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Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Disclaimer12: 12:44pm On Jul 11, 2025
I think I'm belittling myself by engaging with you though, I remember you could be a part of the 30% pass rate students ! Coz you keep evading simple question! When are you asking your embassies to be shut down across the world? At least that'll safe you the stress of having people granted visa to your country , you can be the North Korea of Africa, it's never a sin
Lioness5280:
You said so much and yet said nothing of substance grin grin


If you don't want those businesses, make it known to your government by any means possible and we will do the needful,deal ? grin

But we will never accept your country exporting their mean-spirited and desperate humans here. Since you have nothing better to export to us then engage your government to close down all those tax paying and job creating businesses on behalf of Igbo unruly criminals grin grin...we will see who will be shot down in Lagos, Abuja and Kano grin grin grin
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Lioness5280(f): 12:47pm On Jul 11, 2025
WizardOfNG:
Look, stop your redundant noisemaking and idiotic grandstanding. This should not be about the behaviour of Nigerians in South Africa. That is a different topic entirely.

You people have encroached the boundary of one of your own to insensitively and condemnably 'nationalise' her private grief and wishes as another incidence to hijack in your obsession with demonising all Nigerians.

Have you and others thought about the women involved at all? One South African even commented ignorantly "go and bury him in Abuja".

Obvious your hatred for all things Nigerian prevent you seeing issues from the perspective of one of your own who is bereaved.

I.e a South African Woman, you have derogatively tagged "Jollofina", who perhaps wants the man she loved buried where she can visit his grave and relate with him.

This is about what an adult wants and should be entitled to gaining privately without an entire nation hijacking events to prove a point against a people they are now unreasonably hateful of.

Deal with the criminal Nigerians in your land fully as Thailand etal do rather than adopt an expanded dehumanisation agenda against all Nigerians in your nation that will even hurt your own people whose only "crime" is being "Jollofina"
Listen here you.

A non-native man cannot be buried in any ancestral village in South Africa, even amongst South Africans. Now wail and wail about the stupid actions of your Joloffina, she is the one who brought this humiliation upon her own husband...where has she ever seen this done in SA? She wad just being a jollofina ,and that's why they are degraded and spat on. No self respect or decency. She clearly inherited the odugwu culture from her husband and thought that her people would welcome being pushed around with drug money grin grin. Every foreigner has a right to burial in SA but not on our sacred lands. You can wail all day about humanity. But sane people know that humans are both tribal and territorial and no one can change that . She doesn't even live in her village ,why not Bury him where she lives and can visit him easily, why go all the way to her village where she knows the tradition if not just being a usual jollofina ? grin. She will moan twice grin
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by sulaak(m): 1:07pm On Jul 11, 2025
Warmaterial:
so for your little mind Nigerians are not committing crimes in Europe or America? In every reasonable countries when you go against their laws they punish you according to their law not tagging everybody coming from the same country as the same and showing unnecessary hate shows that such a country is nothing but uncivilized country.
How many SA are in Nigeria
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by EchoEnigma: 1:28pm On Jul 11, 2025
South Africans are petty. They are hurt that their women love us.
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Lioness5280(f): 1:47pm On Jul 11, 2025
EchoEnigma:
South Africans are petty. They are hurt that their women love us.
Nothing disgusts me more than hearing this fantasy as a South African Woman.🤮

Isn't it funny that majority of those protesting this abomination are actually women ? grin grin
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by aribisala0(m): 2:28pm On Jul 11, 2025
G0odharddick:
Oga Igbos do not bury their dead abroad. The deceased must be a Yoruba man. It is a culturally thing, a dead Igbo man, no matter where in the world he lived and died must be brought home (his village in Igbo land) and be buried
That is what you want to believe

If you like Say all Eeboes own a Rolls Royce

The only person you are deceiving is yourself
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by TheBillyonaire: 2:31pm On Jul 11, 2025
Why such level of hatred to someone who personally hasnt hurt them?
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by femi4: 2:33pm On Jul 11, 2025
Lioness5280:
Entitlement mentality is the reason you'll wail from Ghana to SA. Respect the traditions and customs of your host or continue wailing grin


You don't Bury a non-native man in tribal land in South Africa and that's that. Only married women can be buried in their husband's villages not the other way round. You can try all you want for this to change ,but it will never change grin. A man must build his own home ,so that his children and wife could Bury him there ,that's our way down here. Men don't get wived grin. She should have used her brains and buried the stranger in the city...but no,she inherited the forceful ,overbearing nature of her husband's people and she got served hot grin grin grin. This is disrespectful to and she knows it,she probably was isolated by her family because of this marriage and wanted to get back them ( probably the elders in her family are deceased) AND she foolishly thought the rest of the community will allow this nonsense on their ancestral land grin grin grin
Tradition indeed. If we trace your linage now, you ll discover that your forefathers is probably a non native of wherever you claimed grin
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Lioness5280(f): 2:40pm On Jul 11, 2025
Disclaimer12:
I think I'm belittling myself by engaging with you though, I remember you could be a part of the 30% pass rate students ! Coz you keep evading simple question! When are you asking your embassies to be shut down across the world? At least that'll safe you the stress of having people granted visa to your country , you can be the North Korea of Africa, it's never a sin
The day you're sick of those SA businesses dominating your spaces is the day you'll man-up and act grin grin grin. For now ,wail, threaten and blackmail....your leaders came begging for those investments and the indigenes of places like Lagos ,Abuja ,Kano etc aren't complaining . We don't give a rats arse what a grandson of a Hausa soldier ( spoils of war ) says grin grin grin.
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Lioness5280(f): 2:42pm On Jul 11, 2025
femi4:
Tradition indeed. If we trace your linage now, you ll discover that your forefathers is probably a non native of wherever you claimed grin
E pain am grin grin grin grin grin

That corpse would never be buried on our ancestral village and that's our tradition grin grin grin grin. Wail and wail ...and you'll come back and still comply grin grin
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Lioness5280(f): 2:42pm On Jul 11, 2025
TheBillyonaire:
Why such level of hatred to someone who personally hasnt hurt them?
Everything is hatred for you lots grin grin grin

You don't Bury a non-native man in tribal land in South Africa and that's that. Only married women can be buried in their husband's villages not the other way round. You can try all you want for this to change ,but it will never change grin. A man must build his own home ,so that his children and wife could Bury him there ,that's our way down here. Men don't get wived grin. She should have used her brains and buried the stranger in the city...but no,she inherited the forceful ,overbearing nature of her husband's people and she got served hot grin grin grin. This is disrespectful to and she knows it,she probably was isolated by her family because of this marriage and wanted to get back them ( probably the elders in her family are deceased) AND she foolishly thought the rest of the community will allow this nonsense on their ancestral land grin grin grin
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Lioness5280(f): 2:49pm On Jul 11, 2025
Disclaimer12:
Now you sound more shallow , I don't think the majority of pregnant and sick people you're refusing treatments are Nigerians , more so I don't think there's anywhere on record where a Nigerian is intimated and looking to hide under ANYBODY anywhere jn the world , give me an evidence
Everywhere you go you cry " they treat black africans badly here " whenever you are caught with your nya*h out in the open grin grin. This is a way of manipulating other blacks to support your criminal ways; most have been exposed to your manipulation and trash you openly grin grin

Mozas and Zimbos are a nuisance just like you people in SA but atleast they are in their region and we can somehow be lenient but not with you lots . Worst Africa is there grin grin grin. Go and enjoy non-xenophobic countries over there grin grin
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 3:16pm On Jul 11, 2025
Lionessza6:
No one gives a fck about your pity here grin grin ..stop wasting your energy on that ,we don't care grin.

Now he was killed by SA? grin grin

We have customs and traditions here and they'll not be changed by migrants. This is the same nonsense you're trying to pull in Ghana. You're behaving like beasts of no nation all over the place trying to deface other African nations. You'll continue to pay and wail .

You don't Bury a non-native man in tribal land in South Africa and that's that. Only married women can be buried in their husband's villages not the other way round. You can try all you want for this to change ,but it will never change grin. A man must build his own home ,so that his children and wife could Bury him there ,that's our way down here. Men don't get wived grin. She should have used her brains and buried the stranger in the city...but no,she inherited the forceful ,overbearing nature of her husband's people and she got served hot grin grin grin. This is disrespectful to and she knows it,she probably was isolated by her family because of this marriage and wanted to get back them ( probably the elders in her family are deceased) AND she foolishly thought the rest of the community will allow this nonsense on their ancestral land grin grin grin
I wonder what is bringing all these laugh emoji in your useless explanations...

A Dead person is a dead person, if she knew what she was about to do was wrong, I know she won't have done so but because she believes in her people showing concern , she opted for it only to meet the jealousy and wickedness of her people that she is marrying a Nigerian man , something that is a treasure in your land of men that are full of envy and jealousy over other African men...

I wish the whites that gave you pepper to shew will come back again to marry off your ladies and give them good habitations rather than seeing them in the hands of your so called men with inferiority complex issues... 😂 😂 😂

Meanwhile , be thankful that your Sister married a Nigerian who want to bring her out of darkness and curses ...
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Idaytesj29(m): 3:20pm On Jul 11, 2025
SSpeter:
you need help
Well, good luck with your reverse psychology. The good thing is reality does not care about you. And it's all already before everyone. You can deny it all you like, still won't change the fact that reality is reality. And action always brings reactions.
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Mrexcell(m): 3:29pm On Jul 11, 2025
SmartPolician:
He's not spreading any hate. You cannot go about destroying someone's land with drugs and fraud, and expect them to like and welcome you open hands.

This is the conversation we should be having now: why do Nigerians commit crimes outside Nigeria? Nobody would take that from any foreign nationals, including YOU!
Why are they extending the hate to even a dead body that's totally harmless? That's completely insane and inhuman what if the SA lady couldn't afford to transport the corpse to nigeria won't the south african authorities be forced to bury the body by themselves?
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Lionessza6(f): 3:35pm On Jul 11, 2025
Mrexcell:
Why are they extending the hate to even a dead body that's totally harmless? That's completely insane and inhuman what if the SA lady couldn't afford to transport the corpse to nigeria won't the south african authorities be forced to bury the body by themselves?
The question is why did she not take this body to the government cemeteries like all foreigners do?

Here;

You don't Bury a non-native man in tribal land in South Africa and that's that. Only married women can be buried in their husband's villages not the other way round. You can try all you want for this to change ,but it will never change grin. A man must build his own home ,so that his children and wife could Bury him there ,that's our way down here. Men don't get wived grin. She should have used her brains and buried the stranger in the city...but no,she inherited the forceful ,overbearing nature of her husband's people and she got served hot grin grin grin. This is disrespectful to and she knows it,she probably was isolated by her family because of this marriage and wanted to get back them ( probably the elders in her family are deceased) AND she foolishly thought the rest of the community will allow this nonsense on their ancestral land grin grin grin
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by themanderon: 4:02pm On Jul 11, 2025
Lionessza6:
LMAO. Leave them alone, and stop wailing grin. They don't want you around,why force yourselves on them ?

From Ghana to SA, from India to the Emirates you shall wail until you develop some self respect. grin


You don't Bury a non-native man in tribal land in South Africa and that's that. Only married women can be buried in their husband's villages not the other way round. You can try all you want for this to change ,but it will never change grin. A man must build his own home ,so that his children and wife could Bury him there ,that's our way down here. Men don't get wived grin. She should have used her brains and buried the stranger in the city...but no,she inherited the forceful ,overbearing nature of her husband's people and she got served hot grin grin grin. This is disrespectful to and she knows it,she probably was isolated by her family because of this marriage and wanted to get back them ( probably the elders in her family are deceased) AND she foolishly thought the rest of the community will allow this nonsense on their ancestral land grin grin grin
So much foolishness dwells within you. The earth knows no tribe, race or ethnicity but I guess you are too dense to realize that.
Take your tribal land with you to eternity if you can. Xenophobe.
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by femi4: 4:13pm On Jul 11, 2025
Lioness5280:
E pain am grin grin grin grin grin

That corpse would never be buried on our ancestral village and that's our tradition grin grin grin grin. Wail and wail ...and you'll come back and still comply grin grin
The joke is on you. The dead has no feelings. Whatever you do or undo doesn't affect the dead. Enjoy the pain
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by seppuku: 4:22pm On Jul 11, 2025
WizardOfNG:
Yes this is a reasonable explanation but I have taken this into consideration mentioning in an earlier post that this uproar against this man's burial would be justified if legal, religious or cultural restrictions applied.

Yet look at the response of your fellow SAs here, like RandDigital, who began talking about the criminal reputation of Nigerians as justification for this development?

Go and look at the twitter comments as well, to the video of the man's hearse being repelled, to note your explanation did not feature in most response.

Rather it is "go and bury him in Abuja" and "it is an abomination". Claiming it is an "abomination" a Nigerian be buried in South Africa is acceptable to Nigerians how?

I appreciate your explanation but I believe the wider issue revealed is the unreasonable hatred most south Africans host for Nigerians that has compromised all levels of your thinking.

Most law-abiding Nigerians are ashamed of the Nigerians commiting crime in your nation and we advocate you deal with them to the full extent of you laws. That does not mean you take a "lynch all Nigerians" mentality over every issue concerning Nigerians in your nation.

This bereaved woman's request concerns crime how? It is final burial rites she wants to observed for her beloved. A private issue in virtually all nations of the world to include Nigeria.

Why then did most South Africans commenting online, and even her on Nairaland, made it about "Nigerian criminals must be buried in Abuja"?
My Brother stop wasting your breath. The propaganda going on in South Africa about Nigerians is on another level.

Avoid those people if you can. They will take out their life frustrations on any Nigerian criminal or not.

Xenophobes are not logical they are emotional.
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Lioness5280(f): 4:24pm On Jul 11, 2025
femi4:
The joke is on you. The dead has no feelings. Whatever you do or undo doesn't affect the dead. Enjoy the pain
The joke is on the wailers all over the first two pages of this thread grin. They are clearly pained and so are you.

The strange man must be taken back to his strange land grin grin
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by seppuku: 4:26pm On Jul 11, 2025
Mrexcell:
Why are they extending the hate to even a dead body that's totally harmless? That's completely insane and inhuman what if the SA lady couldn't afford to transport the corpse to nigeria won't the south african authorities be forced to bury the body by themselves?
You dey ask question for people wey their heart na Xenophobia full am.

You never experience South African people.

Make I yarn you.
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Mrexcell(m): 4:27pm On Jul 11, 2025
Lionessza6:
The question is why did she not take this body to the government cemeteries like all foreigners do?

Here;

You don't Bury a non-native man in tribal land in South Africa and that's that. Only married women can be buried in their husband's villages not the other way round. You can try all you want for this to change ,but it will never change grin. A man must build his own home ,so that his children and wife could Bury him there ,that's our way down here. Men don't get wived grin. She should have used her brains and buried the stranger in the city...but no,she inherited the forceful ,overbearing nature of her husband's people and she got served hot grin grin grin. This is disrespectful to and she knows it,she probably was isolated by her family because of this marriage and wanted to get back them ( probably the elders in her family are deceased) AND she foolishly thought the rest of the community will allow this nonsense on their ancestral land grin grin grin
If that's the case then the situation is not that bad as been painted I thought it was the whole south africa lands that's prohibited from burying foreigners even here in nigeria many communities don't allow non natives to be buried in their land.
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Lioness5280(f): 4:28pm On Jul 11, 2025
themanderon:
So much foolishness dwells within you. The earth knows no tribe, race or ethnicity but I guess you are too dense to realize that.
Take your tribal land with you to eternity if you can. Xenophobe.
Humans are both tribal and territorial and this is till and post death grin grin grin. Go and wail about something else, that corpse is on it's way to Nigeria where it belongs. You're not going to be coming into our ancestral lands to worship your deities in the name of visiting your dead brother grin grin grin. Good riddance.
Re: South Africans Protest Burial Of Nigerian Man In Their Village by Jman06(m): 4:28pm On Jul 11, 2025
What offence did Nigerians commit against South Africans to deserve this depth of hatred? During the apartheid regime in SA, Nigeria stood and fought the apartheid with native South Africans yet SAns have completely forgotten those years of cordial relationship with Nigeria! Too bad
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