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Nowayback10:
You should be happy she is not even telling it to a guy.
Go and rest.

Ozzyk:
Still doesn't make sense... Her sister fit dey control am for marriage

Mariangeles:
Going by what you read, did she discuss you with her sister in a bad way?

Ozzyk:
No she didn't.... But whenever we had misunderstanding her sister is the go to person she vomit everything to

webincomeplus:
The irony here is that it could be the same sister who's been guiding her and helping her to be and remain the good lady you've always known her to be.

So, tread softly over the matter.

Anijay1212:
Op come and see this 👆.
I have a feeling this could be the case here.
Don't try to fix what is not broken. Instead be grateful that you have confidencial go to person that she listens to in case of a protracted issue between you and your partner in future.

Ozzyk:
I dey try reason am too but what if the sister wan dey use style control am for marriage??
Whereas the sister and I have smooth relationship as well

Mariangeles:
You deliberately ignored my question.
That says it all.

She talks to you about her sister, but you have a problem with her talking to her sister about you.
Just know this; you alone cannot be everything to her.
There are other people in her life that makes her who she is.
You don't even if it's the advice from that her sister that has kept your relationship going.
Her sister will always want what is best for her.

You see this post below, it is so true.

Nowayback10:
You should be happy she is not even telling it to a guy.
Go and rest.

Mariangeles:
Going by what you read, did she discuss you with her sister in a bad way?

ExudeLoveToAll:
And you didn't think there would b a time when friction may come up and that third party becomes a hindrance in the marriage? Think outside your nostrils , it's not just about what is written on the discuss because this scenario i painted isn't written up there.

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021 we did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month
Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked
Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....
I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin
I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it
I am very displeased

haggai247:
Just like me and my brother even though we are married we do things together.

He even uses my Certificate to work bear my name.

And the best part of all.

We share babes together we dey do pass around crazy things men don do.

Mariangeles:
You know, I consider men who are quick to insult cowards.
I don't respect them at all.

Double0h7:
Man said: Think outside your nostrils😭

What in the no child left behind kind of English is that 😅

advanceDNA:
Talking to her about it won't change much....that's her go-to person....but that doesn't mean u shouldnt tell her how u feel anyway...

The real issue is...U are just her husband to be and nothing more, thats not a bad thing as long as there is peace and love....a lot of relationships works like that where the wife or husband's bestie or confidant is someone else outside the marriage..

It's not technically a bad thing for ur woman to have someone that they feel comfortable talking to.....but I personally feel it would be better if that person is the same person they are sharing a roof, challenges and exchanging saliva.....

[/b]I cannot marry a woman that I wont be her confidant, her gist or gossip partner, the first person she tells everything, whether it's just internet gist or who's sleeping with who in her office,....I mean I can't marry a woman that I'm not her paddi for jungle, her ride or die that she can bury a dead body with and be sure none of us will snitch...[b]

Ozzyk:
I've been dating my woman since 2021 we did introduction recently and already fixed our wedding to next month
Yesterday, She gave me her phone to fix so I used the opportunity to go through her chats...
So, I went through her chats with her sister only to observe that she discussed almost everything we discussed within ourselves with her sister too unprovoked
Although I've always known that she and her sister who is happily married also used to be 5&6 but I never knew my fiancee could be spitting everything we talked to her sister just like that....
I went through their chats even though there's no toxic discussion about me between them
But I'm not fine at all with the fact she debates almost everything we talked about with her sister...
This lady Is everything a man could ask for, she's beautiful, hard working very decent and I met her a virgin
I've not spoken to her about it though I still don't know how best to go about it
I am very displeased

Ozzyk:
I've been dating….

I am very displeased

advanceDNA:
Talking to her about it won't change much....that's her go-to person....but that doesn't mean u shouldnt tell her how u feel anyway...

The real issue is...U are just her husband to be and nothing more, thats not a bad thing as long as there is peace and love....a lot of relationships works like that where the wife or husband's bestie or confidant is someone else outside the marriage..

It's not technically a bad thing for ur woman to have someone that they feel comfortable talking to.....but I personally feel it would be better if that person is the same person they are sharing a roof, challenges and exchanging saliva.....

I cannot marry a woman that I wont be her confidant, her gist or gossip partner, the first person she tells everything, whether it's just internet gist or who's sleeping with who in her office,....I mean I can't marry a woman that I'm not her paddi for jungle, her ride or die that she can bury a dead body with and be sure none of us will snitch...