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Did I Ask A Wrong Question? by bernardluccky(op): 12:38am On Jul 22, 2025
I have issues with my girlfriend
We have been dating since 2021 so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she surgest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state it's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for like 3 months now
Note: we have being dating for 4 years no sex, no kiss, no photo together
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22
Please I need advice.

And now this is affecting mentally I can't even read and understand what I'm reading inside 4 course I have written exam on I have 2 F and 2 C I am tired 😴 I don't know what to do, this is draining me.
Re: Did I Ask A Wrong Question? by Talkisneeded(m): 1:55am On Jul 22, 2025
Focus bro,focus….
If fate says you’d be together,you will,but focus on your bleeping studies ..,






But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes
Re: Did I Ask A Wrong Question? by FreeIgboho: 2:03am On Jul 22, 2025
Constantly remind yourself of her bad qualities and above all else bear in mind she can't love you without achievement.
So focus on achieving and brushing up on your grammar - your grammar really sucks
Re: Did I Ask A Wrong Question? by Kobojunkie: 2:17am On Jul 22, 2025
bernardluccky:
➜I have issues with my girlfriend
We have been dating since 2021 so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she surgest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state it's being 2 years since we see each other. And now I done dey beg her for like 3 months now
Note: we have being dating for 4 years no sex, no kiss, no photo together The aim was till after marriage and we both 22 Please I need advice.
And now this is affecting mentally I can't even read and understand what I'm reading inside 4 course I have written exam on I have 2 F and 2 C I am tired 😴 I don't know what to do, this is draining me.
You asked a whole human being to wait 4 years for you? huh

It is best you break up with her, focus on your studies, or whatever it is you need 4 years to achieve, assuming 4 years will be enough for that purpose. When you are finally ready, then you can go out there and look for a girlfriend who is ready for you at that time, or maybe even this gal if she is still available then. 😏
Re: Did I Ask A Wrong Question? by illicit(m): 4:19am On Jul 22, 2025
Face your studies Jambito

Plus woman boku for school o
Re: Did I Ask A Wrong Question? by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:14am On Jul 22, 2025
You need deliverance from the spirit of women.
Re: Did I Ask A Wrong Question? by Originalsly: 6:42am On Jul 22, 2025
Love is a two way street. You love her sooo much ...does she love you? You're now 22 ... an adult ..a man in any part of the world ... face your heart break like a man ... almost every man had at least one ... learned from it ..and moved on. Weak men lose their mind over it ...or end their life. The girl has never been into you ....you have not seen her for 2 years... you know nothing of her ...is she married...has children...is a prostitute ...worse ...a LovePeddler ... is on drugs... is HIV positive...has herpes... is a cultist ...you know nothing ...but are messing up your future because of her. Guy ... get some balls ...look at the girls at school...who you see daily... make friends...socialize..not really looking... but you are likely to make a connection. Move in with your life.
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