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AntiChristian:
So people should get married but there's no process or procedure to get married anywhere in the Bible

Dtruthspeaker:
Has the process not already been inbuilt? Who does not know that the process is simply young adults and wanna be adults who meet themselves and see that they naturally like each other to the point that they both want to join together and face life issues together, so they go meet their respective parents for verification and approval?

And of course if the intending have copulated, the families will be angry and the process will suffer set backs or even cancelled.

Who does not already know this?

ebubeson:
➜As good Christians, it is of God we avoid all forms of sexual immorality in courtship and Marriage. This is by God's grace.
Pray for God's grace in this corrupt and polluted world because the rate of sexual immorality and temptations is on the high side.
As people in courtship, pray for grace not to sleep with your Fiance, Fiancee, EX, friend, bestie e.t.c
Please avoid:
(1) Avoid sleeping with your Fiance or Fiancee.
(2) Avoid sleeping with your EX before wedding day.
(3) As married persons, avoid committing adultery with others, your EX, your colleagues, childhood friend e.t.c
(4) Avoid paternity fraud: bringing other children into the marriage or even having child outside.
(5) Avoid other forms of sexual immorality that is not of God.
May God give you grace in Jesus name. Amen.

EternalBeing:
Many Christians have really suffered from demonic frustrations, physical or spiritual attacks, real persecution, stagnations in life, marital crises, unexplainable poverty, lack of love, less and less people that seems to understand you, etc. Revelation 13:7 "Then the beast was permitted to wage war against the saints" Is all about the Beast of this world system waging war against the seeds of the Woman, you and I, the saints of JESUS YAHSHUA HaMashiach.

Genesis 3:15. He has bruised our heels with the problems and troubles of this Life, but we have crushed his head by our Victory through our MESSIAH. Remember, no promotion without Examination. When someone stretches hand to give you a gift, you must stretch your hand to receive it it. You can't lazily fold your hands refusing to do nothing and still expects the Gift to be useful for you! No reward of immortality without receiving the Gift by proving that we deserve to live forever; by proving that nothing would ever make us to become ungrateful to the SOURCE and GIVER of Life. This is the usefulness and importance of the trial of our Faith in this short Life. Many have denied their Faith in their MAKER indirectly by being lured and going to soothsayers, marabouts, herbalists, palmists, and diviners.

If you have refused to bow to the god of this Babylon World directly or indirectly, I congratulate you and bring you good news. Cheer up! Never, never, never give up. Our redemption is very near now. We have proved to our CREATOR that no trials or temptation can make us turn our back against HIM. HIS promised reward of transforming us into immortal Souls to live forever is about to happen. James 1:12 and Revelation 22:14.

While we patiently await that, let not forget to focus all our remaining time, energy, resources and life on obeying our MESSIAH's most important Command to "Go ye into the World and win Souls" unto HIM. As Time is fast running out in this already ending End Time, let's storm the pages, camps and locations of Witches, Wizards, Muslims, Satanists, Gays, and every group that needs to be reminded of the fact that YAHWEH ALMIGHTY the CREATOR of all has already given HIS only Son for Humanity, to actualize HIS Original plan of making those that accept, surrender and follow HIM, to life forever. The most important question we shall individually be asked on Judgement Day is: "How many souls did you win and helped abide in the Kingdom of the eternal God?"

AntiChristian:
Can we get how marriage is done according to the Bible?

I means show us the practical of how it is meant to be done?

Jesus was present in a marriage in Cana. The only thing we know he gave them was wine!

AntiChristian:
Can you show us how this happened in the Bible especially in Jesus's time?

Negroid001:
Let's be realistic.
Put bible aside.

What if the man is impotent?
What if both of you are not compatible copulatively?
What if he has a small thing?


I don't know who buys a brand new car without going for a test drive first.

ebubeson:
As good Christians, it is of God we avoid all forms of sexual immorality in courtship and Marriage. This is by God's grace.

Pray for God's grace in this corrupt and polluted world because the rate of sexual immorality and temptations is on the high side.

As people in courtship, pray for grace not to sleep with your Fiance, Fiancee, EX, friend, bestie e.t.c

Please avoid:
(1) Avoid sleeping with your Fiance or Fiancee.
(2) Avoid sleeping with your EX before wedding day.
(3) As married persons, avoid committing adultery with others, your EX, your colleagues, childhood friend e.t.c
(4) Avoid paternity fraud: bringing other children into the marriage or even having child outside.
(5) Avoid other forms of sexual immorality that is not of God.

May God give you grace in Jesus name. Amen.

1000angstroms:
The Just shall live by faith.
Worshipping the God of the Bible is all about faith, and trusting him totally.
What relationship do you have with your own God not the ones these pastors,. Bishops, popes, imams and sheiks introduced to you.
Is there anything impossible for God to do, we mostly sacrifice our faith to lust of carnality.

ebubeson:
As good Christians, it is of God we avoid all forms of sexual immorality in courtship and Marriage. This is by God's grace.

Pray for God's grace in this corrupt and polluted world because the rate of sexual immorality and temptations is on the high side.

As people in courtship, pray for grace not to sleep with your Fiance, Fiancee, EX, friend, bestie e.t.c

Please avoid:
(1) Avoid sleeping with your Fiance or Fiancee.
(2) Avoid sleeping with your EX before wedding day.
(3) As married persons, avoid committing adultery with others, your EX, your colleagues, childhood friend e.t.c
(4) Avoid paternity fraud: bringing other children into the marriage or even having child outside.
(5) Avoid other forms of sexual immorality that is not of God.

May God give you grace in Jesus name. Amen.

AntiChristian:
Can you show us how this happened in the Bible especially in Jesus's time?

Hamachi:
it is noble to promote sexual discipline and fidelity, especially from a religious or moral standpoint, framing all premarital or non-traditional sexual behavior as purely immoral or sinful is overly simplistic. Human sexuality is complex and influenced by a combination of biology, psychology, culture, religion, and personal values. Here’s a more nuanced perspective:

1. Sexual Activity During Courtship Isn't Always Immoral – Context Matters
In many parts of the world, more than 70% of couples live together and are sexually active before marriage, according to Pew Research and WHO studies on global relationship trends.
Research by the University of Denver shows that couples who communicate openly about sex and compatibility before marriage often have better marital satisfaction long term—not necessarily the opposite.

Not every relationship that involves premarital sex is immoral, abusive, or unserious. Many are committed and end in long-lasting marriages.

2. Suppressing Sexuality Can Lead to Psychological and Marital Problems
A study by the Journal of Sex Research found that people raised in overly restrictive environments regarding sex often suffer from sexual guilt, anxiety, and dissatisfaction in marriage. Waiting for marriage without sex can lead to sexual incompatibility—a major reason why many Christian marriages, especially in conservative cultures, face divorce despite both partners being virgins at wedding.

3. Paternity Fraud is a Real Issue – But It's Not As Widespread as Assumed
Data on paternity fraud is often exaggerated. A 2006 study published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health found that only 1–3% of paternity cases worldwide involved deception. Painting women as common perpetrators of paternity fraud fuels misogyny and distrust, which are contrary to biblical love and unity in marriage.

4. Marriage Is Not a Cure for Adultery or Immorality
Being married doesn’t automatically prevent infidelity. According to the General Social Survey (U.S.), about 16% of married individuals admit to cheating on their spouse at some point. What reduces infidelity isn’t just marriage or religious morality—but good communication, emotional connection, and mutual respect.

5. Sexual Morality Is Culturally Relative
What is considered sexually immoral in some cultures is normal in others. For example:

In many African and Middle Eastern societies, premarital sex is taboo. But in most Western cultures, it’s considered a normal part of adult dating and bonding. Even within Christianity, there is no single biblical verse that states "kissing, touching, or all forms of sex before marriage is sin"—though sexual immorality is clearly condemned, the exact definition has varied over time.

While Christian values rightly encourage self-control and fidelity, blanket condemnation without understanding context or the realities of modern life can be harmful. Instead of shame and fear, Christian teachings should promote:

Grace, guidance, and growth over judgment.

Sexual education alongside spiritual discipline.

A balanced view that doesn’t promote gender stereotypes or unnecessary guilt.

In this world, what young people need is truth with compassion, not fear-driven purity culture.

Yes, pray for grace—but also educate, empower, and communicate. Because God's grace is not just to avoid sin, but also to understand truth, live in wisdom, and walk in love.

ebubeson:
As good Christians, it is of God we avoid all forms of sexual immorality in courtship and Marriage. This is by God's grace.

Pray for God's grace in this corrupt and polluted world because the rate of sexual immorality and temptations is on the high side.

As people in courtship, pray for grace not to sleep with your Fiance, Fiancee, EX, friend, bestie e.t.c

Please avoid:
(1) Avoid sleeping with your Fiance or Fiancee.
(2) Avoid sleeping with your EX before wedding day.
(3) As married persons, avoid committing adultery with others, your EX, your colleagues, childhood friend e.t.c
(4) Avoid paternity fraud: bringing other children into the marriage or even having child outside.
(5) Avoid other forms of sexual immorality that is not of God.

May God give you grace in Jesus name. Amen.

AntiChristian:
Can we get how marriage is done according to the Bible?

I means show us the practical of how it is meant to be done?

Jesus was present in a marriage in Cana. The only thing we know he gave them was wine!