think they are handicapped or highly disadvantaged.

StPete:
Don’t be emotional. Listen to the man’s side is what I’m saying before you judge based on your emotional stupidity

The only one showcasing emotional stupidity here is you because nothing justifies putting innocent children in harm's way. Telling me to "listen to the man's side" and ignoring the part where he kicked his own children to the streets already shows your own reasoning level.

Stop dodging the question. Who is he leaving 5 kids for? If the woman offended him to the point that he can no longer live with her, did the 5 children offend him too? The children are also out on the streets with the mother. What justifies that? If asking hard questions is emotional stupidity then you and the usëless husband are in the same category.

omooba969:
Ok cool. 🙂

Yeah..
Good that you Gerrit.

bionixs:
I wouldn't do that and I have sisters that I wouldn't wish such ordeal on. However, until you hear the man's side, don't conclude. I know there are many lousy men out there but not all men.

Close to my area, many women who know how little the financial income of their husbands are, still split the money for food to pay for asoebi, just to belong. They would rather choose to buy dresses over feeding their children well. I pity men sha. It is rampart here.
I have witnessed women who walked in to buy medicine, pay for them and connived with sellers to increase the price and record it as on credit for the husband to come and pay. They would always come back to collect it.

Aren't you satisfied that the man didn't raise his hands on her?

When did sex, especially in marriage,become a tool for tasking or holding ones' spouse ransom, even punishment for infraction

I am not satisfied that he didn't beat her at all.

If you know you cannot be asking for sex after giving 1k to feed 6 people, then throw a tantrum and send the six people out to fend for themselves after a hungry person denies you sex, then why are you supporting another man for doing the same?

It means that you are a hypocrite and not a good person.

Because it is only a person that is full that can ask for sex. That man is immature and evil. A child in an adult's body. Tufiakwa! May his kind and your kind never find me and my family

I have learnered, sorry learned not to say a anything about a woman's complains in marriage...until I hear from the man!

So I say nothing...

If her version is true then the husband is a very useless man. 1k for five kids and the wife as well. 3k isn't even enough for a good meal these days for an individual, talk more of 6 humans. Yet, the foolish man still wan knack make another baby join. He should be arrested!

TONYE001:
...and also why a poor woman should never be moist?

Just going by your logic here.

Inukwa moist...hahaha

icankel:
There is more to this story.
The girl I helped train in school, helped her got a job then after she started meeting rich and more handsome guys she started giving me attitude. Each time I bring up the issue of marriage she will kick against it in one way or the other. When I told her to leave my house if she's not ready for marriage she said she will go then out of anger I asked to pack her things and go which she did, now she's telling everyone that I kicked her out of my house. A relationship of 4yrs

Bro please make sure you don't accept her back when she finally realizes her grave mistake. Again, never help a woman grow, she will develop wings and fly away...

YoungLionken:
✓ Bro please make sure you don't accept her back when she finally realizes her grave mistake. Again, never help a woman grow, she will develop wings and fly away...

Her grave mistake? Did you read at all? He said he kicked her out after realizing she is was not interested in marrying him. If he ever takes her back to date her again, it would be him making the grave mistake since they are both not headed in the same direction.

Madam, he can send you out o, that is his perogative but you see those his 5 children? Take them back to him sharp sharp and then dissappear from that place! Abi where did he say u should carry his children to? U can take the last born if he/ she is too young but leave his children for him. Also call neighbourhood people for him, if there is baale in your area, go and report him to them. Lazy he goat that cannot cater for his family yet wants to do sex so he can have more...

Why did he send the 5 kids out with their mother? Are they the ones that refused him or what is their offense? It seems the man has been looking for a way to avoid his responsibilities.