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How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by DyshApp(op): 11:23pm On Jul 21, 2025
A young Nigerian bride has gone viral after revealing the unexpected way she met her husband, while on a date with her then-boyfriend.

In a trending video shared on social media, the bride, dressed in her wedding gown and surrounded by friends, recalled how her chance encounter with her now-husband happened during a birthday celebration.

“Don’t miss your husband because of your boyfriend,” she began, drawing laughter and cheers from her friends.

She explained that on her birthday, she had gone out with her boyfriend at the time, only to cross paths with another couple, her now-husband and his then-girlfriend, at the same venue.

“He was there with his girlfriend too. We started vibing and he was spraying me money. I thanked him later because I didn’t expect it, and from there, we started vibing,” she recounted.

The video has since made rounds across various platforms, with many social media users surprised and some discouraged by the spontaneity of their love story.

Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by MMempire(m): 11:29pm On Jul 21, 2025
This gender again? They will never cease to amaze us.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Dzzzz: 11:49pm On Jul 21, 2025
When time comes the ex will receive a call from her to meet up..I still receive calls from ex gfs turned wife’s who want to meet up..E no Dey shake us again tufiakwa..
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Haydens: 12:35am On Jul 22, 2025
The ex boyfriend was just a backup plan or probably using him until a big fish comes to the scene.

Never let any woman use you as a man because it's in their nature to use a man.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Malawian(m): 4:30am On Jul 22, 2025
This babe dey amaze me, come collect maize.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:06am On Jul 22, 2025
Good for her
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by galantjoe(m): 6:04am On Jul 22, 2025
This lady gets permanent interest
No permanent enemy
But many ladies of nowadays are narrow-minded or probably they singled minded such that they beclouded by monogamous preaching of sinners.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Originalsly: 6:18am On Jul 22, 2025
What will happen if another man spray her with more money? ... or gift her a better car? The husband should know what goes around comes around .... that she can be bought by another man .... his friends wives and her friends will know ... she has no problem snatching men from their women. Hope we can get an update on the wedding in six months.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by FreeIgboho: 6:28am On Jul 22, 2025
Originalsly:
What will happen if another man spray her with more money? ... or gift her a better car? The husband should know what goes around comes around .... that she can be bought by another man .... his friends wives and her friends will know ... she has no problem snatching men from their women. Hope we can get an update on the wedding in six months.
Did she tell you it was because he sprayed her more money or had better car?
They simply matched. Not because of money or car
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Originalsly: 6:46am On Jul 22, 2025
FreeIgboho:
Did she tell you it was because he sprayed her more money or had better car?
They simply matched. Not because of money or car
Did she tell you it was not about money or car? How did you know it wasn't?
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by FreeIgboho: 6:55am On Jul 22, 2025
Originalsly:
Did she tell you it was not about money or car? How did you know it wasn't?
I'm not the one who started with cars and money
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by delugadou(m): 7:37am On Jul 22, 2025
For the guys, don't let another man spray money on your girl. You are playing with fire.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Bellotelli: 7:46am On Jul 22, 2025
FreeIgboho:
I'm not the one who started with cars and money
Since she emphasized the spraying of money, we can now conclude that she was enticed by money.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Natbrowny: 8:09am On Jul 22, 2025
Hope she finds peace. Coz if the husband begin do anyhow now.. she'll contact her ex for solace and that one go still chop for free.



Just coming online to say things they should have kept to themselves.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by FreeIgboho: 8:15am On Jul 22, 2025
Bellotelli:
Since she emphasized the spraying of money, we can now conclude that she was enticed by money.
It led to them starting to talk and then found out they're a match - not that she decided to marry him because of money!
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Kutunban: 8:18am On Jul 22, 2025
DyshApp:
“He was there with his girlfriend too. We started vibing and he was spraying me money. I thanked him later because I didn’t expect it, and from there, we started vibing,” she recounted.
From her assertion "Money" was a motivation and she thanked him. Dear men, If you use money to get her you must use money to keep her too.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Kutunban: 8:23am On Jul 22, 2025
FreeIgboho:
Did she tell you it was because he sprayed her more money or had better car?
They simply matched. Not because of money or car
The phrase “Don’t miss your husband because of your boyfriend” is problematic if taken literally. It may encourage people to disregard loyalty, constantly chase “better” options, and devalue emotional integrity.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Kutunban: 8:29am On Jul 22, 2025
FreeIgboho:
It led to them starting to talk and then found out they're a match - not that she decided to marry him because of money!
Meeting someone new and developing a romantic connection while both are still in existing relationships can be viewed as disrespectful to their partners. It raises ethical concerns, especially if cheating was involved.

Some may feel this story reflects a trend where loyalty and depth in relationships are being replaced with “vibes” and short-term gratification like she mentioned "Money sprayed on her".

Stories like this can make people question the strength of their own relationships. If someone can find "their person" while out with someone else, it can feed insecurity and mistrust. Do you support people to start sourcing for alternative partners now when they go out with their partners?
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by FreeSpirited: 9:41am On Jul 22, 2025
Women are always in the market scanning for the highest bidder. They are never tired. Even some take this spirit into their marriage scanning for the next fine rich dude they can ride in secret
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Freshtruth(m): 9:56am On Jul 22, 2025
You weigh both pocket and u said to ur self I can't miss this opportunity .
Stop this long talk we are not kids

Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Babamide(m): 10:00am On Jul 22, 2025
These ladies just use men to climb the social ladder. That's why you can never trust a Woman. She would always be enticed by the next best thing.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Gotocourt: 10:28am On Jul 22, 2025
Na their work, e dey their body. Weaker vessel abi cunny vessels
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by columbus007(m): 10:59am On Jul 22, 2025
In the right sense is that the way to find a husband undecided, people are know longer ashamed anymore undecided
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Gotocourt: 11:06am On Jul 22, 2025
Babamide:
These ladies just use men to climb the social ladder. That's why you can never trust a Woman. She would always be enticed by the next best thing.
Gbammm
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by SWATMan: 11:12am On Jul 22, 2025
Haydens:
The ex boyfriend was just a backup plan or probably using him until a big fish comes to the scene.

Never let any woman use you as a man because it's in their nature to use a man.
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Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by SWATMan: 11:13am On Jul 22, 2025
Haydens:
The ex boyfriend was just a backup plan or probably using him until a big fish comes to the scene.

Never let any woman use you as a man because it's in their nature to use a man.
There's this saying that a woman only remains with you if she doesn't have a better alternative.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Softmirror: 11:15am On Jul 22, 2025
She is very intelligent. She quickly keyed into the man who was spending his sweat on her.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by nnamdi640: 12:13pm On Jul 22, 2025
He was spraying you money, which simply means you got attracted to him because of the money
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by nnamdi640: 12:15pm On Jul 22, 2025
FreeIgboho:
Did she tell you it was because he sprayed her more money or had better car?
They simply matched. Not because of money or car
Why won't they match, assuming it wasn't money he was spraying, matching won't come in
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by biggz82: 1:16pm On Jul 22, 2025
Women get mind sha.

You dey with one you collect control of another one.
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by TheStranger: 1:17pm On Jul 22, 2025
Don't miss your wife while you are with your girlfriend
Re: How I Met My Husband While On Date With My Ex-boyfriend — Bride by Rossychy(f): 1:19pm On Jul 22, 2025
Key word: " don't miss your husband because of your boyfriend " very important. Don't play with that word of advice.
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