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1. Phone number doesn't mean shit

U will collect number and be feeling fly and happy. Only for her to not reply ur messages. Dry texting and so on.
Getting a 9ja girl number doesn't mean u will hit.

2. Girls are Hungry

Depends on your location. If you happen to be from the east the girls are really hungry like wolves.
They won't give you 😼 until you spend spend on them.
The only guys that get them for free are guys with rizz. Which is 20% of guys

If she is from the west. They are more liberal but also hungry.
They are willing to give out 😼 if they truly like you.

3. You lose the moment you quickly show interest.

This is the most tricky part of babes in general.
Whenever you show her or open up to her that you like her. You have lost.
Women love to be chased.

She might be crushing on you but the moment you open ur mouth or show her you like her. She will make you chase her.
It's a game.
When she sees you like her
She then start testing how much you like her.
She will ghost you to see if you will chase her. She will cancel out on a date just to test if you will rebook another date.

Why is she doing all this?

Because you showed her or told her you like her too quickly.
Now she knows this

It's like giving away your power
She will take it and abuse it
Because women can't handle power

4. Never believe a Nigerian babes excuse.

Nigerian babes are so good and creating lamba from thin air.
They believe that men are simple.
That men will believe them easily
And in all honesty. Its true

If she doesn't reply you till late at night.
She writes "sorry for replying late, my network is having problem"

My bro... that is a classic lamba

Or

You book a date for Tuesday
She agree only for her to write you on Tuesday that she can't come due to _____________ (excuses upon excuses)

One said to me after agreeing to meet next thing I saw was
She said "my cousin boyfriend want to take us out so I can't make it today"

LAMBACYTOSIS dey worry her🤣🤣

80% of Nigerian babes are like this

5. The average Nigerian babe is very nervous. Forget all that fake confidence dey pull on social media.

When you try to book a date and she agrees then later cancel.
It's because she is nervous.

You might think it's because she doesn't like you. Nooooo
She can be drippin wet for you but when it's time to meet. She begin to get butterflies in her stomach, anxiety and cold feet.

After collecting her number
Try to book a date and you will see how 80% of them will cancel or change their mind in last minute.

They are nervous as a brick
But you have girls that will still go
Hookups don't feel nervous cuz they meet new people daily for a living.

With hookup it's very easy because you go straight to the point.
They are not nervous or cancel at last minute( unless they get a rich customer)
But the average babes will play games and cancel dates

97% of Nigerian women love money

Being poor can be traumatic
Ladies don't want to suffer
Especially the modern women

Only our old mamas suffered and sacrificed. These modern girls hate that shiiii😄🤣🤣
They tell you it is better to cry in a benz than to cry in a keke🤣🤣

Finally

Women win in the beginning
Men win at the end.

Men age like wine
Women age like milk.

Nature is trying to tell you MEN
That you are the PRIZE

Women will win in the beginning
But as time goes her beauty fades

You might not get lucky with women at your youth.
Don't worry about that.
Pray for good health
Then build yourself up
It might take years but no matter how old. More beautiful 9ja babes fresher ones will always be ready to call you Papi
Focus on building yourself up

Nature has given you more time
Sugar daddy are 30 times older than the fine girls they are carrying.

As you age and build yourself
The beautiful ones that are not yet born will be waiting for you to toast them.

Ask Ned Nwoko. If you think I'm lying. Thank you

OP,
You are very CORRECT on the nervous part.👍

Many of Nigerian ladies are actually very Shy particularly if you as the Guy exudes Confidence and speak Posh English to them.🙂.

Vinnie2000:
OP,
You are very CORRECT on the nervous part.👍

Many of Nigerian ladies are actually very Shy particularly if you as the Guy exudes Confidence and speak Posh English to them.🙂.

Forget English
It's not all about money..
U need money and Rizz to be successful and enjoy women.

You can have 300 million but the way you talk to women will make her see you as a loser with money.

If you don't have Rizz.. otilor
They will just chop the money without having feelings for you.
It's a cold hearted summit in Moscow kind of love...

That is why in as much as you hustle. You need to be wise.

I can have 200k and command a bihh like I'm Elon musk.

So it tough for Alpha males like me
Because my confidence start to make her feel nervous.

Women will say "I like confident men"
But when they meet confident men like us. .They turn into a nervous brick shaking like little girl that is scared and looking for her mummy.

Even some Milfs feel nervous.
It all depends on how you carry yourself. Me I've been told I'm too brutal honest and straightforward with women. Its my aura.
I don't even realise when I do it.
But one thing I learnt is
90% of 9ja babes are too intimidated by guys like us.

I'm learning how to tone down my masculinity to a moderate tone

Women are Birds
You catch them by being strategic
If you are loud and upfront
You will scare them off like pigeons
You catch a bird by feeding it..
Lure it with bread (money)

That's why they are Birds
With their long nails abi claws🤣🤣

Reason why I don't chase women

Women are birds.
If a bird see that you are running to catch it. The bird will fly away.

But if you walk slowly and gently taking your time. The bird won't notice you.
Then you take it by surprise. Boom.
You don catch am...

But if you rush fast towards the bird it will fly and you keep chasing she keep flying .
Pigeons enjoy getting chased
Girls enjoy getting chased.
9 times out of 10 the pigeon is never caught when chased. The person chasing will get exhausted while the bird will be enjoying the chase and flying and avoidng you😁


Just like hookups and OS
Tourist birds on display at zoo are not scared of approach. These birds get touched carried by every tourist that visit the zoo.
They are trained to deal with plenty different people. So no panic.
Unlike the average bird that will run when you try to catch it.

They are all birds...bihh

RollinTNDA:
Reason why I don't chase women

Women are birds.
If a bird see that you are running to catch it. The bird will fly away.

But if you walk slowly and gently taking your time. The bird won't notice you.
Then you take it by surprise. Boom.
You don catch am...

But if you rush fast towards the bird it will fly and you keep chasing she keep flying .
Pigeons enjoy getting chased
Girls enjoy getting chased.
9 times out of 10 the pigeon is never caught when chased. The person chasing will get exhausted while the bird will be enjoying the chase and flying and avoidng you😁


Just like hookups and OS
Tourist birds on display at zoo are not scared of approach. These birds get touched carried by every tourist that visit the zoo.
They are trained to deal with plenty different people. So no panic.
Unlike the average bird that will run when you try to catch it.

They are all birds...bihh

I really like this your analogy. It's an eye opener. I was more used to the baiting a fish analogy.

This is more colorful and accurate for example it s hard to imagine a fish enjoying being chased.

Hmmmm.the women are like birds that really got me 🐦.

The only thing I have to say is;

Bro, You're a very wise Man....


Gracias....

RollinTNDA:
Forget English
It's not all about money..
U need money and Rizz to be successful and enjoy women.

You can have 300 million but the way you talk to women will make her see you as a loser with money.

If you don't have Rizz.. otilor
They will just chop the money without having feelings for you.
It's a cold hearted summit in Moscow kind of love...

That is why in as much as you hustle. You need to be wise.

I can have 200k and command a bihh like I'm Elon musk.

So it tough for Alpha males like me
Because my confidence start to make her feel nervous.

Women will say "I like confident men"
But when they meet confident men like us. .They turn into a nervous brick shaking like little girl that is scared and looking for her mummy.

Even some Milfs feel nervous.
It all depends on how you carry yourself. Me I've been told I'm too brutal honest and straightforward with women. Its my aura.
I don't even realise when I do it.
But one thing I learnt is
90% of 9ja babes are too intimidated by guys like us.

I'm learning how to tone down my masculinity to a moderate tone

Women are Birds
You catch them by being strategic
If you are loud and upfront
You will scare them off like pigeons
You catch a bird by feeding it..
Lure it with bread (money)

That's why they are Birds
With their long nails abi claws🤣🤣

A man who must say I am King is no king.
Just saying. x

RollinTNDA:
Reason why I don't chase women

Women are birds.
If a bird see that you are running to catch it. The bird will fly away.

But if you walk slowly and gently taking your time. The bird won't notice you.
Then you take it by surprise. Boom.
You don catch am...

But if you rush fast towards the bird it will fly and you keep chasing she keep flying .
Pigeons enjoy getting chased
Girls enjoy getting chased.
9 times out of 10 the pigeon is never caught when chased. The person chasing will get exhausted while the bird will be enjoying the chase and flying and avoidng you😁


Just like hookups and OS
Tourist birds on display at zoo are not scared of approach. These birds get touched carried by every tourist that visit the zoo.
They are trained to deal with plenty different people. So no panic.
Unlike the average bird that will run when you try to catch it.

They are all birds...bihh

Ajeh you no be learner. Haven't commented here for a while but i have give it to you...you be OG player

An average Nigerian banny shouldn't have any business to do with relationship cuz she certainly has nothing to offer in it ... . Whether you like it or not,that's the simple truth..

columbus007:
Hmmmm.the women are like birds that really got me 🐦.

Back in the village as kids we played with chickens for fun
U would see the hen fly away when you chase it then they come back towards you when you move they fly away then come back.
The hen is enjoying the chase😂😂

Even the male cock has to chase the hen round the block before he catch her.😂😂

Girls love a good chase. All that shakara is just to make you chase her like the hen she is.

Instead of chasing them catch them by surpris
Be strategic. If you come at her direct show of affection she will fly away. Most birds don't want to be caught.

ZeemsPropeties:
A man who must say I am King is no king.
Just saying. x

I am giving an example
Examples are not taken literally

My cousin went through all this. His final conclusion was; chasing women is an utter waste of time. He learned the fundamentals and uses them to knack women left and right. Settling with one, he swore never to. He keeps favourites around, some more desirable than others. He makes sure to discard the ones he feels emotionally vested in. He said emotions make him weak.

meobizy:
My cousin went through all this. His final conclusion was; chasing women is an utter waste of time. He learned the fundamentals and uses them to knack women left and right. Settling with one, he swore never to. He keeps favourites around, some more desirable than others. He makes sure to discard the ones he feels emotionally vested in. He said emotions make him weak.

In other words your cousin is a birdman🕊️🕊️🕊️

He should take it easy...

I agree with you with the number 2 option. These ladies can't be filled up.

For this great tinubulation Una still dey "toast" babes, not even bread. Damn!!🥱

ZeemsPropeties:
A man who must say I am King is no king.
Just saying. x

It's sometimes...a reassurance of your position... You still can say it and be it..

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