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Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by Adexgentle005(op): 7:19pm On Jul 05, 2025
It’s really funny when people think ladies that do prostitution or hookup are doing it because of poverty. It’s a thing of a choice and not because they want to escape poverty.

I’ve met so many ladies that do hookup and when we talked about why they do hookup they feel so happy talking about it. I mean the look on their faces when they know it’s pay day for them. The joy of getting paid for doing something they enjoy is out of this world.
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by helinues: 7:25pm On Jul 05, 2025
You are wrong. You don't do because of today and scatter your future. Would a known prostitute be first lady ?

At old age, which advise would such person give her grandchildren? To also do prostitution as it's fun?

When it comes to sex, it's a process, if you don't plan the process very well, you might be hunted with the conscience guilty.
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by sjx566:
If the country was a good one that wouldn't be much of an option but as the country red so even me wey bi man if i see female clientele i go run am wella.For the person beneath,if you reside in Nigeria hookup is literally in every home or office where there are females- and it is pacing very fast as a norm.Someone mentioned middle class lol...most prostututes/runz girls in Lagos are from the villages- that i know
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by brain54(m): 7:30pm On Jul 05, 2025
Easy money to be made...

In their thinking.


But in the end it's not so easy money.

At least not the way they think it. As some pay the highest price with their lives.

To the person above me... prostitution is sometimes refered to as the "oldest profession" social media just made it more pronounced.

Even countries with the best economies still have prostitutes!
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by Kipaji: 7:30pm On Jul 05, 2025
A Lot of prostitutes come from middle class and rich families.
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by helinues: 7:36pm On Jul 05, 2025
Kipaji:
A Lot of prostitutes come from middle class and rich families.
Those are not prostitute but promiscuous people. They can never be satisfied with that they have

When it comes to prostitution or womanizing, background really matter
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by Adexgentle005(op): 7:44pm On Jul 05, 2025
sjx566:
If the country was a good one that wouldn't be much of an option but as the country red so even me wey bi man if i see female clientele i go run am wella
so usa way the country good way prostitutes full everywhere nko?
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by Adexgentle005(op): 7:49pm On Jul 05, 2025
brain54:
Easy money to be made...

In their thinking.


But in the end it's not so easy money.

At least not the way they think it. As some pay the highest price with their lives.

To the person above me... prostitution is sometimes refered to as the "oldest profession" social media just made it more pronounced.

Even countries with the best economies still have prostitutes!
That was why I said it’s a choice. Imagine a country like New Zealand and switerzland for example with best economies still have prostitutes. Their govt provides everything for them
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by Adexgentle005(op): 7:51pm On Jul 05, 2025
helinues:
You are wrong. You don't do because of today and scatter your future. Would a known prostitute be first lady ?

At old age, which advise would such person give her grandchildren? To also do prostitution as it's fun?

When it comes to sex, it's a process, if you don't plan the process very well, you might be hunted with the conscience guilty.
prostitution is a thing of the mind. Like you know exactly what you are going into with you full chest. You enjoyed the sex and still get paid.
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by helinues: 7:53pm On Jul 05, 2025
Adexgentle005:
prostitution is a thing of the mind. Like you know exactly what you are going into with you full chest. You enjoyed the sex and still get paid.
The point is the regrets that follow in every sex don't worth it. Most people get into prostitution naively thinking they are leaving their life. After years and you flash back, the guilt that would follow is unnecessary.
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by HeyMeNot: 7:55pm On Jul 05, 2025
sjx566:
If the country was a good one that wouldn't be much of an option but as the country red so even me wey bi man if i see female clientele i go run am wella
Look the issue of prostituting is a global phenomenon and it's not restricted to anywhere.
If you go on IG, there are pages where women in the US market their wares with full passion and commitment.
They are actually very happy with what they do and they aren't ashamed of it.

It's only men that are always worried about what women do with their own bodies.
Have you ever seen a woman leading a campaign against hookup or similar things?
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by sjx566: 8:10pm On Jul 05, 2025
Kipaji:
A Lot of prostitutes come from middle class and rich families.
In Nigeria they have different categories of prostitutes which they've classified, namely;
~ Ashawo
~ Olosho
~ Hookup
~ Runz girl
~ Escort
And,i'm sure one or two is missing.The rate at which this business is booming in Nigeria in recent times it can't be compared to other countries.
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by sjx566: 8:22pm On Jul 05, 2025
HeyMeNot:
Look the issue of prostituting is a global phenomenon and it's not restricted to anywhere.
If you go on IG, there are pages where women in the US market their wares with full passion and commitment.
They are actually very happy with what they do and they aren't ashamed of it.

It's only men that are always worried about what women do with their own bodies.
Have you ever seen a woman leading a campaign against hookup or similar things?
I guess you are a young person so you don't understand me.Back then in Nigeria this was a taboo.If a person back then in the family was into prostitution that famiy is considered to be a curse to the community.But now even some parents encourage their children or even wifes to engage in such trade because of poverty
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by columbus007(m): 8:32pm On Jul 05, 2025
They are a nympho never satisfied, they girls? Just forget them.
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by HeyMeNot: 8:56pm On Jul 05, 2025
sjx566:
I guess you are a young person so you don't understand me.Back then in Nigeria this was a taboo.If a person back then in the family was into prostitution that famiy is considered to be a curse to the community.But now even some parents encourage their children or even wifes to engage in such trade because of poverty
Worry about yourself let people live their lives
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by IkeIgboNiile(m): 12:16am On Jul 06, 2025
Yes prostitution is a choice but in our country, most times the choice is made for you by hardship you're exposed to.
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by Adexgentle005(op): 9:23am On Jul 06, 2025
helinues:
The point is the regrets that follow in every sex don't worth it. Most people get into prostitution naively thinking they are leaving their life. After years and you flash back, the guilt that would follow is unnecessary.
Are you saying they don’t know about the regrets that follow in every sex before they decide to do prostitution? You say why I said it’s a choice. If you dey watch porn sometimes you go understand better
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by Adexgentle005(op): 9:24am On Jul 06, 2025
IkeIgboNiile:
Yes prostitution is a choice but in our country, most times the choice is made for you by hardship you're exposed to.
Lies! Nothing like that. Everything is about mindset. If you decide to it means you really want to do it. It has nothing to do with hardship
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by IkeIgboNiile(m): 9:36am On Jul 06, 2025
Adexgentle005
Lies! Nothing like that. Everything is about mindset. If you decide to it means you really want to do it. It has nothing to do with hardship

You talk like someone who's still eating "mama thank ma" because a real adult knows that life doesn't care about you or your mindset.

There are a lot of people in professions that they swore never to do when they were younger.
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by helinues: 10:57am On Jul 06, 2025
Adexgentle005:
Are you saying they don’t know about the regrets that follow in every sex before they decide to do prostitution? You say why I said it’s a choice. If you dey watch porn sometimes you go understand better
Why did I put naively there? Our mistakes are mostly repeated one but in different forms
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by helinues: 10:59am On Jul 06, 2025
sjx566:
I guess you are a young person so you don't understand me.Back then in Nigeria this was a taboo.If a person back then in the family was into prostitution that famiy is considered to be a curse to the community.But now even some parents encourage their children or even wifes to engage in such trade because of poverty
Infact during my tertiary, prostitution is not that common like this, those who did it turn always do it secretly not like the way some girls are bragging about it lately
Re: Prostitution Is A Choice,don’t Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise. by Adexgentle005(op): 11:56am On Jul 06, 2025
IkeIgboNiile:
Adexgentle005
Lies! Nothing like that. Everything is about mindset. If you decide to it means you really want to do it. It has nothing to do with hardship

You talk like someone who's still eating "mama thank ma" because a real adult knows that life doesn't care about you or your mindset.

There are a lot of people in professions that they swore never to do when they were younger.
Do you know the process it takes for anyone to think it’s prostitution they want to venture into? They don’t care about what family, extended family, friends, colleagues would say ? Afterall it’s their body. You talk as if you are a secondary school dropout
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