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Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by omolasho: 4:14am On Jul 03, 2025
who is looking for a perfect wife ?
We are saying a Virgin is still better than a LovePeddler 99.999%. Stop misleading the young men. Get it!
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Keepamsafe: 10:29am On Jul 03, 2025
Dzzzz:
Better I marry a virgin than B2B midfielder..I’ve seen virgins that are well behaved ladies and it’s always the BF that messes up..Make I leave Virgin come follow Naija bore-holed ladies tufiakwa..

Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Dzzzz: 10:58am On Jul 03, 2025
[quote author=Keepamsafe post=135971912][/quote]Gbola size does not matter to a virgin but you see those oil well ladies na them go Dey find T-Rex gbola to fit for drilling..A lady wey done get 25body count go still Dey tell you what to do and how to behave,Abeg make una Dey play..I’ll take a virgin over them oil well..
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Dzzzz: 11:00am On Jul 03, 2025
omolasho:
who is looking for a perfect wife ?
We are saying a Virgin is still better than a LovePeddler 99.999%. Stop misleading the young men. Get it!
No mind them ooo…Make I take tokunbo car and reject brand new car with seal on it..😂
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Dzzzz: 11:03am On Jul 03, 2025
brodalikeme:
The sense of entailment by some virgins will almost reck the marriage.
You're a simp Mr man..it’s only people who can’t dominate in a relationship Dey talk like you..
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Keepamsafe: 11:05am On Jul 03, 2025
Dzzzz:
Gbola size does not matter to a virgin but you see those oil well ladies na them go Dey find T-Rex gbola to fit for drilling..A lady wey done get 25body count go still Dey tell you what to do and how to behave,Abeg make una Dey play..I’ll take a virgin over them oil well..
“A lady wey done get 25body count go still Dey tell you what to do and how to behave”. Na this one day wound me pass bro.

For real Men day suffer. Government, women, society everybody day kick us around. Its crazy being a man out here bro
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Dzzzz: 11:08am On Jul 03, 2025
Keepamsafe:
“A lady wey done get 25body count go still Dey tell you what to do and how to behave”. Na this one day wound me pass bro.

For real Men day suffer. Government, women, society everybody day kick us around. Its crazy being a man out here bro
In the end,I go come let wan girl wey Dey use kpekus tightener to do tell me nonsense..Men who can’t dominate are the ones who are afraid of virgins..Most of these men talking this trash are the types that have mouth when Dey have money but if money no Dey,them go turn simp for house..
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by YourMaleCrush: 11:18am On Jul 03, 2025
This subject is not talked about much sha! It doesn't guarantee nothing! Some of them have very horrible characters. I have met 2.

Now I am with one who wasn't a virgin and I have utmost peace. I meet her online funny enough and she brought me to Leeds, UK.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by PastorKosi(op): 1:03pm On Jul 03, 2025
WOW. Congratulations

Your marriage and home will be a blessing to others.
Love will continue to reign in your home.
God bless you.
YourMaleCrush:
This subject is not talked about much sha! It doesn't guarantee nothing! Some of them have very horrible characters. I have met 2.

Now I am with one who wasn't a virgin and I have utmost peace. I meet her online funny enough and she brought me to Leeds, UK.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by DOUBLEBARREL(m): 1:23pm On Jul 03, 2025
There is a kind of celibacy that arises from either not seeing the other gender as worthy enough to enter your body, another kind arises out of being committed to your constant daily grind and not willing to yield to sex for 20years ,another from fear of unknown another from lack of opportunity. The best kind of virginity is one where u know the other is the one to give it to,not because it's the prize, but because your union together and all it's memories is. U may die before 6, but there is believe that the period would come.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by naijapikin2(m): 2:05pm On Jul 03, 2025
jmoore:
Not everyone has converted their private part into public part. So go and choose your Tenth hand in peace and those that want brand-new will get theirs.
What an utopian wish. You want to take from the table what you're not bringing the table... are you a virgin yourselfhuh

Since it's your choice, I sincerely wish you good luck 🙏
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by PastorKosi(op): 8:37am On Jul 04, 2025
I wish you all the best in your search for a virgin.
But i hope you are also a virgin?
omolasho:
who is looking for a perfect wife ?
We are saying a Virgin is still better than a LovePeddler 99.999%. Stop misleading the young men. Get it!
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Demigod22: 4:14pm On Jul 04, 2025
I met a virgin girl last year, and I was seeing her with these moral lenses until she became comfortable with me to the point of telling stuff she did with her ex boyfriend.

This girl told me that she was always giving her ex boyfriend Mouth Gig because they don't have s*x, she said the guy was always pouring it in her mouth, her breasts or her face. And the guy also gave her head. She confidently told me she has seen pretty number of pen*ses.

She wasn't ready for the actual penetration, but she had done nasty stuff with her ex.

The Africanness in us made us believe that only the righteous are virgin. I understand that virginity is sexual purification but not being penetrated but gives Mouth Gig or handjobs or head or anal or sending nudes and all that stuff is no sexual purity.

I just want to be with a woman who understands loyalty and growth, someone who set boundaries and is disciplined enough to be faithful when we are together.

I am not discouraging virginity stuff, I am encouraging absolute abstinence or sexual purity, not the half baked ones.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Nnamdipapa(m): 5:53pm On Jul 04, 2025
Dzzzz:
It’s because you come from a country where fornication is a daily routine that’s why you don’t know the value of a virgin..If you were in Arab countries you will know the value of marrying a Virgin..A Virgin girl who is well reserved and does not fornicate up and down is 100x better than whatever is your thoughts..Go to other African countries and see the value of virgin girls and they don’t fornicate like our own girls..
What is fornication? Is it a crime under the Nigerian constitution?
I do not recognize that word.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Dzzzz: 6:07pm On Jul 04, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
What is fornication? Is it a crime under the Nigerian constitution?
I do not recognize that word.
Are you asking me or what??
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Nnamdipapa(m): 6:10pm On Jul 04, 2025
Dzzzz:
Are you asking me or what??
Are you quoting me or what?
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Dzzzz: 6:26pm On Jul 04, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
Are you quoting me or what?
Just keep playing oo..
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Flows001(m): 7:57pm On Jul 05, 2025
The same way marrying a non-virgin doesn't guarantee marrying right..

A lady that kept herself until marriage already has 50% of the attributes that can keep a home. We have seen countless stories of marriages that break because of how the women cheat with their numerous exes (a virgin has no sexual experience from any ex that can lure her back to sleeping with him), we have also seen countless of marriages that have crashed due to paternity fraud!

Virginity is still the goal, even God the father had to send Jesus Christ to this world through a VIRGIN.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by PastorKosi(op): 3:43pm On Jul 06, 2025
Keep playing

Keep playing

Keep playing
Flows001:
The same way marrying a non-virgin doesn't guarantee marrying right..

A lady that kept herself until marriage already has 50% of the attributes that can keep a home. We have seen countless stories of marriages that break because of how the women cheat with their numerous exes (a virgin has no sexual experience from any ex that can lure her back to sleeping with him), we have also seen countless of marriages that have crashed due to paternity fraud!

Virginity is still the goal, even God the father had to send Jesus Christ to this world through a VIRGIN.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by HellVictorinho9: 5:30pm On Jul 06, 2025
If u are looking 4 a virgin

Then what d fvck can i do about dat




And how does it mean non virgins are less respectable

Besides virgins can still become all sorta tinz ,even after marriage,

If u wanna marry a virgin COMPULSORILY, do it without making noise.


Itz all about whatz going on in ya head.



As 4 me, since non virginity doesnt automatically make her an STD or STI carrier or a person that will frustrate me ,then it doesnt automatically mean i will reject her.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Eriokanmi: 12:59pm On Jul 09, 2025
Pure truth. Virginity is people's choice and way of life. However, I still prefer a single keeps his/her Virginity till when married. There are a lot of gifts and God's blessings for that, irrespective of your commitment religiously
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by nwirinedu(m): 12:59pm On Jul 09, 2025
Is this really a topic for discourse? Why the attack on virgins?

If you sold your virginity to the streets why are you jealous of others who preserved their?

If you started greasing poles at age 12 for money you have no decency or character left.

If you had any you wont be single and searching at 42.

Whether they like it or not the guys will choose the better options.

Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Ephort: 1:05pm On Jul 09, 2025
From my experience, some girls, especially those in their late 20s and early 30s, stay a virgin not because they wish to remain pure and unsullied, but because they are prudish (probably as a result of childhood trauma). After marriage, you will confront zero desire for sex and bad character.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Rebuke: 1:06pm On Jul 09, 2025
Does Marrying a non virgin does? But what will yhu rather desire?

All the qualities mentioned can easily be found in a non virgin, or does being a virgin now means being bad or are we now trying to justify immorality?

Whatever his point, it makes no sense bringing in virginity here. Yhu can preach morality to everyone, encourage those who have missed it to get back ok track, no need to start down playing the importance of virginity.

Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by BABANGBALI: 1:09pm On Jul 09, 2025
Who virgin epp? I prefer an experienced borehole to a learner.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Dpaulie(m): 1:10pm On Jul 09, 2025
Marriage is not prototypical, the institution is entirely different, what works for yours may not work for mine..Olosho has once been a virgin!
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Blitzerz: 1:11pm On Jul 09, 2025
naijapikin2:
God bless you for this piece. Infact. If I meet a lady I love and she says she's a virgin. I will automatically end the relationship.

All those men looking for virgin to marry I see them as those that can eat parboiled rice 😁😁
No worry prepare money for DNA tests when time reach
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Fryx: 1:12pm On Jul 09, 2025
And who is saying marrying a virgin automatically means marrying right.

Having the discipline to keep your virginity mean you will have the discipline to do many other things.

I for one have the discipline to be faithful to one woman. If my woman can't be disciplined herself, we don't fit.

All these useless sermon sef.
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Blitzerz: 1:13pm On Jul 09, 2025
Dpaulie:
Marriage is not prototypical, the institution is entirely different, what works for yours may not work for mine..Olosho has once been a virgin!
Will u marry olosho?
Just yes or no
No shalaye or long story
Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by jimi4us: 1:13pm On Jul 09, 2025
The worst thing you can do to yourself is to marry a Virgin they have a very low sex drive

so you have to be very careful when you marry them is not like they kept their virginity for marriage just that they have a very low sex drive. This is from a friend of mine experience that lead to a divorce

They're the ones that are quick to reject sex in marriages.
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