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Is a vibe something
How many more characters needed?

1. Entitlement or arrogance
Acting like the world owes you something or believing you're "better" than others can be a major turn-off.

2. Lack of respect for others
Being rude to waiters, cleaners, drivers, or anyone perceived as "beneath" you shows poor character.

3. Constant complaining or negativity
Always finding the worst in every situation drains people and energy fast.

4. Attention-seeking behavior
Over-the-top dramatics or trying too hard to be noticed (especially on social media) can come off as insecure or desperate.

5. Gossip and envy
Constantly talking negatively about other women or comparing yourself to others reeks of insecurity.

6. Poor hygiene or self-neglect
This applies to anyone, but things like bad breath, body odor, dirty nails, or greasy hair can quickly kill attraction.

7. Over-materialism
When someone seems obsessed with money, brands, status, or dating someone just for what they have.

8. Lack of purpose or ambition
Being stagnant, with no goals or drive, can make a person seem boring or unmotivated.

9. Insecurity disguised as pride
Acting bossy, overly defensive, or constantly trying to prove a point can feel exhausting to be around.

10. Manipulative behavior
Using guilt, silence, emotional blackmail, or passive aggression to control situations or people.

On the flip side what makes them attractive based on research on Nairaland
Kindness (especially to strangers)

Confidence (not arrogance)

Humility + self-respect

Sense of humor

Deep conversation and emotional intelligence

Ambition or passion for something

Softness balanced with strength

Playconsoler101:
I will say,
When they turn fault finding machines.

Attractiveness is highly subjective and personal, but when you're talking about what might instantly make someone (specifically women, in this case) come across as unattractive to others, it's usually less about physical appearance and more about behavior, attitude, and energy.

Rudeness

Dishonesty.

Offensive/bad attitude generally to me.

Nose ring n leg chain for me

Bad mouth odor

Bad Toto odor

Bad body odor

clevybrown:
For me, it's poor hygiene and low level of reasoning. I so love smart ladies...

them get their own wahala too.not too smart not dull for me.to keep smart woman na big war

I refuse to associate with anyone who believes that someone is doing them or is the reason why this and that is happening in their life.
They will contaminate your life with such cacophony if yoy stay around them too long.
Mostly people with super low IQ believes such trash. Instant dislike for such woman no matter pretty she is.

fyneboi79:
Simply by being Nigerian

Better people dey talk this one sef dey open mouth

Stupidity
Lack of integrity
No sense of decorum
Dirty feet and hands
Double dating

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Playconsoler101:
I will say,
When they turn fault finding machines.

You need to define the purpose of the attraction.

Attractive for sex is different from attractive for GF and is different from attractive for wife. Very few women posses all 3
and even fewer know which category they fall in.

pointblank247:
Cheating,
Cheating
Cheating
Cheating
Cheating

Cheating and being disrespectful.


We rise by lifting others

A lady who dresses too revealing and too telling is a turn off..

Like u are so engrossed in showing that u are beautiful.. by ur dresses, nails make up and phone...

I dislike ladies who are too telling

Fake eyelashes, fake nails, fake yansh, facial makeup that is too thick, then any bad smell(whether mouth odor, pussy odor and body odor). Lastly, fatness—especially with big belle.

I’ll never find you attractive if you wear the above things
If you call me, I may never pick up your calls again

Three things defines a woman,others will fall in place

Respect
Good hygiene
Hardwork

Outward appearances are secondary, they can be worked on

When she gauges a potential mate by the type of phone he uses🤮

When she has no interest in contemporary issues just SM gossip

When she prioritizes expensive gifts (wig) but has an empty head (brain)

If I am considering you for marriage the following behavioral patterns and or habits will kill the negotiations instantly vis a vis in no particular order:

** Disrespectful woman

** Leg chain

** More than two ear piercings

** Bleached

** Any artificial body enhancement.

Caveat: if you are being considered for girl friend purposes only then I am not going to care much about any of the above!

Rudeness. A man who knows his worth will not give a rude woman any chance of any sort. Men without experience with females will try to bear out of fear of losing her. They reach breaking point eventually. No matter how attractive she is or whatever good traits she possesses, that rudeness will push eligible men far away from her.

Filth. In the first place, I don’t see why any man should be attracted to a filthy female if he isn’t the same. This is a deal breaker which I know I will not come across.

Smoking, vaping
Body tattoos
Being raz
Having a flat ass
Having a big tummy
Large breast

Puts on skimpy clothes revealing her tummy, body unnecessarily

Takes pictures in hotel rooms & obviously luxury environments that you know she or her parents cannot afford

Wears excessive makeup and eyelashes


Talks too much about her ex

clevybrown:
For me, it's poor hygiene and low level of reasoning. I so love smart ladies...

Leave that low level of reasoning part, if not you will have to look much more longer.
Men and women see things differently. But believe me, at the end of the day, she is always right.

Poor hygiene (odour)

Why you go dey play aviator? Ehn fine girl

pointblank247:
Cheating,
Cheating
Cheating
Cheating
Cheating

the OP said "instantly unattractive"

Cheating can't be instantly known

Nose ring. Once I see a girl with nose ring, I instantly get turned off.

writetopoker:
Dormant and financially unproductive over a long period of time

How can this be instantly known?

The subject matter here is "instantly"

Lol. Who cares what men find attractive or unattractive? They mostly speak from both sides of their mouth, so I will be wasting my time paying heed to these comments.