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Very straight story . He sprayed you money so tey you started 'vibing', ditched your BF, overthrew his GF and married him.

Only God knows how many men had stretched the ponmo before she eventually settled with that poor guy!

Imagine her on a date with a man yet had the time to accommodate another man.

She no be wife material! Opportunist!

Two of una been get Sim 2...lol
Nigerian relationship na stress

She go still call this one ex when she sees another dude with better package

Her advice no bad sha...but no be ordinary money be that if you know you know.

Your then boyfriend took you on a date and paid for everything. The best way to pay him back was to flirt with another man. This is shameful. Loyalty is alien to many women.

Hypo go wipe oooo

Rossychy:
Key word: " don't miss your husband because of your boyfriend " very important. Don't play with that word of advice.

Hope when the roles are reversed, you won't cry men are scum.

Kutunban:
Meeting someone new and developing a romantic connection while both are still in existing relationships can be viewed as disrespectful to their partners. It raises ethical concerns, especially if cheating was involved.

Some may feel this story reflects a trend where loyalty and depth in relationships are being replaced with “vibes” and short-term gratification like she mentioned "Money sprayed on her".

Stories like this can make people question the strength of their own relationships. If someone can find "their person" while out with someone else, it can feed insecurity and mistrust. Do you support people to start sourcing for alternative partners now when they go out with their partners?

Well said. " We started vibing" comes off as disrespectful to the person you are with to be honest.

There is a reason for this saying.. the devil you know is better than the angel you just met.
You met somebody and started vibing all of a sudden because he sprayed you money.. this gender attimes ehnn

Kutunban:
Meeting someone new and developing a romantic connection while both are still in existing relationships can be viewed as disrespectful to their partners. It raises ethical concerns, especially if cheating was involved.

Some may feel this story reflects a trend where loyalty and depth in relationships are being replaced with “vibes” and short-term gratification like she mentioned "Money sprayed on her".

Stories like this can make people question the strength of their own relationships. If someone can find "their person" while out with someone else, it can feed insecurity and mistrust. Do you support people to start sourcing for alternative partners now when they go out with their partners?

You're a reflection of wisdom

FreeIgboho:
Did she tell you it was because he sprayed her more money or had better car?
They simply matched. Not because of money or car

Wetin pass you pass you.

What tangible reason did she advance as to why she left her boyfriend?
She just said 'he sprayed her money', they started vibing'.....

Do those statements make any sense?

Anyway, na wedding excitement still dey sha*k her, the marriage journey just dey begin.

bukatyne:
The same that will happen if another woman vibes with the husband.

From the story, the husband was also with someone, no?

That's true...the husband was with someone else. You're correct ... the same way he vibed with her while with someone ... it's the same way he can vibe with someone else while with her.

If to say you turn ritual victim, we for get peace now instead of this noise. Women gamble more than men, albeit irresponsibly.

CorrectionFLuid:
Hope when the roles are reversed, you won't cry men are scum.

The message is for all. Whether men or women.

Haydens:
The ex boyfriend was just a backup plan or probably using him until a big fish comes to the scene.

Never let any woman use you as a man because it's in their nature to use a man.

Take note of "he SPRAYED me MONEY". She wasn't ashamed of telling the world that she went for the highest bidder.

Thank God I'm not likely to marry a Nigerian girl.
I come in peace.

FreeIgboho:
Did she tell you it was because he sprayed her more money or had better car?
They simply matched. Not because of money or car

then you didn't read or heard wat she said. Dey there

FreeIgboho:
It led to them starting to talk and then found out they're a match - not that she decided to marry him because of money!

which kind match?

Spraying you money then you lost interest in the person you came with and started vibing. He must then have asked you for your number and you gave him while in a relationship.

Well what do I know. HML

DyshApp:
A young Nigerian bride has gone viral after revealing the unexpected way she met her husband, while on a date with her then-boyfriend.

In a trending video shared on social media, the bride, dressed in her wedding gown and surrounded by friends, recalled how her chance encounter with her now-husband happened during a birthday celebration.

“Don’t miss your husband because of your boyfriend,” she began, drawing laughter and cheers from her friends.

She explained that on her birthday, she had gone out with her boyfriend at the time, only to cross paths with another couple, her now-husband and his then-girlfriend, at the same venue.

“He was there with his girlfriend too. We started vibing and he was spraying me money. I thanked him later because I didn’t expect it, and from there, we started vibing,” she recounted.

The video has since made rounds across various platforms, with many social media users surprised and some discouraged by the spontaneity of their love story.

Simple and Short na the money attract you

Why will have a boyfriend you have no future with? Don't let your boyfriend stop you from meeting your husband yen yen yen... Just keep playing with people's heart.

Money and women .. when it comes to money, women can go any length. So because he sprayed her money they began to vibe and the marriage might end the moment he stopped straying her money

What a conundrum!

Haydens:
The ex boyfriend was just a backup plan or probably using him until a big fish comes to the scene.

Never let any woman use you as a man because it's in their nature to use a man.

The word you are looking for is "placeholder". You're welcome.

Cash and carry women. Available for the highest bidder. Very shameful.

The reason why she married the mumu is the "spraying"
The man should be ready to move on because its obvious she's going to find another.man whom she's going to fall for when she sees kudi 😯

Ex girlfriends turn wives still calls and chat me up for meet ups. So no loss actually

FreeIgboho:
You lot just have money in the brain. Here's what she wrote verbatim:
“He was there with his girlfriend too. We started vibing and he was spraying me money. I thanked him later because I didn’t expect it, and from there, we started vibing,” she recounted.

It's still boils down to money. If he didn't spray will they vibe? Since you don't have money in your brain enjoy what u have in ur brain in peace

Leonardo4:
It's still boils down to money. If he didn't spray will they vibe? Since you don't have money in your brain enjoy what u have in ur brain in peace

The vibing did it NOT the money. People spray money all the time and never vibe

DyshApp:
A young Nigerian bride has gone viral after revealing the unexpected way she met her husband, while on a date with her then-boyfriend.

In a trending video shared on social media, the bride, dressed in her wedding gown and surrounded by friends, recalled how her chance encounter with her now-husband happened during a birthday celebration.

“Don’t miss your husband because of your boyfriend,” she began, drawing laughter and cheers from her friends.

She explained that on her birthday, she had gone out with her boyfriend at the time, only to cross paths with another couple, her now-husband and his then-girlfriend, at the same venue.

“He was there with his girlfriend too. We started vibing and he was spraying me money. I thanked him later because I didn’t expect it, and from there, we started vibing,” she recounted.

The video has since made rounds across various platforms, with many social media users surprised and some discouraged by the spontaneity of their love story.

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