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Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by ExAngel007(op): 4:22pm On Jul 24, 2025
How will a man marry you? - Nigerian woman addresses single ladies who stay in one or two bedroom flat with couch

A Nigerian woman, Christy Igho, has addressed single ladies who make themselves ‘unmarriageable’ by living in a one or two bedroom flat with ‘royal couch’, smart TV and pay N300,000 house rent.

As a lady, man never marry you, but you de stay for one/Two bedroom flat with Royal couch, dinning and LG Smart TV wey big pass 20 men Gbola for wall. Rent, 300k upwards. How man one take marry you? Check your lifestyle make you no go regret for late hour. I come in peace,” she wrote.
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/7/how-will-a-man-marry-you-nigerian-woman-addresses-single-ladies-who-stay-in-one-or-two-bedroom-flat-with-couch.html

Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Sonnobax15(m): 4:33pm On Jul 24, 2025
lipsrsealed
She's right..

What's popping with these Nairaland bots these days angry. Someone can't just make a simple comment anymore angry. Any small thing,na ban straight up like say we get beef for somewhere before angry

Seun , please bring back the vibes that Nairaland used to be known for angry.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by PerfectStranger(m): 4:34pm On Jul 24, 2025
Nowadays going into marriage is just like going for warfront.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Dzzzz: 4:35pm On Jul 24, 2025
It doesn’t matter ooo..So because she wan marry make she move to face me I face you…She’s just setting her standard and is ok with her lifestyle,though you have a point but she may also want the guy to know what he’s getting..You wan buy Benz and you carry korope money for hand🤷🏾‍♂️
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by TUANKU(m): 4:41pm On Jul 24, 2025
You go marry person wey don sleep with over 20+ people...no be okpo be that?
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by lowkeybahdguy(m): 4:44pm On Jul 24, 2025
PerfectStranger:
Nowadays going into marriage is just like going for warfront.
Lol.. Marriage don turn Ecomog xD
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by muyico(m): 5:00pm On Jul 24, 2025
No point?? Birds of same feathers colors flock together
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by helinues: 5:11pm On Jul 24, 2025
They would become Alhaji's 5th wife.

Their husband must be rich, he must have a car, have house and business. No be Alhaji be that
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Esthered: 7:50pm On Jul 24, 2025
Where shold they stay?

A lady working in Lagos and earns well but her parents live in Ikorudu while she works at CBD should not rent closer to her workplace because she wants to be marriageable. Is aunty saying she should sleep under bridge or live in a dipilated house to be marriageable? Aunty doesn't know what a good interior does to one's mental health as a home is a place of relaxation and not TURMOIL.

My sister just bought a washing machine last month and doing her Masters while working and we've always known that laundry is a chore for her. She was squatting with an aunt but needed more space for herself which we deliberated from a place of concern in terms of security and NEVER marriage.

Pay attention to the ladies doing well here, you'll see that they achieved a level of comfort before saying I do and it raises their standard to seek for the best for themselves. If a lady who wasn't born a nepo works hard and is becoming something, the guy that wants her should also be working hard to be deserving of such woman as she too knows the value she has added and is adding to herself for a better tomorrow.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by APOPTOSIS: 9:56pm On Jul 24, 2025
Should the Ladies remain hanging in the air and wait till their time manifest?
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by manuelkel(m): 10:03pm On Jul 24, 2025
African mentality, see talk. grin
🤣
Laugh wan kee me... imagine!

APOPTOSIS:
Should the Ladies remain hanging in the air and wait till their time manifest?
I wonder ooo😂
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by streetpaddy(m): 10:05pm On Jul 24, 2025
Really what's going on I don't really understand ah, women chai
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by pocohantas(f):
My friend rented a mini-flat and all she put was mattress on the floor. She had those small clothe wardrobe we used in secondary school and plastic baskets for her clothes. Then a tiny ceiling fan. It was my first time seeing a ceiling fan that tiny. Her sitting room was empty and filled with nonsense load. I entered her flat and I was disappointed. I asked why she is living like this and she said "Here na camp. When I marry I go enjoy".

How do you convince a man you are good for enjoyment when you have suffered all your life? Love yourself and let the man know how you love to be loved. Funny she was always giving her fake suitors gift and money, but found it hard to spend on herself.

Na me carry her to Thermocool office at Dopemu to buy fridge and AC. Introduced her to my furniture maker. Paid for her driving school. Taught her parallel parking. Introduced her to the late Gazz to overhaul her car. We even bought a big gen from him and she uses it till date. I told her "eat your money. Put on AC make e dey cool your head, see as your house hottttt. When husband come, una go discuss the way forward". Everything isn't about man and what they care about. You are not on earth for that.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by aybabz101: 10:06pm On Jul 24, 2025
I dont why a lot of persons are ignorant. Because one wants to marry, one should live in poverty?.

The culture we bred is that for a man to be a man, he has to be richer than the female. This is why guys are going to extreme length to get money and the husbands are doing everything to suppress the progress of their wives. And this is why a lot of ladies are wasting their destinies and potentials looking for a man that will provide for them.

There is more to marriage than finance. One of the aim of marriage is to complement one another.

In as much the guy is not lazy, knows where he is going, and he's taking the necessary step to reach there, its a go for any lady who believes in the same dream.

Pls lets stop all these unnecessary mis-indoctrination of finance in marriage.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by autoez: 10:07pm On Jul 24, 2025
Normal talk ooo.

But wait ooo, This Nairaland no sweet again jare. Ban Everytime for normal comment. Be like sey Seun don get better hustle ooo.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Nazgul: 10:09pm On Jul 24, 2025
folake4u:
I'm 80% unmarriageable actually cos I have AC, Smart TV, Microwave, Electric jug, and other home appliances.

Let me buy washing machine soon so I reach 100% completion unmarriageable stage. Fingers crossed.
She specifically mentioned couch as the major barrier to getting married. As long as you don't have a couch yet, you're still marriageable. But if you buy it, no more husband.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Arthurnna: 10:10pm On Jul 24, 2025
When I was complaining about it earlier,all y'all kept mute and probably hissed.. I could just be banned for even replying you now sef.. I just toned down on my comments to avoid targeted bans. Mods/Seun have murdered Nairaland

Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
She's right..

What's popping with these Nairaland bots these days angry. Someone can't just make a simple comment anymore angry. Any small thing,na ban straight up like say we get beef for somewhere before angry

Seun , please bring back the vibes that Nairaland used to be known for angry.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by emiika: 10:11pm On Jul 24, 2025
Absolutely right but your marriage counselor won’t tell you this…
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by free2ryhme: 10:11pm On Jul 24, 2025
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by CalabarPikin: 10:11pm On Jul 24, 2025
Men don't really care about your status.
Just that the generation we find ourselves, as soon as they can get spoon for themselves, them don turn feminist.....they don't need men again......but inner, depression is eating them up
Especially those ones raised by failed single mothers
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by folake4u: 10:13pm On Jul 24, 2025
I'm 80% unmarriageable actually cos I have AC, Smart TV, Microwave, Electric jug, and other home appliances.

Let me buy washing machine soon so I reach 100% completion unmarriageable stage. Fingers crossed.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Mariangeles(f):
PerfectStranger:
Nowadays going into marriage is just like going for warfront.
People are still finding their own persons, believe me.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Karleb(m): 10:13pm On Jul 24, 2025
Some of you are used to poverty.

If such a setting intimidate you as a man, then the woman should not marry you.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Melagros(m): 10:14pm On Jul 24, 2025
COMRADES, is this advice necessary? Can the (Nigerian) girls ever listen? Is it wrong for a girl to live comfortably when God blesses her with a good job?
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by abbey621(m): 10:15pm On Jul 24, 2025
Poverty oriented mindset, go abroad and see your mate own a full house with luxury car and a job that pays over 160 million Naira per year, naturally such a woman would marry a man in similar status or better.......Na poverty dey worry some Nigerian men hence why they get intimidated by a successful woman.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by pocohantas(f): 10:15pm On Jul 24, 2025
folake4u:
I'm 80% unmarriageable actually cos I have AC, Smart TV, Microwave, Electric jug, and other home appliances.

Let me buy washing machine soon so I reach 100% completion unmarriageable stage. Fingers crossed.
Nnem buy and enjoy life biko. I found one page that sells good foreign used washing machine.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jul 24, 2025
That's a primitive mentality.
Men now marry ladies that can bring something to the table and not liabilities
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by ppogba: 10:16pm On Jul 24, 2025
The beauty of social media. Every idiot has a voice.

So, young ladies should quit their apartments and live under Eko bridge in order to get husbands.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by HEAVEN4444: 10:18pm On Jul 24, 2025
What's her point ? That women should not live alone ?
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by folake4u: 10:18pm On Jul 24, 2025
pocohantas:
Nnem buy and enjoy life biko. I found one page that sells good foreign used washing machine.
Ah you kuku know I'm Folake of the good life, cruise and enjoyment. grin

Abeg drop IG handle for us oh. I HATE washing and my drycleaner don too chop my money.
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by zilon12(m): 10:20pm On Jul 24, 2025
Take back your country from single ladies with two rooms
Re: Woman Addresses Single Ladies Who Stay In One Or Two Bedroom Flat With Couch by Karleb(m): 10:20pm On Jul 24, 2025
folake4u:
I'm 80% unmarriageable actually cos I have AC, Smart TV, Microwave, Electric jug, and other home appliances.

Let me buy washing machine soon so I reach 100% completion unmarriageable stage. Fingers crossed.
Don't mind those fools. If no be nigeria wey don turn something else. How much does it takes to set up a self-contained with those?

In 2013, 500k would cover everything. When a dollar was like N200.

I am really angry some people are used to poverty. This are not even luxuries, they are essentials.
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