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Met this new girl in church and we got talking. She has a nice shape. She is 25, graduate. From our conversation it was obvious she is so ignorant of so many things. Never enjoyed sex. Did it just for doing sake . She and her ex were non challant.
According to her, she has just one body count and last had sex in 2023. I thought it was all talk.
This girl gave me a talking Stage form to fill . This was so funny .
Then the day came , our first kiss nothing happens . The second kiss and I try going in, there was traffic . She complained about my big d*ck and ran to the toilet saying I injured her. Omoh dị*ck way every babe both big and small dey appreciate and wants more of it.
The third day same thing . She even sent me a text the following day warning me never to touch her again. That her body aches. I should go get sex from someone else .

Omoh I was getting really frustrated from all of this and our conversation dropped .
I told her we need to end it so I can concentrate. I needed to concentrate and get someone who matches my vibe abeg.
She came around to apologise and said she can't afford to lose me bla bla.
She tried doing it, it was terrible. My d*ck couldn't enter . It stopped halfway.
I took off the condom and it entered a bit deeper, but she has out in 2 minutes .
Every attempt was terrible . She has asked for patience BTW that she will adjust.

The sexual compatibility is zero. I am so active . But I like her. She is so feminine and in words and actions. And I perceive her innocence is a little bit intact.
I am willing to exercise the patience . But I wan nack and I honestly can't nack someone else cos it's not my thing to nack anyone I am not emotionally connected to . It feels like tortured to me .

Intent247:
Met this new girl in church and we got talking. She has a nice shape. She is 25, graduate. From our conversation it was obvious she is so ignorant of so many things. Never enjoyed sex. Did it just for doing sake . She and her ex were non challant.
According to her, she has just one body count and last had sex in 2023. I thought it was all talk.
This girl gave me a talking Stage form to fill . This was so funny .
Then the day came , our first kiss nothing happens . The second kiss and I try going in, there was traffic . She complained about my big d*ck and ran to the toilet saying I injured her. Omoh dị*ck way every babe both big and small dey appreciate and wants more of it.
The third day same thing . She even sent me a text the following day warning me never to touch her again. That her body aches. I should go get sex from someone else .

Omoh I was getting really frustrated from all of this and our conversation dropped .
I told her we need to end it so I can concentrate. I needed to concentrate and get someone who matches my vibe abeg.
She came around to apologise and said she can't afford to lose me bla bla.
She tried doing it, it was terrible. My d*ck couldn't enter . It stopped halfway.
I took off the condom and it entered a bit deeper, but she has out in 2 minutes .
Every attempt was terrible . She has asked for patience BTW that she will adjust.

The sexual compatibility is zero. I am so active . But I like her. She is so feminine and in words and actions. And I perceive her innocence is a little bit intact.
I am willing to exercise the patience . But I wan nack and I honestly can't nack someone else cos it's not my thing to nack anyone I am not emotionally connected to . It feels like tortured to me .

I am not an advocate nor a fan of sex before marriage... But, there is something called lubricant gel. Kindly get one and don't kill the poor sister with bruises from your brute force!!!

dawnomike:
I am not an advocate nor a fan of sex before marriage... But, there is something called lubricant gel. Kindly get one and don't kill the poor sister with bruises from your brute force!!!

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Well, I am actually thinking of holding off the sex . Truth is I want to get married and I already see her as a wife.
But my issue is, will she meet my sexual vibe ?
Omoh I be machine .

Intent247:
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Well, I am actually thinking of holding off the sex . Truth is I want to get married and I already see her as a wife.
But my issue is, will she meet my sexual vibe ?
Omoh I be machine .
And how can I apply the lubricant incase. Is on my d*ck and her v*gina.
Never used that before

but seun and his mods will still push the story to frontpage

Intent247:
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Well, I am actually thinking of holding off the sex . Truth is I want to get married and I already see her as a wife.
But my issue is, will she meet my sexual vibe ?
Omoh I be machine .
And how can I apply the lubricant incase. Is on my d*ck and her v*gina.
Never used that before

The lubricant will be best applied on your forehead and then your foot, don't forget to apply some on your eyebrows too and thank me later bro

franchasofficia:
The lubricant will be best applied on your forehead and then your foot, don't forget to apply some on your eyebrows too and thank me later bro

😂
He should also not forget to swallow it too, so that to lubricate his body 😆😂

Ibkay32:
😂
He should also not forget to swallow it too, so that to lubricate his body 😆😂

As usual you are trying to detail the thread . Can't you guys beat this allegations for once.

Do you know this thing they call Spanish Fly

It's sold in stores

A satchet will do the trick

Tell her about it and she should drink it before u guys get down ok

Isn't that the kind of woman alpha males have preached that men should marry? My fair advice is that if she ticks your boxes on other aspects, you can go ahead to marry her. Just don't use her for sex alone, else you will make another lady become wild and a man hater. There are many of them on Obasanjo Internet, especially on TwitterNG.

If she doesn't tick your boxes regarding marriage, let her go. Don't force it. We've too many damaged people in that dating scene in Nigeria. Please don't worsen it for incoming participants.

P.S. If you really cherish sex and don't want it to be weaponised during marriage (this happens to most married men), let her go. From your description, she will sexually frustrate you in marriage.

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But wait o, she gave you a talking stage form to fill? Oh my God! Is that how people do now? I might as well remain single!

Gerrard59:
Isn't that the kind of woman alpha males have preached that men should marry? My fair advice is that if she ticks your boxes on other aspects, you can go ahead to marry her. Just don't use her for sex alone, else you will make another lady become wild and a man hater. There are many of them on Obasanjo Internet, especially on TwitterNG.

If she doesn't tick your boxes regarding marriage, let her go. Don't force it. We've too many damaged people in that dating scene in Nigeria. Please don't worsen it for incoming participants.

P.S. If you really cherish sex and don't want it to be weaponised during marriage (this happens to most married men), let her go. From your description, she will sexually frustrate you in marriage.

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But wait o, she gave you a talking stage form to fill? Oh my God! Is that how people do now? I might as well remain single!

Lol. I didn't fill anything. But it was funny .
Well I will observe her

illicit:
Do you know this thing they call Spanish Fly

It's sold in stores

A satchet will do the trick

Tell her about it and she should drink it before u guys get down ok

Is Spanish fly really real. I thought it's just stories.
i checked it on Jumia nah insecticide come out

Buy lube,buy lubricant,get something to make penetration easier,no kill the girl,no kill person daughter,na her papa pride be that,na her mama jewel…


But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes

Yeah, that's why lube exist, dumbas s.




]Met this new girl in church and we got talking. She has a nice shape. She is 25, graduate. From our conversation it was obvious she is so ignorant of so many things. Never enjoyed sex. Did it just for doing sake . She and her ex were non challant.
According to her, she has just one body count and last had sex in 2023. I thought it was all talk.
This girl gave me a talking Stage form to fill . This was so funny .
Then the day came , our first kiss nothing happens . The second kiss and I try going in, there was traffic . She complained about my big d*ck and ran to the toilet saying I injured her. Omoh dị*ck way every babe both big and small dey appreciate and wants more of it.
The third day same thing . She even sent me a text the following day warning me never to touch her again. That her body aches. I should go get sex from someone else .

Omoh I was getting really frustrated from all of this and our conversation dropped .
I told her we need to end it so I can concentrate. I needed to concentrate and get someone who matches my vibe abeg.
She came around to apologise and said she can't afford to lose me bla bla.
She tried doing it, it was terrible. My d*ck couldn't enter . It stopped halfway.
I took off the condom and it entered a bit deeper, but she has out in 2 minutes .
Every attempt was terrible . She has asked for patience BTW that she will adjust.

The sexual compatibility is zero. I am so active . But I like her. She is so feminine and in words and actions. And I perceive her innocence is a little bit intact.
I am willing to exercise the patience . But I wan nack and I honestly can't nack someone else cos it's not my thing to nack anyone I am not emotionally connected to . It feels like tortured to me .[/quote]

Intent247:
Is Spanish fly really real. I thought it's just stories.
i checked it on Jumia nah insecticide come out

It is not your duty to do that for her. Let her get the lubricant herself if she wants to enjoy it with you otherwise don't!

The fact she's even a church girl is another story for another day. That is she has one body count is story for the gods. She even said you can get the s3x from someone else means she doesn't like you no rate you. You're just an option to her. Also giving you form to feel before let you touch her (something you'll enjoy far more than you do) Means you're the one disturbing her.

The fact she also texted you never to touch her again Means you should just leave her.

Do as she says and get the sex elsewhere. She'll be the one who will decide to come over with lubricant to your house to enjoy your massive gbola.

illicit:
Do you know this thing they call Spanish Fly

It's sold in stores

A satchet will do the trick

Tell her about it and she should drink it before u guys get down ok

How u take remember am self. You must real bado.

Everything starts with the mind sha. I no dey support premarital sex.

Intent247:
Is Spanish fly really real. I thought it's just stories.
i checked it on Jumia nah insecticide come out

U be novice really. I no go tell you sha!. Internet go help you if u fit change your search parameters.

Gerrard59:
Isn't that the kind of woman alpha males have preached that men should marry? My fair advice is that if she ticks your boxes on other aspects, you can go ahead to marry her. Just don't use her for sex alone, else you will make another lady become wild and a man hater. There are many of them on Obasanjo Internet, especially on TwitterNG.

If she doesn't tick your boxes regarding marriage, let her go. Don't force it. We've too many damaged people in that dating scene in Nigeria. Please don't worsen it for incoming participants.

P.S. If you really cherish sex and don't want it to be weaponised during marriage (this happens to most married men), let her go. From your description, she will sexually frustrate you in marriage.

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But wait o, she gave you a talking stage form to fill? Oh my God! Is that how people do now? I might as well remain single!

There is 90% possibility she will frustrate him sexually.

almarthins:

U be novice really. I no go tell you sha!. Internet go help you if u fit change your search parameters.

Have been hearing about it. But I have never been in need of it to sexually aroused a woman

Intent247:
Is Spanish fly really real. I thought it's just stories.
i checked it on Jumia nah insecticide come out

Lol. It's real and it's not insecticide

Just make sure you discuss it with her

It's about 1000 naira

Funny dude...normally no dick too big for any babe wey don dey already lash. The babe fit nor really dey into you. If she is ehhn, that her honeypot go over moist even before pre-intimacy, the veejay muscles go relax in anticipation for your akpamu.

Sometimes e fit be say she get medical condition too. Like one person talk before, una fit dey use water based lube for now.

Intent247:
Met this new girl in church and we got talking. She has a nice shape. She is 25, graduate. From our conversation it was obvious she is so ignorant of so many things. Never enjoyed sex. Did it just for doing sake . She and her ex were non challant.
According to her, she has just one body count and last had sex in 2023. I thought it was all talk.
This girl gave me a talking Stage form to fill . This was so funny .
Then the day came , our first kiss nothing happens . The second kiss and I try going in, there was traffic . She complained about my big d*ck and ran to the toilet saying I injured her. Omoh dị*ck way every babe both big and small dey appreciate and wants more of it.
The third day same thing . She even sent me a text the following day warning me never to touch her again. That her body aches. I should go get sex from someone else .

Omoh I was getting really frustrated from all of this and our conversation dropped .
I told her we need to end it so I can concentrate. I needed to concentrate and get someone who matches my vibe abeg.
She came around to apologise and said she can't afford to lose me bla bla.
She tried doing it, it was terrible. My d*ck couldn't enter . It stopped halfway.
I took off the condom and it entered a bit deeper, but she has out in 2 minutes .
Every attempt was terrible . She has asked for patience BTW that she will adjust.

The sexual compatibility is zero. I am so active . But I like her. She is so feminine and in words and actions. And I perceive her innocence is a little bit intact.
I am willing to exercise the patience . But I wan nack and I honestly can't nack someone else cos it's not my thing to nack anyone I am not emotionally connected to . It feels like tortured to me .

I had one like that years ago. If I wan enter small,she don jump comot hold belle. I go come dey tell her sorry, thinking I injured her. Na later she start conffes,say na just pretence, trying to know the kind of person I am. My advice is don't rush to penetrate. Comot mind for penetration and focus on fore play.. e get where e go reach,she will beg you to plug it in..

Note,I don't support sex before marriage..

Note, imagine you didn't try it now before marriage.. how e fit be for marriage?


Note,I now support sex before marriage

It seems chastity has been erased from the dictionary

Esthered:
It seems chastity has been erased from the dictionary

If I no fvck now, how I want take know our sexual compatibility. Imagine having this after we are married

Omo this post carry plenty wahala but here’s my honest 2 kobo:

Sometimes, we want performance, but forget that intimacy requires trust, emotional safety, and patience — especially with someone who’s not experienced.

If you truly like her, focus on bonding first. Teach, don’t force. And please, if na marriage dey your mind, build the friendship too.

🚨Lastly bros, no be every relationship go be cruise. Know when to hold on and when to move on.

✍️ — A woman who designs logos and minds her business 😌

Intent247:
Have been hearing about it. But I have never been in need of it to sexually aroused a woman

Spanish fly is real but I doubt your girl would subscribe to this idea.

Intent247:
If I no fvck now, how I want take know our sexual compatibility. Imagine having this after we are married

I wasn't experienced when we got married and it was painful.....we complained in pharmacies......I was given medications......it took a conversation with a direct report who had 3 kids to tell me what to do after over 6 months and due to our living in different states, it took another 6 months to implement.

This is since 2020 but he was PATIENT with me and we've had 2 children and will be six years in December.

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I think it now a common things about girls who stay long before they disvirgin, I have two girls at hand who doesn't fancy sex, one complains the time and even pushes me away that my stuff is too big the other one doesn't even get aroused at all, no matter the pre-intimacy you have with her

Sometimes it can be frustrating for a guy