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UyaiIncomparabl:
Thanks.

Synonyms: Said, claimed, asserted. etc.

Do you get it?

Esthered:
Why do you need online validation or invalidating to make to make your decision?

I thought love conquers all.

UyaiIncomparabl:
If she's employable, employed like you postulated and industrious, then very well. That's a great step.

Financial stability is something that can be hard to hack especially in this part of the divide where one has to work thrice as hard as anything to break even. On the other hand, a lot of people are just late bloomers, had less access to information that could have helped them earn money or skills to pave way to their financial freedom, or were just plain unambitious or laid-back. And you know that thing they say about time? A lot of people do not utilise it well; they stay hoping that things will just metamorphose or would glide from one enjoyment to the other. Well, reality bites hard in the end.

Is the suitor financially stable to carry the burden pending when she breaks even? Does she have skills that can be invested in should the need arise?

Be very practical with your eventual decisions.

Manculated:


Be like na your matter the guy bring come here. He should get married to you asap.

Harddiskng:
Lool some of you ehn. You are bad advisers.

Love conquers all kwa.

Esther can you marry a 56 years old man that is financially unstable, please tell us

The level of double standard that is inbuilt some people ehn.

Esthered:
I can't.

I stopped reading here

[s]But if he loves her, he can help her to get a better job, encourage her to pursue something better as sometimes we just need someone to believe in us[/s]

He has to study her to know if she's laid-back or she didn't have opportunities due to limiting factors from her parents like no sponsorship for higher education....

If it's the later, he can help her get/do something better..... if it's the former, he's preparing to bear almost all the bills as she will be full of excuses to do better and worse when children starts coming. [/s]

UyaiIncomparabl:
Right.

Yes, I am doing very well, thank you.

Hope you're well too.

Esthered:
A mother of two and 4 years plus gone in the marriage institution?

marlow1962:
If the case is reversed, will she marry you (a 38 years old employed but financially unstable man)?

Like negroid001 said, no 38yrs old woman should be financially unstable at the standards they give us (men)

Lack of critical thinking is black man's best friend.

franchasng:
When did a woman's financial capability became a criteria for marrying her? Hmmmm, this is a sign of worsening national economic situation, sighs.

franchasng:
I am very good. Just checked your profile, you are now looking sweeter oh, wow. God bless whoever or whatever that has been making you shine like this


You are now a Sweet Fanta Dialo, Tomato Jos

Esthered:
I can't.

But if he loves her, he can help her to get a better job, encourage her to pursue something better as sometimes we just need someone to believe in us......

He has to study her to know if she's laid-back or she didn't have opportunities due to limiting factors from her parents like no sponsorship for higher education....

If it's the later, he can help her get/do something better..... if it's the former, he's preparing to bear almost all the bills as she will be full of excuses to do better and worse when children starts coming.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol.

Always have been.

bazoodo:
Hi everyone

Is it advisable to marry a struggling 38 year old woman? Yes she's employed but financially not stable. ?? Any pros and cons?

Thank you

Teeneyo:
Ask ChatGpt


30 more characters needed.....i now get why i av been seeing dis everywhere

bazoodo:
Hi everyone

Is it advisable to marry a struggling 38 year old woman? Yes she's employed but financially not stable. ?? Any pros and cons?

Thank you

bazoodo:
Hi everyone

Is it advisable to marry a struggling 38 year old woman? Yes she's employed but financially not stable. ?? Any pros and cons?

Thank you