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This is so funny but you know something? Most therapists can see what you can't see and wondering why it is hard for you to see it. Lawyer saw that you don't value what you have, lawyer grabbed it, snatched it and went away with it. You go explain tire is the rest of the story. And lawyers being what they are, they are ready for stories. That's what they were trained for. They will give you TKO, technical knock out. You'll know that the law is an ass for a reason, it can also be an assassin 😝

Omihanifa:
Why is the woman bitter again nah. Is she angry because the man found love almost immediately? Or she's angry that the lawyer prevented her from cashing out

Most Women don't want you happy when they are not in the picture. If something gives you joy and they are not at the center of it, most of them begin to have mood swing. That gender is something else

Babssoo:
I don’t understand what this women want sef, you packed your things and abandoned the man, you asked for divorce, you collected settlement and still you don’t want the man to move on….. what a shame

Confused set of people. They act when their emotions Are high then realizes their actions as soon as they are calm.

In all of this..... One Yoruba adage comes to mind:

[i][/i]omo'ba ti o ní kebe, gba lọwọ ẹ̀, kò mọọ lò....

Lordspicy:
But you divorced him Na , why are you still so bitter?

There are lots of bittered women out there who foolishly lost their marriages out of comparison.

DMCY:
Don’t let your wife or husband spoil your happiness.

You can be with your wife and still meet your soulmate

You can be with your husband and still meet your heartrob


I cum in peace 🤡 😭😹

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You didn't come in peace

Her underlined word is the Settlement.

This is what happen when you do not value what you have

youngrichnigga:
Her loss,she gon lurn the hard way.
Kundus to the lawyer and her ex-husband

😂😂😂

Islie:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/7/i-trusted-her-to-be-neutral-drama-in-ondo-court-as-woman-accuses-lawyer-of-secretly-marrying-her-ex-husband-after-handling-their-divorce-2.html

African mentality. You felt your husband isn't good for you. You filed for divorce and even got a female law to make sure that the divorce is served and settled.

Now you have divorced your hubby what disqualifies your ex hubby from marrying a lawyer? And what disqualifies a lawyer from marrying a divorced man.

OlujobaSamuel:
Clause is after some specific years, although the report is silent on the duration, but with the manner of defence put up by the ex husband and lawyer, it appears it was immediately after the case ended, which is enough evidence.
The magistrate might not want to venture into the case and just gave the ruling so all of them can go with their wahala, we don't know the kind stress they gave him during the proceedings, so e fit no ready for such stress again

If the case goes to NBA, I'm very sure the female lawyer would bring up solid defence to counter it, and who knows if, NBA allows relationship to start immediately, going by submission of female lawyer.

For real,my Ma showed qualities of disdain when my late Pa suffered once... always tot her to be the best...then I started disagreeing with her.....fast forward...she's still the best but I now see that there's just something amiss and incomplete the female folk may never find while here on earth.

I always said.." if only God had created a third Gender..."

Women sha!

You divorce the husband, anyone he like he can marry, is that her business again

Goodlady:
Is that the right thing to do?
It's betrayal of trust.
These days we should be careful of enemies within.

Akuko, Stay/grab wherever you find happiness. If you don't want the devil, reject his gift altogether

Edoreborn:
She can't eat her cake and also have it at d same time...

Yes, she can and it may well happen. All will depend on timing. Importantly: was her lawyer and her ex-husband romantically involved bfire she hired her and during the court hearing? If so, that is dishonest and a professional misconduct. That lawyer may be debarred. But then, it happened in Nigeria.

Fiscus105:
All these professionals allowed professional members to have relationship with clients, though after specific years,when they might have discharged their professional expertises.( Lawyers, clinical psychologists, marriage Councillors etc)

Meanwhile, if she reports them, no evidence to back it up)

I really see that some professions are scams...like divorce attorneys

Kingosytex:
She alleged that the said lawyer, by virtue of her position, manipulated the process to her own advantage, leaving her short-changed in the divorce settlement.

This is an eye opener for all women. Think before you do or think after u do. There are some issues in the matrimonial homes that can be resolved amicably after a lot of patience and tolerance but too much egoes from either side can spill the beans. I wonder why woman was crying foul after short herself at foot and left in limbo.

No be only NBA, CJN should be contacted too, when she pushed for divorce,soap dey her eyes, while the divorce process was going on, did she ever had a rethink,abeg make she park well.....


If the case goes to NBA, I'm very sure the female lawyer would bring up solid defence to counter it, and who knows if, NBA allows relationship to start immediately, going by submission of female lawyer.[/quote]

iswallker:
Fake news...

Lawyers don't appear in customary courts...

I have been to one before without a lawyer...

More like elders appointed by state govt..

Did u read, ONDO STATE NEWS PAPER, THE HOPE AS SOURCE OF INFORMATION?

i am sure this may be grounds for disbarment

Kobojunkie:
Una no dey read ...that remains the number one issue with a whole lot of you. 🤔

Lolz. Your pain is understandable. The lawyer prevented her From cashing out and she is pained .

You are free to immerse your soul in hatred for men, but that won't stop men from triumphing.

If you label a man as bad, many other women will grab him for themselves. You will be alone in your garment of hatred, while other women cherish what you disdain.

RollinTNDA:
If you check well
The divorce lawyer was hyping her to dump the man.🤣🤣🤣

No be she carried her case go court and asked for the divorce, even if they hyped her she initiated the case herself.

tanigororo:
This is what she is fighting for:

But her "fight" is based solely on suspicion and not evidence

Edoreborn:
She can't eat her cake and also have it at d same time...

Women are wicked beings, dogs in manger. She wants to wreck the guy forever

Goodlady:
Is that the right thing to do?
It's betrayal of trust.
These days we should be careful of enemies within.

Shut up.

debase1:
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You didn't come in peace

Make person sha come anyhow

MadamExcellency:
She should be reported to the NBA for investigation and possible sanctions.

The truth is that, heaven and earth knows the the lawyer outsmarted her because she was naive. But like you said, NBA should investigate her and make law to avoid such scenarios. Because tomorrow it could happen to you son or daughter. Out of the billions of men on earth, you didn't see anyone to marry, it is the one you handled her divorce case? Make we dey fear God o!!!

Kobojunkie:
Una no dey read ...that remains the number one issue with a whole lot of you. 🤔

So what did you read? Quick to condemn people without pointing out the correction
If you said they don't read, then you summarise it, let's see what you read.

Imagine!

You said you don’t want something again, you asked someone to throw it in the garbage, the latter saw it as something valuable and decided to keep it and then you started a fight saying you want it back!

Shebi some of unna no get brain ni, by fire by force unna go get am. Men webi say na scarce commodity dem be now, u get one you dey take am play football! Sope oti ló

Kobojunkie:
Una no dey read ...that remains the number one issue with a whole lot of you. 🤔

Yinmu!

your life partner can come in any form , just be prepared

Kingosytex:
She alleged that the said lawyer, by virtue of her position, manipulated the process to her own advantage, leaving her [b]short-changed in the divorce settlement.[/b]

Thank you.

She was short-changed!

Most people have comprehensive deficiencies.