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Bad character & inconsiderate woman.

Once I detect that your sense of reasoning is poor, and to make the matter worse, you're soo vain.
I don checkout.

1. Those stupid wigs

2. Having the mindset of young Nigerian girls. A man/guy must pay for my bills. Especially demanding/expecting from a man what your father+mother+uncles +aunties+siblings could not collectively afford to buy for you
3. The ones that are fat but when you suggest gym for them, they become moody saying you are body shaming them
4. And most important one, exhibiting that toxic Nigerian feminists traits. Especially for those girls between 28 and 39 years old. I leave 40 and above out of this, because their brain resets once they reach that age. They realize the next journey is race to golden jubilee and their friend will soon be missing ladies hangout because she wants to go to football games or musical performance of her grandchildren

Honorable mention: the ones that use make up to cover their face, beautiful lipstick on the lips, while their mouth and breathe is oozing and their under smelling like fish

Being fat, overweight or obese is a turn off.
Always nagging,combative or argumentive is not attractive.The ones with the entitled mindset that a man must pay for the bills.

Asking for money too early

LIES

Am kind ofnold fashioned.
First thing i find unattractive in a lady is the dressing that opens ur navel.if i see ur navel with the way u dress,i go just off

Big belly.
Always asking for money.
She got many make friends.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. Who cares what men find attractive or unattractive? They mostly speak from both sides of their mouth, so I will be wasting my time paying heed to these comments.

You claim not to be interested in what men say here yet you are hell-bent on following the comments 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
Ain't you doing same shittt of speaking from both sides of your mouth?🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
You are not paying attention to men yet you are paying keen attention.
Isn't that confusion at its peak?
Your acknowledgement and response alone demonstrates strong affliations and attention which invariably means that you CARE!
Never knew you to be this...

brain54:
I like women with poise...

That carry themselves elegantly with self respect and confidence.

Dress properly not necessarily expensive. Just neat and crisp.

I don't want to see those panty lines, or bra straps etc. Just careful,prim and proper.

Nicely pendicured nails, Clean feet those kinda things. A woman should look feminine.

I somehow find these attributes sexy in a woman.

So I figure the opposite is what I find unattractive!

I'm guessing you're not married yet

Bleaching, long eyelashes in that order.

APOPTOSIS:
You claim not to be interested in what men say here yet you are hell-bent on following the comments 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
Ain't you doing same shittt of speaking from both sides of your mouth?🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
You are not paying attention to men yet you are paying keen attention.
Isn't that confusion at its peak?
Never knew you to be this...

You caught her. Red-handed. Lol

I said this same thing inside my mind. How she couldn't resist the anger that came upon her as a result of the many bitter truthful comments made by male members. If she really didn't care, or, wasn't triggered and hurt by what the guys commented saying, then Uyai won't have commented here.

If only you know the number of pained and angry female nairaland members who have read this thread and resisted the urge to login and blast make commenters, you would be shocked. I wonder why this one couldn't " chest it " and maintain a thick skin, by not saying anything. Lol

They aren't as strong as they want people to believe, most of the time.
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Anyway, let me read on. I'm noticing patterns in the comments..

I hate any kind of offensive odour. I can't stand a lady who has hygiene issues. I love them clean,smart and intelligent.

Playconsoler101:
I will say,
When they turn fault finding machines.

All those piercings- nose, tongue etc

clevybrown:
For me, it's poor hygiene and low level of reasoning. I so love smart ladies...

NOSE RINGS AND TATTOOS

Nose ring and leg chains

Allthingswork:
You caught her. Red-handed. Lol

I said this same thing inside my mind. How she couldn't resist the anger that came upon her as a result of the many bitter truthful comments made by male members. If she really didn't care, or, wasn't triggered and hurt by what the guys commented saying, then Uyai won't have commented here.

If only you know the number of pained and angry female nairaland members who have read this thread and resisted the urge to login and blast make commenters, you would be shocked. I wonder why this one couldn't " chest it " and maintain a thick skin, by not saying anything. Lol

They aren't as strong as they want people to believe, most of the time.
😅😅
Anyway, let me read on. I'm noticing patterns in the comments..

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Probably, she's still a kid. We forgive her.
IF I were her, I would read the comments and learn from Men directly.
Most times men don't pretend since most of us are not good at pretence.
If a man smokes he wouldn't hide it.
He can only manage or stop it for your sake.
We don't do make-up to mask things.
Our scars are out there right at the glimpse of others. We barely pretend.
So whatever men are saying here is almost correct and that should stimulate her for a change or consistency in the right direction and not bitterness.

Turning relationship into emotional war. Where she tries to show little care and love so as to control the relationship.

Steady banging can actually cause it .

Frog voice/harsh voice.
Behaving like a man

APOPTOSIS:
You claim not to be interested in what men say here yet you are hell-bent on following the comments 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
Ain't you doing same shittt of speaking from both sides of your mouth?🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
You are not paying attention to men yet you are paying keen attention.
Isn't that confusion at its peak?
Your acknowledgement and response alone demonstrates strong affliations and attention which invariably means that you CARE!
Never knew you to be this...

See plenty talk on top harmless comment. Abeg o. I have headache.

Allthingswork:
You caught her. Red-handed. Lol

I said this same thing inside my mind. How she couldn't resist the anger that came upon her as a result of the many bitter truthful comments made by male members. If she really didn't care, or, wasn't triggered and hurt by what the guys commented saying, then Uyai won't have commented here.

If only you know the number of pained and angry female nairaland members who have read this thread and resisted the urge to login and blast make commenters, you would be shocked. I wonder why this one couldn't " chest it " and maintain a thick skin, by not saying anything. Lol

They aren't as strong as they want people to believe, most of the time.
😅😅
Anyway, let me read on. I'm noticing patterns in the comments..

How did my comment portray bitterness now? I tire for una o.

Entitlement mindset.

Those who are unable to read books or unable to hold meaningful conversations. Also, a big turn off is a very religious lady.

UyaiIncomparabl:
See plenty talk on top harmless comment. Abeg o. I have headache.

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Nagging Nagging and Nagging
Lies
Manipulative
Lack of good hygiene
And the most worst is LAZY!

Makes a Lady instantly Unattractive.... .

Women don't usually chase success on their own but rather chase successful men

Silentgroper:
Slow and dull

No booty..

Too dependent on me for everything..

Unhygienic esp body odour .. whenever I look at her, I see STD'S ..

Way too much clinginess.. gimme some breathing space...

What if she wasn't dependent on you for anything before, but later have a source of income issue that happens to make her depend on you for everything, would that count?

Moveittothem:
What if she wasn't dependent on you for anything before, but later have a source of income issue that happens to make her depend on you for everything, would that count?

source of income issues ...
Doesnt she have savings..


Well I could reason with that but she has to work something out soonest .....

Fiscus105:
Wen a girl is too smart, be expecting boss-lady, I biliv you have whole lots of endurance to cope with her, high degree of her smartness.

All females are naturally built with smartness. Which is also called MANIPULATIONS.

It's a bad kind of smartness...

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. Who cares what men find attractive or unattractive? They mostly speak from both sides of their mouth, so I will be wasting my time paying heed to these comments.

Na your kind chummynoni dey talk about eh fine girl..


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