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my father and mother got separated when I was 4years old, I grow up in my uncle's house, He fed me,clothed me and paid my school fees, wthout my father giving shishi to him despite the fact that my father is doing better than my uncle financially.
my father has a block industry where I worked as a labourer for 13good years. the issue now is that my father is trying to get rid of me indirectly by doing all sort of bad shits to me because he wants to bring his another son as a manager.
I felt cheated and I want to sue him, that man never any form of favour to me as his son, he is very selfish and cruel

Then sue him. What for though?

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heracles1:
✓ my father and mother got separated when I was 4years old, I grow up in my uncle's house, He fed me,clothed me and paid my school fees, wthout my father giving shishi to him despite the fact that my father is doing better than my uncle financially.
✓ my father has a block industry where I worked as a labourer for 13good years. the issue now is that my father is trying to get rid of me indirectly by doing all sort of bad shits to me because he wants to bring his another son as a manager.
✓ I felt cheated and I want to sue him, that man never any form of favour to me as his son, he is very selfish and cruel

Was this an uncle on your maternal or paternal side?

2. You went and got a job in a company owned by your father, why?

3. What is it you wish to sue him for?

Kobojunkie:
Was this an uncle on your maternal or paternal side?

2. You went and got a job in a company owned by your father, why?

3. What is it you wish to sue him for?

1-paternal
2-he said i must work like everyone
3-to pay me for the years i wasted labouring for him

heracles1:
1-paternal
2-he said i must work like everyone
3-to pay me for the years i wasted labouring for him

Well, that puts a wrench in things. So your father's own brother raised you and then you went to work for your father. Interesting! 🤔

2. Didn't you get paid for your labors? Wasted in what way?

Can you even afford a lawyer though? Because they don't come cheap.

Kobojunkie:
Well, that puts a wrench in things. So your father's own brother raised you and then you went to work for your father. Interesting! 🤔

2. Didn't you get paid for your labors? Wasted in what way?

u will never understand. wueurrjfjfjfififjfififi

heracles1:
u will never understand. wueurrjfjfjfififjfififi

Never understand what exactly? You created the thread to have others weigh your situation, right? We did not grow up with you, and we are not mind readers. You probably need to better communicate your pain and hurt for us to see things from your end. I am not siding with your dad or something like that; just letting you know you have not given us enough information to go on here.

I think if there's any body with who you claimed owe you in the world, I think that should be your father.

You grew up in your uncles home yet u claim your father never did anything for you so how did u end up working in your fathers block industry for 13 years!!? You’re such a bloody liar. You’re jealous because u don’t want him to give his other son the position u so crave thats why u had to frame so much lies. Get out of here

@op, allow him to do what ever he wishes to do. The God that have kept you, provided for you all these years will still be there for you.
Don't nurture anger, bitterness or become violent.
Focus on how to grow and build your own wealth.
Cheers

You worked at a particular block industry for thirteen years and didn't think it wise to at least gradually buy your own equipments, get land and start your own ? I think your father should sue you instead for wasting the thirteen years he tried teaching you to be independent instead of waiting for his money

Was he paying you?
If no...was there a written agreement that he will settle you after working for him?

If no then you have no case.....

Sue him for what....
Abandonment?
Neglect?
Maltreatment?

What exactly for...
And can you afford a lawyer?

Sue him na.
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Probably the man you say is your father abandoned your mother after finding out that you are not his child.
He ows you nothing but he did give you a job.
Now being ungrateful, you are trying to take his money.
You are probably idle at work expecting to be made CEO and sit around with people looking after you.

Go warm eba chop abeg. So without your father, you can't forge a life of your own?

Sue for Nigeria or US?

heracles1:
u will never understand. wueurrjfjfjfififjfififi

When people use this phrase, they are usually bein EVASIVE or lack common sense.

you want people to understand what you simply refuse to explain? yet you say you went to school.
you better sit down and evaluate yourself

EverydayTipsfor:
. The God that have kept you, provided for you all these years will still be there for you.

Do you know the OP?
you don't know if he is actually a problem child or a dishonest and terrible worker who his employer only had to put up with because of parental ties but you have started prayer and blind siding.

Nnamdipapa:
Go warm eba chop abeg. So without your father, you can't forge a life of your own?

Sue for Nigeria or US?

eba ?
what if he is not hungry


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AllBlack:
Do you know the OP?
you don't know if he is actually a problem child or a dishonest and terrible worker who his employer only had to put up with because of parental ties but you have started prayer and blind siding.

I don’t need to know him personally, but I read what he complained about. Why would you refer to someone who is already hurting as a “problem child”? Do you know his father as well?

Let’s cut out this attitude of rushing to bash people who are going through emotional pain. You never truly know the extent of what someone feels before they decide to speak out.

And what exactly is your problem with prayers? Is it that you don’t believe God can help, or do you just want prayers excluded entirely?

You no want dey useful to him , are you not eating and leaving under his roof.there is something you aren't telling us.

Are you sure he is truly your father? I am asking because I have never seen a man despise his first son or first child so much for no just reason.


My advice to you is this; think beyond that your so called father's block industry. Think outside the box. Thank God you are now of age and not a minor. Thank God for your uncle that raised you, many children that their father abandoned didn't have that privilege, so be happy.


The only way to pay back those that despise you or look down on you is to succeed, if possible without their knowledge.


You can still make it bigger in life without that block industry, don't limit yourself and your vision to just that block industry


I wish you the best, but please cancel the legal aspect, it won't amount to anything, peace

heracles1:
my father and mother got separated when I was 4years old, I grow up in my uncle's house, He fed me,clothed me and paid my school fees, wthout my father giving shishi to him despite the fact that my father is doing better than my uncle financially.
my father has a block industry where I worked as a labourer for 13good years. the issue now is that my father is trying to get rid of me indirectly by doing all sort of bad shits to me because he wants to bring his another son as a manager.
I felt cheated and I want to sue him, that man never any form of favour to me as his son, he is very selfish and cruel

I want to believe you are one of the people seun uses to write crap on this forum.
It's either you are crap or your story is crap.

heracles1:
my father and mother got separated when I was 4years old, I grow up in my uncle's house, He fed me,clothed me and paid my school fees, wthout my father giving shishi to him despite the fact that my father is doing better than my uncle financially.
my father has a block industry where I worked as a labourer for 13good years. the issue now is that my father is trying to get rid of me indirectly by doing all sort of bad shits to me because he wants to bring his another son as a manager.
I felt cheated and I want to sue him, that man never any form of favour to me as his son, he is very selfish and cruel

You lied, for your biological father to threat you as such,it shows that you are either lazy or carelessly wasteful with nothing upstairs