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falcon01:
Lots of normal things aint ok with Religions

FallenAngel:
A wise man once said: "Religion is a tool used by smart people,to control a certain amount of lost,confused or ignorant people".

So... Anything about religion is false.

helinues:
If you must abstain from sex, then I see nothing wrong in masturbating..

Image123:
How much do you see past your nose? If life is judged on "I sees", then i see nothing wrong with giving you a good clean slap. How do you feel about that?

FallenAngel:
A wise man once said: "Religion is a tool used by smart people,to control a certain amount of lost,confused or ignorant people".

So... Anything about religion is false.

Janet96:
Today, we’re going to broach a very sensitive topic but an important topic and a controversial topic, the topic of masturbation. Within the greater body of Christ there is a spectrum of opinion on the subject. The reason for this is because, as we’ll soon see, the Bible is actually silent on the subject, at least to some degree.

Read more:

https://christ-like-life..com/2019/04/is-masturbation-wrong.html?m=1

helinues:
If your religion is telling you masturbation is a sin, my working brain is saying otherwise.

Let me ask you..

What is sex? What is sperm?

falcon01:
Religion gives the hopeless false hope, it makes them feel as if there suffering ain't for nothing. sometimes I think its a tool created to prevent poor people from protesting.

Janet96:
The spiritual and biblical view on masturbation is nuanced and not explicitly addressed in Scripture, which means interpretations vary across Christian denominations, traditions, and personal convictions. Here's a balanced look from a biblical and spiritual perspective:


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1. What the Bible Says (and Doesn’t Say)

There is no direct mention of masturbation in the Bible. This absence has led to differing interpretations:

The Story of Onan (Genesis 38:8–10)

Often cited in discussions of masturbation.

Onan "spilled his seed" on the ground, but the context is about refusing his duty to provide offspring for his deceased brother, not masturbation.

God's displeasure was with Onan’s disobedience and selfishness, not the act itself.


➡️ Conclusion: This is not a clear condemnation of masturbation.


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2. Broader Biblical Principles

While masturbation is not mentioned directly, the Bible emphasizes:

Purity of Heart and Mind

Matthew 5:28 — "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

Lust is a major concern; masturbation is often accompanied by sexual fantasy or pornography, which may lead to sinful thought patterns.


Self-Control

Galatians 5:22–23 — The fruit of the Spirit includes self-control.

1 Corinthians 6:12 — “I will not be mastered by anything.” This can apply to compulsive or addictive behaviors, including masturbation.


Honor God with Your Body

1 Corinthians 6:19–20 — "Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit... therefore honor God with your body."



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3. Spiritual and Theological Considerations

Conscience and Conviction

Romans 14:23 — "Whatever does not proceed from faith is sin."

If a person feels conviction that masturbation is wrong for them, then for them it is sin.


Grace and Mercy

Christianity emphasizes God's grace. Struggles with sexual temptation, including masturbation, are not beyond forgiveness or healing.

The goal is transformation through the Spirit, not perfection through willpower alone.



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4. Christian Views: Varying Perspectives

Conservative View

Many conservative traditions (Catholic, Orthodox, some evangelical groups) view masturbation as sinful due to its association with lust, selfishness, and misuse of sexuality.


Moderate View

Some Christians believe masturbation can be morally neutral if it does not involve lust or pornography and does not become compulsive or replace intimacy in marriage.


Pastoral View

Many pastors recognize that masturbation is a common struggle, especially among youth, and encourage spiritual growth, accountability, and healing rather than shame.



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5. Practical Guidance for Christians

Ask: Is this drawing me closer to God or distracting me from Him?

Evaluate motives: Is it out of lust, stress relief, or habit?

Consider spiritual disciplines: prayer, fasting, confession, and community.

Seek accountability if it's compulsive or tied to pornography.



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Summary

Not directly condemned, but often associated with lust, which is warned against.

The heart and intent matter greatly in Scripture.

The emphasis is on self-control, purity, and honoring God with our bodies.

There's room for grace, growth, and dialogue rather than guilt and shame.