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This is where women are wrong. You think because you go out to work and he is at home and unemployed for a while means he is idle. His mind is filled with strategies and ideas.

Also You are not helping your husband or partner so he can help you with chores. You are helping him cater for the family till he gets back on his feet so that he can do more than you did because as a woman you will be exhausted once in a while. And a kind man will recognize that.

The husband is a provider and head of the family not your chore assistant. This is what women get wrong that makes them leave their husbands house out of frustration because he doesn’t assist them in chores. And when they yell and curse at him he fully withdraws his attention also.

When she abandons her husband she will then be the only person taking care of that child or children and selfishly deny them fatherly care.

Let me advise you. Your husband has studied your character very well and knows how abusive you can be and how unappreciative you can be so he deliberately leaves the chores to you.

You might say that is wicked and narcissistic but trust me, you have done the same to him while he was also feeding the family. During those times you never appreciated his effort because you thought it was his obligation to take care of you. When he needs your help you only answer him whenever you “felt like” or whenever you are in the “mood”.

When you marry a kind man, who is temporarily financially incapacitated, he knows he is the head of the family but he recognizes the stress the burden of the family is putting on you. This man will automatically, out of love and respect for you do all the house chores even before you return home.

Even if he smells disrespect once in a while he will recognize that it is because you are stressed out. However if it continues he will withdraw his care and his attention. And if you leave him because of that, believe the man will bounce back and it might be too late for you to return then.

My friend! We’re drowning in information on how women can be better. Please could you spend some time advising your fellow men on how to improve and grow

As representative for the female folk, I would like to thank you for the time and energy spent on pinpointing our shortcomings. We have improved dramatically and the issue now is that the men are being left behind because nobody helped them grow and highlight their weaknesses.

Young men today are plagued by addictions of every kind, they’re emotionally stunted, drowning in poverty, and lack basic self awareness. What are we going to do for them?

The solution can’t be for women to diminish their abilities, for women to settle for broken men, for women to follow misguided men! Surly that isn’t the answer.

In summary, please spend this time, energy, and expertise to help your fellow men become better leaders, better lovers, and better people in general. Thank you in advance. 🎤💅

Double0h7:
My friend! We’re drowning in information on how women can be better. Please could you spend some time advising your fellow men on how to improve and grow

As representative for the female folk, I would like to thank you for the time and energy spent on pinpointing our shortcomings. We have improved dramatically and the issue now is that the men are being left behind because nobody helped them grow and highlight their weaknesses.

Young men today are plagued by addictions of every kind, they’re emotionally stunted, drowning in poverty, and lack basic self awareness. What are we going to do for them?

The solution can’t be for women to diminish their abilities, for women to settle for broken men, for women to follow misguided men! Surly that isn’t the answer.

In summary, please spend this time, energy, and expertise to help your fellow men become better leaders, better lovers, and better people in general. Thank you in advance. 🎤💅

Well, like you said and i quote “As representative for the female folk” wouldn’t it be helpful if you also advised the men via a post?

tunnyl:
Well, like you said and i quote “As representative for the female folk” wouldn’t it be helpful if you also advised the men via a post?

“I know you are but what am I?”aaaaah response
High 5 🖐️

Double0h7:
“I know you are but what am I?”aaaaah response
High 5 🖐️

I don’t understand. Do you mean you are a guy?

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