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"Words You Should Never Say to Your Partner – No Matter What
by Pastor Kosi Ebirim

There are certain words that should never come out of your mouth, no matter how angry or frustrated you feel. Some wounds caused by words may heal on the surface, but they leave scars that never truly fade.

Avoid saying things like:

1. "I'll slap you."

2. "Let's stay apart for a while."

3. "You have a useless family."

4. "I regret meeting you."

5. "You'll soon die."

These statements cut deep. Even if your partner forgives you, they may never forget how you made them feel in that moment. Speak with love, even in disagreement. Words can build or break a relationship.

Let me know your thoughts
Everyone has a different opinion about something.

People wen carry relationship for head always end up being used.

Omo

The pressure is definitely getting wesser, nothing remain

1. You were never my first choice.

2. I wish I never married you

3. You are unattractive/ ugly

These words are obviously cold and damaging to an individual...

Why marry when you know they came from a useless family?

Anyways marriage these days be like who wan go warfront

If you don't want to hear anyhow word, then don't provoked me or be disrespected to me if not anything can come out.

I regret


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You're right...only when your partner is good and matured!

But...in all sincerity, a gentle person with good home training doesn't speak to their spouses in such manner.

Truth, 1 daughter of jezebel nearly kee me, every single word here she said them to me looking for person wey go kee am , come see the kind happiness wey dey my body when i returned home 1 night she don park most of my property and kids waka commot!! Feel bad for my kids though but God dey

Wahala too much, things to never say while married, things to never do , things to never this or that...kilode

I regret leaving my Ex for you

My Ex was a better lover than you

Its very important to access each other before marriage or relationship.

Break up during courting is better than broken marriage. But tolerance is key.

Good luck to all married couples. and peace to troubled homes

I am just managing you

U are not a man/woman

I hate you

U mean nothing to me

.......just learn to be patience. When those gender starts their wahala, it's only God's grace oooo

Let me add some based on popular demand -

1. You gaslighted me
2.You manipulated me
3. You are toxic
4. You are insecure
5. You're not intentional

Okay. A lot of people see these words on the Internet and don't even bother to critically analyse them before throwing them around.

These are words that once used on someone, there's no amount of "I'm sorry" that actually make the person feel comfortable around you again.

Before you use these words, be very sure that the person is actually guilty and you're walking away.


Other words that people throw around these days without knowing their weight include - trauma, PTSD, emotional intelligence,

PastorKosi:
"Words You Should Never Say to Your Partner – No Matter What
by Pastor Kosi Ebirim

There are certain words that should never come out of your mouth, no matter how angry or frustrated you feel. Some wounds caused by words may heal on the surface, but they leave scars that never truly fade.

Avoid saying things like:

1. "I'll slap you."

2. "Let's stay apart for a while."

3. "You have a useless family."

4. "I regret meeting you."

5. "You'll soon die."

These statements cut deep. Even if your partner forgives you, they may never forget how you made them feel in that moment. Speak with love, even in disagreement. Words can build or break a relationship.

If you want us to divorce, no problem.

Stop saying bad words to people generally

You'll soon die... Na that one dey weak me pass...


Like are you God?


Won't yourself die also?


Can you kill me?


Are you mad?

Saao:
If you don't want to hear anyhow word, then don't provoked me or be disrespected to me if not anything can come out.

Are you a toddler?

You don't have self control?

There's no excuse

It's boys and girls that use such highly uncultured words. They're babies.

carzeem1:
1. You were never my first choice.

2. I wish I never married you

3. You are unattractive/ ugly

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That's not proper and they could have settled the matter in amicable way

Tell me number 4 and the relationship or what ever is over. As for number 5, more ears will hear about it

If you’re not a marriage material, just continue with what you’re currently doing…. Marriage is not for the weak regardless if you meet the right partner or plug

Nairaland let's stay apart for now for requesting 40 characters

I dey use i will slap u crack joke with ladies o....i no send

Saao:
If you don't want to hear anyhow word, then don't provoked me or be disrespected to me if not anything can come out.

What if she is the one saying it to you?
What will you do, and how will you feel?

occfx:
If you want us to divorce, no problem.

Stop saying bad words to people generally

Many and more of these words are said in a lot
of marriages but they later understand themselves
and build a wonderful home.
Marriage is university one never graduates

PastorKosi:
"Words You Should Never Say to Your Partner – No Matter What
by Pastor Kosi Ebirim

There are certain words that should never come out of your mouth, no matter how angry or frustrated you feel. Some wounds caused by words may heal on the surface, but they leave scars that never truly fade.

Avoid saying things like:

1. "I'll slap you."

2. "Let's stay apart for a while."

3. "You have a useless family."

4. "I regret meeting you."

5. "You'll soon die."

These statements cut deep. Even if your partner forgives you, they may never forget how you made them feel in that moment. Speak with love, even in disagreement. Words can build or break a relationship.

If only you know
...ask people celebrating 30 - 40yrs, they ve said worse to each other