₦airaland Forum

RollinTNDA:
This is why I'm always ruthless with women. That gender is to evil if you allow them be at the upper hand

But men making similar statements are not evil? Uh?

I hope it comes to a point when we all grow above gender arguments and see ourselves as humans deserving respect, love, support, and loyalty from each other....irrespective of the gender. If we do, statements like this won't be made.

It is women who get married to men not the other way around. Though that doesn't mean a woman who a man married from Nigeria and takes to the UK won't still show him shege but what you need to know about women as a man is that your money is theirs, her money is hers. Once you know how they think, you will figure the rest out when doing anything with women.

The owner of that YouTube channel should please improve. His presentation is boring and archaic, sitting like robot and picking words slowly. No gesticulation, he can’t even move his head or talk well.

MrMandilas:
✓ She thinks she has an upper hand because she lives in UK. Time shall tell.

She does have exactly that, an upper hand, above majority of those back in Nigeria, particular those still looking for a way out. Even after spending 10 years there, she will still continue to have an upper hand.

Kobojunkie:
Na lie! Love has always been used for the benefit of one person or the other, particular the men folk. The major reason most of you are rattling about love now is that you realize that you yourself can also become a victim these days.

Everybody isn't like u or those u know that are looking for someone to use in the name of love.

Stories like these belong on gossip pages, shouldn't ever be considered for the front page

Amotolongbo:
She is still young.
Let’s wait for 5years to see if her story will change 😂

Hmmm, you just might be right, but hopefully women all over the world are waking up.

jaxxy:
✓ Everybody isn't like u or those u know that are looking for someone to use in the name of love.

Stop lying! Your forefathers used love to get free labor and possibly land for their farms. Your fathers used love to obtained low-cost homecare, sex, baby mama, nanny services, etc services for the forwarding of their dreams. These days, love costs a whole lot more. Many Nigerian men, especially the poor are wailing as a result. It has always been about benefits with men as the major benefactors until more recently.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! Your forefathers used love to get free land for their farms. Your fathers used love to obtained low-cost homecare, sex, baby mama, etc services for their lives. These days, love costs more and that is why many Nigerian men are wailing. It has always been about benefits with men as the major benefactors until more recently.

I'm sure u weren't there when ur fathers did whatever they did in the name of love but let's assume ure right. What's my business with what ur forefathers did or did not do?

Are u not a separate individual with ur independent thinking?

Only one in a 100 women will bring a man to the UK with their money. But men do that all the time. Now you can use this as a criteria to understand which gender truly loves or have a fragile heart

Amotolongbo:
She is still young.
Let’s wait for 5years to see if her story will change 😂

When a man says it you hail him. Continue living in 1521 we have passed you by. Listen eh, what's God for the goose is good for the gander. Make everyone face their battles. No carry anybody wey no be your children go anywhere

jaxxy:
✓ I'm sure u weren't there when ur fathers did whatever they did in the name of love but let's assume ure right. What's my business with what ur forefathers did or did not do?
Are u not a separate individual with ur independent thinking?

I don't need to have been there 24/7 to come to the realization that former benefits are no longer available and is thus the reason why many men are making so much noise, some going as far to demand that women they originally married as housewives now contribute to the financial needs of their families.

But if the man was the person in the UK, she would not mind him using his money to bring her over....... Men are just glorified ATM machines....... 🤣

Which kind loan is she still paying for 3 years........ 😂🤔

She is being realistic I believe. I think it behoves on the man to show some levels of commitment instead of the woman to singlehandedly relocate him all for love.

Kobojunkie:
I don't need to have been there 24/7 to come to the realization that former benefits are no longer available and is thus the reason why many men are making so much noise, some going as far to demand that women they originally married as housewives now contribute to the financial needs of their families.

Urr going off topic. I'm not talking about marriage. Just love in its purest form. Not every marriage either then or now is based on love. Most is based on convenience or selfish motives, business and opportunity.

im talking about real love.

I can only put my family where I will live as a king. I prefer to be a slave alone on a foreign land

As they say, women are in business while men in love. Are women truly capable of loving men for who they are as people, not what they've?

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That said, her tone in some of her responses really showed she meant what she uttered. It's her prerogative anyway.

Kobojunkie:
Na lie! Love has always been used for the benefit of one person or the other, particular the men folk. The major reason most of you are rattling about love now is that you realize that you yourself can also become a victim these days.

Hahahahahahahahaaha!
No lies, Kobo.
No lies at all.

Gerrard59:
As they say, women are in business while men in love. Are women truly capable of loving men for who they are as people, not what they've?

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That said, her tone in some of her responses really showed she meant what she uttered. It's her prerogative anyway.

Nobody loves anybody for just being human. Not men, not women. The fact that women want MOSTLY financial provision and men want other qualities, doesn't make men innocent.

TONYE001:
I hope it comes to a point when we all grow above gender arguments and see ourselves as humans deserving respect, love, support, and loyalty from each other....irrespective of the gender. If we do, statements like this won't be made.

Wake up and smell the coffee ☕️ oga ade!

You should know that it's in our nature to be selfish.

benuejosh:
With the unfortunate reasoning. But for correction sake, na man go marry you. You CAN'T marry a man.

The mumu....
She thinks say we be ......
As German shepherd dey think say we never get beta ekuke before wan come dey form only to find out say khaki no be leather come later pam

Nothing but toto to offer...this type dem

jaxxy:
✓ Urr going off topic. I'm not talking about marriage. Just love in its purest form. Not every marriage either then or now is based on love.
✓ Most is based on convenience or selfish motives, business and opportunity.
im talking about real love.

You and I have never, as Nigerians, known love in its purest forms --- or according to your imaginations-- so stop rambling about wetin you no know, abeg!

2. Love, as most humans will ever experience, is the transactional , many a times unbalanced version, that we can pretend.

3 Real love my arse.... You mean the psychotic delusions we tag "real love" where on partner sacrifices majorly for the benefit of the other --- ending up with the short end of the stick, of course. Abegi! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Most men too no wan marry na. She dey talk from experience.

pocohantas:
Nobody loves anybody for just being human. Not men, not women. The fact that women want MOSTLY financial provision and men want other qualities, doesn't make men innocent.

Fair deal then. Best of luck to both parties.

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What's wrong with what she's saying? Why would any sensible woman sponsor a man from Nigeria with their money? You have to be really stupid to do such a thing. If he wants want a relationship with you, let him come on his own and don't spend on dime on him, and moreover do your background check on him and hire a Private Investigator sef to make sure he doesn't have a wife and kids in Nigeria, or isn't attached to anyone in Nigeria, and before beginning relationship observe his character to ascertain the sort of person he is.

Lexusgs430:
✓ But if the man was the person in the UK, she would not mind him using his money to bring her over....... Men are just glorified ATM machines....... 🤣
✓ Which kind loan is she still paying for 3 years........ 😂🤔

It is the same way a man in Nigeria would expect her to raise money to help him relocate to the UK if he agrees to marry her. We have many stories from women who did just that.

2. Must as loan run according to your schedule?

Pls enjoy your spinster hood till 5yrs time and let's hear your take once more

Teymanhenry:
Only one in a 100 women will bring a man to the UK with their money. But men do that all the time. Now you can use this as a criteria to understand which gender truly loves or have a fragile heart

are you female? Or are you male? I'm confused sr/ma. Na man dey your profile pic 🥺

Danjuma04:
A UK based Nigerian lady has said during an interview that she cannot bring a Nigerian man to the UK. She says she will remain single instead of doing so claiming that she has been in the UK for 3 years and still paying off the loan she took to get to the UK.

She said she can only be in a relationship with a Nigerian man after he has relocated to the UK.

Watch.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xShSmGYHhsA

Where in nigeria do women marry men?
Or is she just outright stupid?

Nigerian men used to be proud and emulated by other African men. Today they are laughing stock, looking for any successful woman's to piggy back on out of Nigeria.

Where are men like our fathers; that did all it took to cater for us and our mothers? Where are those men that single handedly took their family abroad? Where are those men that usually travel back to Nigeria to marry and bring their wives abroad?

What we have today are nose piercing, hair braiding sissy boys looking out for already made women to leach on One of those sissy nigga like the one above me, is asking where women marry men in Nigeria. For your information they both marry each other, if you want to push it further (giving your knack for nonsense) technically according to the bible it is the woman marrying the man, since the man will leave his family to york with the woman