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One dangerous consequences of wrong sex is its impact when you may have forgotten about the past escapade or event.
These are consequences that may occur because of old-time wrong sex.

(1) Chaos in Happy Moments: A loving family that have enjoyed lots of peace and love, may go into sorrow probably because a good wife slept with her EX few days to wedding and the first child who is now 10 years, failed paternity test that was demanded during Visa process.

(2) Bad Luck: Someone may sleep with a married woman and feel no consequences for 7 years, then from the 8th year, he may never pass a level again in his career and finance except God intervenes. He may just continue and end life with one car and 3 bedroom bungalow.

(3) Marital Rejection: A young beautiful lady may having plenty suitors in her marriage, but if she sleeps with a fetish yahoo boy, occultic man, ritualist, she may never marry again. She may just date throughout her life or end as baby mama.

(4) Fertility Issue: A guy in his early 20's who slept with an evil lady may have his sperm and semen damaged. It may be that his condom with sperm in it was used for rituals.
Now, when such a guy marries in his 30s, he may not be able to impregnate a lady.

(5) Sexually Transmitted Diseases: A healthy lady, fair and curvy lady may have a fling with a healthy-looking muscular gym instructor who is hiv positive. She may see the whole thing as a healthy sex, but in 4 years time when she goes for medical check as preparation process for her wedding, she may discover she has hiv.

(6) Replacement of Divine Position: A decent lady who has been marked by God to be the wife of a great church Founder, President, Governor e.t.c, may see herself marrying an "ordinary" man because she had sex and lost her virginity to an occultic man who took her destiny, glory and stars.

What Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today.

Fct..first time

Okay back to the topic

Nobody go tell you say that enjoyment wey you dey do back then
Fit come back mess you up later for life.

You fit don forget the people wey you knack,
But your soul no forget. Your body no forget.
Now you don marry, but your heart still dey roam.
You dey compare your partner to people wey no suppose still dey your head.

Make we yarn truth.
For this our Naija, many babes don lose guard early.
Dem give body to guys wey no get plans,
Guys wey use love lie dem.
Now dem don marry, but peace no dey.

Some of una no dey feel love again.
Because too many people don use your body wipe ground.
You don give, give, give, now you dry.
You dey vex anyhow. You no trust anybody again.
You no sabi enjoy good love again because you don dey carry baggage wey heavy for soul.

And guys,
Wetin you gain?
You run street, chop everything.
Now you don settle, but you no fit stay one place.
Every girl dey remind you of another one.
You dey blame your wife for not being wild like your ex.
But na you break yourself with too much adventure.

This life no balance.
But no use your past scatter your future.

If you never give body, hold am tight.
No let anybody shame you say you never knack.
Peace of mind no dey for market.

If you don already mess up, no go dey form boss.
Go heal. Go pray. Go reset your head.
You no be animal. You fit start again.

Wahala we dey see for marriage today
No be just because of money.
Na because too many people don enter with wounded soul and spoiled mindset.
Love no fit grow inside broken people wey never heal.

No be every sweet thing be blessing.
Some of una dey pay now for wetin una do five years ago.
No peace. No rest. No bond. Just confusion.

Old-time sex no be joke.
E dey sweet that time.
But e dey bite later.
E dey leave scars wey no show for body,
But your soul go dey cry.

If person no tell you before,
Make I tell you now.
No use yesterday spoil today.

Open eye.

It is even people who engaged in premarital and extramarital sex that makes it bigger these days and even in the days of old.

King Solomon is my witness. Them plenty.

Is good to practices restrain in sexual something

What's wrong with one car and 3 bedroom bungalow ? Hmm

I think all these are only limited to Africans. E no de affect oyinbo nii? Only 1 and 5 has some senses, the rest are thhhrassh

cutecommend:
What Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today.

I disagree
1. Correlation is not Causation
Just because something bad happens after a sexual experience doesn't mean the sex caused it. Life is complex—career stagnation, infertility, relationship delays, and other issues often have scientific, psychological, or social explanations, not supernatural roots.

Failing a visa paternity test isn't about karma—it's about honesty and timing. If there's betrayal, the issue is trust, not "spiritual sex scars." A man who doesn’t progress in life may need upskilling, therapy, or better opportunities—not spiritual deliverance for sex with a married woman.


2. Fertility and Health Have Medical Reasons
Claims that a condom was used for rituals and caused future infertility are baseless medically. Male fertility can be affected by things like:

Low sperm count

Hormonal imbalance

Smoking, alcohol, untreated STIs—not spiritual women or “evil sex.”

Instead of blaming past partners, people should get medical check-ups and adopt healthy lifestyles.

3. No One Can Steal Your Destiny by Sex
The idea that someone can "take your glory or stars" by sleeping with you is rooted in fear, not faith or fact. In truth:

Your choices, faith, mindset, skills, and relationships shape your destiny. Many people who made sexual mistakes have gone on to build great marriages, careers, and lives. No occultic partner has the power to permanently hijack your purpose unless you give up on yourself.

4. Fear-based Morality is Harmful
While it’s wise to be sexually responsible, spreading fear about sex leading to spiritual curses, being unmarriageable, or “ending with one car” causes:

Shame

Anxiety

Poor mental health

It also distracts from the real conversations about consent, STIs, emotional consequences, and self-worth.

5. Faith Encourages Redemption, Not Condemnation
Even in Christianity and other faiths, redemption, forgiveness, and restoration are central. A woman who lost her virginity isn’t barred from greatness. A man who made sexual mistakes isn't cursed forever. God's purpose is not that fragile—and if it was truly divine, no human could “snatch” it away through sex. Sexual mistakes can have consequences—emotional, relational, or medical—but they are not mystical death sentences. What matters is:

Learning from them

Getting help when needed

Making better decisions going forward


Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth, and hope for restoration—because everyone deserves a second chance.

I don't agree with all the above points though. Regardless, love your neighbour as yourself.

Hell fire, you no mention the biggest one. Sinners go plenty for the place.

Babangida with all the blood wey e take, still dey alive. The people wey dey curse am since 1985 for mamman vatsa coup don kpeme finish and died poor. Make we hear word

Which kind message be dis one again na, the only advice I have to give is for everyone to practice safe sex and avoid unplanned pregnancy, everything don cost o

What kind of joblessness is this




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It doesn't happen the way you think. A virgin can end up in a messed marriage as well

Na 'oranges' wey I go suck I dey find now

Even if na Jennyclay own I no go mind am

Only human of all animals thinks sex is something special or sacred.


Nature grant all animals/living creatures sex for procreation, no deal or any sacred shxt attached.

Sex doesn't bring you good luck or bad luck, sex only brings you babies.
Sex related diseases are all men creation in the lap to manage population.

Nothing as pre-marital or extra-marital sex. Sex is sex and you're ready to have once your natural biological sexual clock has ticked.

God bless you foe this piece.

"Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth"

Nonetheless, sex is spiritual.

Hamachi:
I disagree
1. Correlation is not Causation
Just because something bad happens after a sexual experience doesn't mean the sex caused it. Life is complex—career stagnation, infertility, relationship delays, and other issues often have scientific, psychological, or social explanations, not supernatural roots.

Failing a visa paternity test isn't about karma—it's about honesty and timing. If there's betrayal, the issue is trust, not "spiritual sex scars." A man who doesn’t progress in life may need upskilling, therapy, or better opportunities—not spiritual deliverance for sex with a married woman.


2. Fertility and Health Have Medical Reasons
Claims that a condom was used for rituals and caused future infertility are baseless medically. Male fertility can be affected by things like:

Low sperm count

Hormonal imbalance

Smoking, alcohol, untreated STIs—not spiritual women or “evil sex.”

Instead of blaming past partners, people should get medical check-ups and adopt healthy lifestyles.

3. No One Can Steal Your Destiny by Sex
The idea that someone can "take your glory or stars" by sleeping with you is rooted in fear, not faith or fact. In truth:

Your choices, faith, mindset, skills, and relationships shape your destiny. Many people who made sexual mistakes have gone on to build great marriages, careers, and lives. No occultic partner has the power to permanently hijack your purpose unless you give up on yourself.

4. Fear-based Morality is Harmful
While it’s wise to be sexually responsible, spreading fear about sex leading to spiritual curses, being unmarriageable, or “ending with one car” causes:

Shame

Anxiety

Poor mental health

It also distracts from the real conversations about consent, STIs, emotional consequences, and self-worth.

5. Faith Encourages Redemption, Not Condemnation
Even in Christianity and other faiths, redemption, forgiveness, and restoration are central. A woman who lost her virginity isn’t barred from greatness. A man who made sexual mistakes isn't cursed forever. God's purpose is not that fragile—and if it was truly divine, no human could “snatch” it away through sex. Sexual mistakes can have consequences—emotional, relational, or medical—but they are not mystical death sentences. What matters is:

Learning from them

Getting help when needed

Making better decisions going forward


Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth, and hope for restoration—because everyone deserves a second chance.

Why should humans restrict themselves to just one sexual partner?

As a man if you want your life to be long, try as much as possible to bang different types of tight toto on a regular basis

cutecommend:
What Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today.

na pre marital sex kill Diogo,na em kill Jnr pope.Death is in the air.na only God Dey save us.theres no one single formula to escape death.

Lwkmd o🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. But honestly, as hilarious as it may seem, na my biggest worry for me and my loved ones be this. That's why I not only believe in Christ, but try as much as possible to do his will right here on earth. May God have mercy on us All.

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Hell fire, you no mention the biggest one. Sinners go plenty for the place.

Hamachi:
I disagree
1. Correlation is not Causation
Just because something bad happens after a sexual experience doesn't mean the sex caused it. Life is complex—career stagnation, infertility, relationship delays, and other issues often have scientific, psychological, or social explanations, not supernatural roots.

Failing a visa paternity test isn't about karma—it's about honesty and timing. If there's betrayal, the issue is trust, not "spiritual sex scars." A man who doesn’t progress in life may need upskilling, therapy, or better opportunities—not spiritual deliverance for sex with a married woman.


2. Fertility and Health Have Medical Reasons
Claims that a condom was used for rituals and caused future infertility are baseless medically. Male fertility can be affected by things like:

Low sperm count

Hormonal imbalance

Smoking, alcohol, untreated STIs—not spiritual women or “evil sex.”

Instead of blaming past partners, people should get medical check-ups and adopt healthy lifestyles.

3. No One Can Steal Your Destiny by Sex
The idea that someone can "take your glory or stars" by sleeping with you is rooted in fear, not faith or fact. In truth:

Your choices, faith, mindset, skills, and relationships shape your destiny. Many people who made sexual mistakes have gone on to build great marriages, careers, and lives. No occultic partner has the power to permanently hijack your purpose unless you give up on yourself.

4. Fear-based Morality is Harmful
While it’s wise to be sexually responsible, spreading fear about sex leading to spiritual curses, being unmarriageable, or “ending with one car” causes:

Shame

Anxiety

Poor mental health

It also distracts from the real conversations about consent, STIs, emotional consequences, and self-worth.

5. Faith Encourages Redemption, Not Condemnation
Even in Christianity and other faiths, redemption, forgiveness, and restoration are central. A woman who lost her virginity isn’t barred from greatness. A man who made sexual mistakes isn't cursed forever. God's purpose is not that fragile—and if it was truly divine, no human could “snatch” it away through sex. Sexual mistakes can have consequences—emotional, relational, or medical—but they are not mystical death sentences. What matters is:

Learning from them

Getting help when needed

Making better decisions going forward


Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth, and hope for restoration—because everyone deserves a second chance.

Hope you are not trying to console yourself. Avoid sexual consequences.

According to you OP

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(5) Sexually Transmitted Diseases: A healthy lady, fair and curvy lady may have a fling with a healthy-looking muscular gym instructor who is hiv positive. She may see the whole thing as a healthy sex, but in 4 years time when she goes for medical check as preparation process for her wedding, she may discover she has hiv.

So you're saying that it takes 4 years for HIV to manifest in a healthy body but the same healthy body will not resist ordinary malaria in weeks.

The level of brainwashing they have done with this HIV is superb

HEAVEN4444:
What's wrong with one car and 3 bedroom bungalow ? Hmm

It is not bad, but not good for someone that should be a billionaire.

Unseen:
According to you OP



So you're saying that it takes 4 years for HIV to manifest in a healthy body but the same healthy body will not resist ordinary malaria in weeks.

The level of brainwashing they have done with this HIV is superb

Read the whole points again and be cautious of consequences.

asiga:
It is even people who engaged in premarital and extramarital sex that makes it bigger these days and even in the days of old.

King Solomon is my witness. Them plenty.

Should we give the op the full list or just let it slid?

cutecommend:
Hope you are not trying to console yourself. Avoid sexual consequences.

Let’s be real — sex isn’t the sacred, untouchable topic it once was. In today’s Nigeria, it's not just happening behind closed doors; it’s practically on display. From the streets of Lagos to the corners of TikTok and Instagram, it’s obvious that sex has become casual, even transactional. You can literally buy it in broad daylight — it’s no longer a mystery or something rare.

Social media mirrors the society we live in. From influencers flaunting seductive content to open conversations about hookup culture, it’s clear that times have changed. Whether you like it or not, sex has been normalized, commercialized, and even glamorized. So painting it as this deeply consequential act for everyone might be out of touch with the reality most young people are living today.

asiga:
It is even people who engaged in premarital and extramarital sex that makes it bigger these days and even in the days of old.

King Solomon is my witness. Them plenty.

You do realize Solomon died at 55, very very premature.
God left him...

What's the point of all that money and wisdom only to die at 55..

What a waste!

All these points are baseless except for been holy which is good for our spiritual wellbeing.
How you wan take this convince the likes of Davido even 2face .
Above all premarital s*x can be an expensive mistakes at times bcs it can still your peace of mind which might affect your physiological wellbeing. But most of the OP points no hold water especially when you use protection.

asiga:
It is even people who engaged in premarital and extramarital sex that makes it bigger these days and even in the days of old.

King Solomon is my witness. Them plenty.

True, people have always engaged in premarital and extramarital sex — even in the Bible. King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines, so yes, it’s nothing new. But here’s the twist: it’s often the same people who indulge in it that later start preaching the loudest about the “consequences.”

They make sex seem heavier than it is, turning personal choices into community panic. They spiritualize everything, even when the real issue is just poor decisions or lack of self-control. Let’s be honest — it’s not sex that ruins lives; it’s hypocrisy, silence, and judgment.

Sex is not the problem — it's how people react to it. If society normalized honest conversations over fear and guilt, many wouldn't fall into unnecessary shame or secret struggles.

cutecommend:
It is not bad, but not good for someone that should be a billionaire.

well if you have a 3 bedroom bungalow and a car maybe you were not .meant to be a billionaire? What point are you people making here 🥵🥵🥵🥵🤔🤔

cutecommend:
Read the whole points again and be cautious of consequences.

I am pointing out the medical blunder in number 5

I strongly believe that pre/extra marital sex is the strongest (or among) temptation to man today...

This is because we are created for sex. And that's why sex sells faster than hot akara.

If you can resist sex either premarital or extra marital, you will fulfill your destiny on earth.