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Moniya4Real:
Lwkmd o🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. But honestly, as hilarious as it may seem, na my biggest worry for me and my loved ones be this. That's why I not only believe in Christ, but try as much as possible to do his will right here on earth. May God have mercy on us All.

Hell fire is equally as well my biggest and greatest fear ever for my loved ones most especially, the though about them burning in hell shouting and screaming in great agony give me chills everytime.

Actually, there’s no biblical record or historical evidence that King Solomon died at age 50. The Bible never states Solomon’s exact age at death — that’s speculation passed down through tradition, not fact.

Here’s what we do know:

Solomon reigned for 40 years (1 Kings 11:42).

He became king as a young adult, likely around age 20 (based on 1 Kings 3:7 where he refers to himself as "a little child" in experience, not age). That means he likely died around age 60 or older, which was a respectable lifespan in ancient times.

Also, regarding God “leaving him” — yes, the Bible says Solomon turned to foreign gods in his later years (1 Kings 11:4-10), and God became displeased. But it never says God struck him down or that his death was punishment. In fact:

God allowed Solomon to live out his reign in peace. Judgment was postponed until after Solomon’s death — the kingdom was divided during his son Rehoboam's time (1 Kings 11:12).

So saying “he died at 50” or “God left him and he ended in waste” is not supported by facts.

Solomon’s story is complex. He made mistakes, but he also left behind Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and the Song of Songs — texts full of wisdom. His life wasn’t a waste; it was a mirror of human imperfection, power, and the consequences of choices — like many of us today.

ZombieDredd:
You do realize Solomon died at 55, very very premature.
God left him...

What's the point of all that money and wisdom only to die at 55..

What a waste!

Hamachi:
I disagree
1. Correlation is not Causation
Just because something bad happens after a sexual experience doesn't mean the sex caused it. Life is complex—career stagnation, infertility, relationship delays, and other issues often have scientific, psychological, or social explanations, not supernatural roots.

Failing a visa paternity test isn't about karma—it's about honesty and timing. If there's betrayal, the issue is trust, not "spiritual sex scars." A man who doesn’t progress in life may need upskilling, therapy, or better opportunities—not spiritual deliverance for sex with a married woman.


2. Fertility and Health Have Medical Reasons
Claims that a condom was used for rituals and caused future infertility are baseless medically. Male fertility can be affected by things like:

Low sperm count

Hormonal imbalance

Smoking, alcohol, untreated STIs—not spiritual women or “evil sex.”

Instead of blaming past partners, people should get medical check-ups and adopt healthy lifestyles.

3. No One Can Steal Your Destiny by Sex
The idea that someone can "take your glory or stars" by sleeping with you is rooted in fear, not faith or fact. In truth:

Your choices, faith, mindset, skills, and relationships shape your destiny. Many people who made sexual mistakes have gone on to build great marriages, careers, and lives. No occultic partner has the power to permanently hijack your purpose unless you give up on yourself.

4. Fear-based Morality is Harmful
While it’s wise to be sexually responsible, spreading fear about sex leading to spiritual curses, being unmarriageable, or “ending with one car” causes:

Shame

Anxiety

Poor mental health

It also distracts from the real conversations about consent, STIs, emotional consequences, and self-worth.

5. Faith Encourages Redemption, Not Condemnation
Even in Christianity and other faiths, redemption, forgiveness, and restoration are central. A woman who lost her virginity isn’t barred from greatness. A man who made sexual mistakes isn't cursed forever. God's purpose is not that fragile—and if it was truly divine, no human could “snatch” it away through sex. Sexual mistakes can have consequences—emotional, relational, or medical—but they are not mystical death sentences. What matters is:

Learning from them

Getting help when needed

Making better decisions going forward


Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth, and hope for restoration—because everyone deserves a second chance.

They couldn't steal the destiny of the below mentioned people via premarital and extramarital affairs:


1.) Donald Trump
2.) Drake
3.) Tuface Idibia
4.) Davido
5.) Wizkid
6.) In fact, all the music stars and entertainment stars you can think of

7.) Most Nigerian politicians

8.) Aliko Dangote
9.) Tony Elumelu
10.) Femi Otedola
11.) Cubana Chief Priest
12.) Senator Ned Nwoko



Let me stop here abeg

No wonder African remain like this.

Chai !

Can't we discuss scientific breakthrough or something else. ... na sex sex full our head


Inasmuch it isn't rape, wetin concern you with consensual sex

Hamachi:
I disagree
1. Correlation is not Causation
Just because something bad happens after a sexual experience doesn't mean the sex caused it. Life is complex—career stagnation, infertility, relationship delays, and other issues often have scientific, psychological, or social explanations, not supernatural roots.

Failing a visa paternity test isn't about karma—it's about honesty and timing. If there's betrayal, the issue is trust, not "spiritual sex scars." A man who doesn’t progress in life may need upskilling, therapy, or better opportunities—not spiritual deliverance for sex with a married woman.


2. Fertility and Health Have Medical Reasons
Claims that a condom was used for rituals and caused future infertility are baseless medically. Male fertility can be affected by things like:

Low sperm count

Hormonal imbalance

Smoking, alcohol, untreated STIs—not spiritual women or “evil sex.”

Instead of blaming past partners, people should get medical check-ups and adopt healthy lifestyles.

3. No One Can Steal Your Destiny by Sex
The idea that someone can "take your glory or stars" by sleeping with you is rooted in fear, not faith or fact. In truth:

Your choices, faith, mindset, skills, and relationships shape your destiny. Many people who made sexual mistakes have gone on to build great marriages, careers, and lives. No occultic partner has the power to permanently hijack your purpose unless you give up on yourself.

4. Fear-based Morality is Harmful
While it’s wise to be sexually responsible, spreading fear about sex leading to spiritual curses, being unmarriageable, or “ending with one car” causes:

Shame

Anxiety

Poor mental health

It also distracts from the real conversations about consent, STIs, emotional consequences, and self-worth.

5. Faith Encourages Redemption, Not Condemnation
Even in Christianity and other faiths, redemption, forgiveness, and restoration are central. A woman who lost her virginity isn’t barred from greatness. A man who made sexual mistakes isn't cursed forever. God's purpose is not that fragile—and if it was truly divine, no human could “snatch” it away through sex. Sexual mistakes can have consequences—emotional, relational, or medical—but they are not mystical death sentences. What matters is:

Learning from them

Getting help when needed

Making better decisions going forward


Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth, and hope for restoration—because everyone deserves a second chance.

Continue dey defend

Lawyer ikpama

xavuv:
God bless you foe this piece.

"Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth"

Nonetheless, sex is spiritual.

Your last statement is simply what the post is about and only the wise recognizes that.

Hamachi:
I disagree
1. Correlation is not Causation
Just because something bad happens after a sexual experience doesn't mean the sex caused it. Life is complex—career stagnation, infertility, relationship delays, and other issues often have scientific, psychological, or social explanations, not supernatural roots.

Failing a visa paternity test isn't about karma—it's about honesty and timing. If there's betrayal, the issue is trust, not "spiritual sex scars." A man who doesn’t progress in life may need upskilling, therapy, or better opportunities—not spiritual deliverance for sex with a married woman.


2. Fertility and Health Have Medical Reasons
Claims that a condom was used for rituals and caused future infertility are baseless medically. Male fertility can be affected by things like:

Low sperm count

Hormonal imbalance

Smoking, alcohol, untreated STIs—not spiritual women or “evil sex.”

Instead of blaming past partners, people should get medical check-ups and adopt healthy lifestyles.

3. No One Can Steal Your Destiny by Sex
The idea that someone can "take your glory or stars" by sleeping with you is rooted in fear, not faith or fact. In truth:

Your choices, faith, mindset, skills, and relationships shape your destiny. Many people who made sexual mistakes have gone on to build great marriages, careers, and lives. No occultic partner has the power to permanently hijack your purpose unless you give up on yourself.

4. Fear-based Morality is Harmful
While it’s wise to be sexually responsible, spreading fear about sex leading to spiritual curses, being unmarriageable, or “ending with one car” causes:

Shame

Anxiety

Poor mental health

It also distracts from the real conversations about consent, STIs, emotional consequences, and self-worth.

5. Faith Encourages Redemption, Not Condemnation
Even in Christianity and other faiths, redemption, forgiveness, and restoration are central. A woman who lost her virginity isn’t barred from greatness. A man who made sexual mistakes isn't cursed forever. God's purpose is not that fragile—and if it was truly divine, no human could “snatch” it away through sex. Sexual mistakes can have consequences—emotional, relational, or medical—but they are not mystical death sentences. What matters is:

Learning from them

Getting help when needed

Making better decisions going forward


Instead of pushing fear and shame, we should teach sexual responsibility, personal growth, and hope for restoration—because everyone deserves a second chance.

Lol this epistle is well written. Just pray hope that village people are not aware of this your mindset

cutecommend:
➜What Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today.

Many of these are mindless myths perpetuated by ignorant and equally arrogant beings.

Nappsy:
Continue dey defend

Lawyer ikpama

"Oga Lawyer Ikpama, calm down. Nobody is dragging wig with you. You're just intimidated by facts presented with intelligence, not emotions. If truth sounds like an attack to you, maybe you should question the strength of your argument—not the person presenting it."

franchasng:
They couldn't steal the destiny of the below mentioned people via premarital and extramarital affairs:


1.) Donald Trump
2.) Drake
3.) Tuface Idibia
4.) Davido
5.) Wizkid
6.) In fact, all the music stars and entertainment stars you can think of

7.) Most Nigerian politicians

8.) Aliko Dangote
9.) Tony Elumelu
10.) Femi Otedola
11.) Cubana Chief Priest
12.) Senator Ned Nwoko



Let me stop here abeg

I don't know much about the above, but those that are on the devil's side, extra or premarital sex won't affect them much.

This is because they use sex to rob people of their glorious destinies.

cutecommend:
What Old-time Pre-marital And Extra-marital Sex May Cause You Today.

If King Solomon fit knack pass 1000 women wetin do me wey Don knack only 6..he tasted all the women from each region of the earth. Fair..dark.. slim..plump..royalty..masses..pagans.

TheBreastSucker:
Na 'oranges' wey I go suck I dey find now

Even if na Jennyclay own I no go mind am

So 'orange' no de your area

Stay clear of sexual immorality

Africans never get enough, even the so-called Christians in Nigeria want to own 14 universities, 70 houses, and 120 cars.

HEAVEN4444:
What's wrong with one car and 3 bedroom bungalow ? Hmm

Hamachi:
Actually, there’s no biblical record or historical evidence that King Solomon died at age 50. The Bible never states Solomon’s exact age at death — that’s speculation passed down through tradition, not fact.

Here’s what we do know:

Solomon reigned for 40 years (1 Kings 11:42).

He became king as a young adult, likely around age 20 (based on 1 Kings 3:7 where he refers to himself as "a little child" in experience, not age). That means he likely died around age 60 or older, which was a respectable lifespan in ancient times.

Also, regarding God “leaving him” — yes, the Bible says Solomon turned to foreign gods in his later years (1 Kings 11:4-10), and God became displeased. But it never says God struck him down or that his death was punishment. In fact:

God allowed Solomon to live out his reign in peace. Judgment was postponed until after Solomon’s death — the kingdom was divided during his son Rehoboam's time (1 Kings 11:12).

So saying “he died at 50” or “God left him and he ended in waste” is not supported by facts.

Solomon’s story is complex. He made mistakes, but he also left behind Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and the Song of Songs — texts full of wisdom. His life wasn’t a waste; it was a mirror of human imperfection, power, and the consequences of choices — like many of us today.

I respect your intelligence dear.God bless you.

ZombieDredd:
You do realize Solomon died at 55, very very premature.
God left him...

What's the point of all that money and wisdom only to die at 55..

What a waste!

Wow, at 55 but he attained the height of his destiny.
I think people should be more concerned about eternity than the earthbound consequences of sins they are commiting.

elder1002:
Fct..first time

Okay back to the topic

Nobody go tell you say that enjoyment wey you dey do back then
Fit come back mess you up later for life.

You fit don forget the people wey you knack,
But your soul no forget. Your body no forget.
Now you don marry, but your heart still dey roam.
You dey compare your partner to people wey no suppose still dey your head.

Make we yarn truth.
For this our Naija, many babes don lose guard early.
Dem give body to guys wey no get plans,
Guys wey use love lie dem.
Now dem don marry, but peace no dey.

Some of una no dey feel love again.
Because too many people don use your body wipe ground.
You don give, give, give, now you dry.
You dey vex anyhow. You no trust anybody again.
You no sabi enjoy good love again because you don dey carry baggage wey heavy for soul.

And guys,
Wetin you gain?
You run street, chop everything.
Now you don settle, but you no fit stay one place.
Every girl dey remind you of another one.
You dey blame your wife for not being wild like your ex.
But na you break yourself with too much adventure.

This life no balance.
But no use your past scatter your future.

If you never give body, hold am tight.
No let anybody shame you say you never knack.
Peace of mind no dey for market.

If you don already mess up, no go dey form boss.
Go heal. Go pray. Go reset your head.
You no be animal. You fit start again.

Wahala we dey see for marriage today
No be just because of money.
Na because too many people don enter with wounded soul and spoiled mindset.
Love no fit grow inside broken people wey never heal.

No be every sweet thing be blessing.
Some of una dey pay now for wetin una do five years ago.
No peace. No rest. No bond. Just confusion.

Old-time sex no be joke.
E dey sweet that time.
But e dey bite later.
E dey leave scars wey no show for body,
But your soul go dey cry.

If person no tell you before,
Make I tell you now.
No use yesterday spoil today.

Open eye.

God bless you for this wonderful message.

One dangerous consequences of wrong sex is its impact when you may have forgotten about the past escapade or event.
These are consequences that may occur because of old-time wrong sex.

You tried.

Akalia:
Wow, at 55 but he attained the height of his destiny.
I think people should be more concerned about eternity than the earthbound consequences of sins they are commiting.

Destiny without Gods approval is that one destiny?

stepg05:
I respect your intelligence dear.God bless you.

That was chatGPT na

Lol.

ZombieDredd:
That was chatGPT na

asiga:
It is even people who engaged in premarital and extramarital sex that makes it bigger these days and even in the days of old.

King Solomon is my witness. Them plenty.

They can be successfully financially but seriously lacking in health and offsprings.

ZombieDredd:
You do realize Solomon died at 55, very very premature.
God left him...

What's the point of all that money and wisdom only to die at 55..

What a waste!

Is the 100 years in poverty without impact you like? In King Solomon's, only few made the impact he made even at their 100 years.

professore:
One dangerous consequences of wrong sex is its impact when you may have forgotten about the past escapade or event.
These are consequences that may occur because of old-time wrong sex.

You tried.

There is no consequence. None.

A post with zero common sense. Why the hell marry someone you may never be sexually compatible with? Help me make it make sense?

EmmyMaestro:
So 'orange' no de your area

Jennyclay's own looks very inviting