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Gerrard59:
I find it funny when I am labelled a simp, whereas I have been posting against rabid misandry disguised as feminism. All I am against is extremism because it does more harm than any good. That was how Ndi ifeminisi labelled men all sorts of names that we had an Andrew Tate and several offshoots. We have had an era where young men were falsely labelled rapists even when the incidient never happened or there was no clear cut evidence. Now, should a lady put a rape claim incident online, many don't outrightly believe her. Extremism is bad for both sides.


The issue with your post is that you are not addressing the root of the matter. These women don't sleep with fellow women (at least in most cases). It is our men, especially those in the south, who fuel this trade. As long as men continue to pay humongous sums for sex, the supply will continue to soar. Check the rates charged in the Lekki-Ajah axis; it means the business is good. Our men, especially men in these groups:
- Money miss road Igbo men
- Yahoo yahoo boys
- Politicians

...are the root causes of this skyrocketing hookup trade. I have written them here:
- https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria
- https://www.nairaland.com/8064135/hook-up-girls-earnings-expenses-pictured

Additionally, there is the prevailing belief that a Nigerian man who is financially comfortable should be polygamous in nature. Such a man will have sexual intercourse with many women, and as long as this belief exists, it means there will be fewer chaste ladies. Men have sex with women; thus, we cannot expect to have plenty of chaste women when men are allowed or encouraged to have sex with as many women as they desire. The math is not mathing.

BTW, with the red pill preaching I have read so far, our men still marry rabid misandrists, pay huge sums to escorts, pay for their women's education, pay huge amounts for dates, kneel to propose, etc. So, you see, it is either the gospel isn't spreading enough or the target audience isn't interested.

cc: Tightpussy2024

Which gospel isn't spreading enough?
Men don't understand themselves until they have money.i am ready to swear with my mother life that if you dash redpillers 10 million each,ask them their spec,and it will be different from what they have been typing.

All this redpill is coping mechanism,women reject them. They need to rant and cook up a theory.they need to dig deep and answers questions. Hormones are what controls a man.then later peace of mind and Respect. Nothing aside this three things control a masculine man.

It is the one that has chop poverty or rejection or both that will start adding theories and rules and gospel.

Finish.

Tightpussy2024:
Which gospel isn't spreading enough?
Men don't understand themselves until they have money.i am ready to swear with my mother life that if you dash redpillers 10 million each,ask them their spec,and it will be different from what they have been typing.

This is very true. My theory is that: give a Nigerian man N100 and he would spend at least N50 on women. So yes, I can understand what you mean.

All this redpill is coping mechanism,women reject them. They need to rant and cook up a theory.they need to dig deep and answers questions. Hormones are what controls a man.then later peace of mind and Respect. Nothing aside this three things control a masculine man.

You don see us finish 😔

My female classmates who flirted during undergraduate studies are perfect replicas of women who satisfy the bold.

Funny , Why me why not Yul Edochie.
Stupid question.
If Grandpa Ned knows the important of fresh blood you will now want men to settle for people that have climbed so many beds , doing a lot of bad things when their is fresh blood every where.

Why would you wanna do that? Have a kind of FWB arrangement, and if you love her, have a child together. Marriages are overrated these days. Do not tie yourself to a 38-year-old lady who is already set in her ways.

cassidy1996:
My sister is 37yrs, she's need a husband. She's a good girl.

Ask your sister to contact me.

Drop her or your contacts.

Yes of course

Tightpussy2024:
Which gospel isn't spreading enough?
Men don't understand themselves until they have money.i am ready to swear with my mother life that if you dash redpillers 10 million each,ask them their spec,and it will be different from what they have been typing.

All this redpill is coping mechanism,women reject them. They need to rant and cook up a theory.they need to dig deep and answers questions. Hormones are what controls a man.then later peace of mind and Respect. Nothing aside this three things control a masculine man.

It is the one that has chop poverty or rejection or both that will start adding theories and rules and gospel.

Finish.

Again, you are right. Jeff Bezos married a woman who has three children for two different men and gave her the wedding of her lifetime.

Women are winning it. Men show their true selves when money enter their hand.

Let no one complain again. No man here is wealthier and powerful than Bezos.

cassidy1996:
My sister is 37yrs, she's need a husband. She's a good girl.

Whats her location? Im mid 40s

Good morning, Can you introduce me to your sis. I can marry her if she has a good character. Quote me here. I will drop my whatsapp number. Thanks

cassidy1996:
My sister is 37yrs, she's need a husband. She's a good girl.

Picture?

bazoodo:
Hello everyone. What are your views on this? Can you marry a 38 year old lady? What's your take? Thank you

Tell us exactly what is wrong with you, @OP?

Good morning from here, How are you doing? Can I talk to your sister please or let's chat on whatsapp 07011263861

cassidy1996:
My sister is 37yrs, she's need a husband. She's a good girl.

ediko5:
You made some brilliant points here but you viewed my post from a wrong perspective.

I understand that the men are the major cause and funders of women's reckless lifestyle. My posts are mostly to protect the 'innocent men' from being devoured by the spoilt female. There are some Red Pillers who focus more on teaching men how to stay aware from women and keep themselves pure and holy while there are some who focus on teaching men the manipulative strategies of women and this is what I'm doing.

You'll agree with me that damaged ladies usually target innocent men for marriage. A single mother won't eye a wayward man like the one who got her pregnant and abandon her for marriage, she won't eye the man of her spec in her prime age (reckless spender) rather they will eye that innocent, dedicated man they despise in their prime age for marriage who spent his youthful age building himself.

My teaching is to protect the innocent men from having marital relationship with the damaged women. Indirectly it makes the younger ladies to sit up and adjust their reckless lifestyle.

The current global shaming of single mothers by Red Pillers will indirectly help in the reduction of single mothers in the future.

Meanwhile I just followed you 😁

You made points bro
I have one in my life now at 36 forming good woman, wanting marriage, doing like she no sabi anything. I told her to be real or we end things. Omo see how she dey ride me bro. She must have at least 30 body counts according to her, but it's in the past too according to her

lordnkem000:
You made points bro
I have one in my life now at 36 forming good woman, wanting marriage, doing like she no sabi anything. I told her to be real or we end things. Omo see how she dey ride me bro. She must have at least 30 body counts according to her, but it's in the past too according to her

Firstly if you're a single man without a child and she's a single mother, please it's NO NO.

A single mother should go and marry a single father, divorcee or widower. A single man in most cases will not have that emotional strength to handle the manipulations and traumas of a single mother.

Also, my understanding of body count is the number of men a lady or man have slept with and 30 body counts Na childs for a typical Naija babe, oh come on Na! How many knacks per week? How many per month and year?

Also, single mothers hardly tell men their real age so for her to say 36, she should be 40

I av a 44yrs old cousin. Never married and a virgin.

bazoodo:
Hello everyone. What are your views on this? Can you marry a 38 year old lady? What's your take? Thank you

Why do you small boys ask stupid questions?

ediko5:
Firstly if you're a single man without a child and she's a single mother, please it's NO NO.

A single mother should go and marry a single father, divorcee or widower. A single man in most cases will not have that emotional strength to handle the manipulations and traumas of a single mother.

Also, my understanding of body count is the number of men a lady or man have slept with and 30 body counts Na childs for a typical Naija babe, oh come on Na! How many knacks per week? How many per month and year?

Also, single mothers hardly tell men their real age so for her to say 36, she should be 40

Bro you finish work i swear, your points are valid and deep.
She wasn't even sure with the 30 body counts sef, meaning it could be more. I really don't trust that age too but she has been good and nice and acting trustworthy since we started.
I am not a single father

lordnkem000:
Bro you finish work i swear, your points are valid and deep.
She wasn't even sure with the 30 body counts sef, meaning it could be more. I really don't trust that age too but she has been good and nice and acting trustworthy since we started.
I am not a single father

😁 😁

Greetings bro.
Please don't be comical. I've been shouting everywhere on Nairaland about the manipulative lifestyle of single mothers and not to talk of someone that's probably 40?
Lolz, did you expect someone like that not to be calm, caring and gentle while trying to manipulate you into marriage ?

Please NEVER, I repeat NEVER marry a single mother as a single man. A single mother of 36 years old is psychologically older than a single man of 36 by 10 years old and from the way you sounded, you're yet to understand how manipulative single mothers are and the dangers involved in getting married to a single mother as a single man.

A single mother will be reluctant to approach a single father, divorcee or widower for their manipulative relationship because they understand the most of those men won't fall for them, the new trend now is manipulating young men into marriage

ediko5:
😁 😁

Greetings bro.
Please don't be comical. I've been shouting everywhere on Nairaland about the manipulative lifestyle of single mothers and not to talk of someone that's probably 40?
Lolz, did you expect someone like that not to be calm, caring and gentle while trying to manipulate you into marriage ?

Please NEVER, I repeat NEVER marry a single mother as a single man. A single mother of 36 years old is psychologically older than a single man of 36 by 10 years old and from the way you sounded, you're yet to understand how manipulative single mothers are and the dangers involved in getting married to a single mother as a single man.

A single mother will be reluctant to approach a single father, divorcee or widower for their manipulative relationship because they understand the most of those men won't fall for them, the new trend now is manipulating young men into marriage

Thanks so much bro, you re very right both about me being naive and her style. She's too nice to be true. Abeg you open my eyes o, Damm. U deserve at least 3bottles from me o. Thanks for helping a brother out

cassidy1996:
My sister is 37yrs, she's need a husband. She's a good girl.

Am interested in her, can you link me up with her, my contacts is on my profile.
Thank you

cassidy1996:
My sister is 37yrs, she's need a husband. She's a good girl.

Am interested,Can you please link me up with her,
And how can I reach you.
Thank you

lordnkem000:
Thanks so much bro, you re very right both about me being naive and her style. She's too nice to be true. Abeg you open my eyes o, Damm. U deserve at least 3bottles from me o. Thanks for helping a brother out

You're welcome bro, I'm glad you're following the gospel. Please follow the gospel and don't fall astray you're a real man. A single mother of 36 years as claimed by her is a big red flag. I believe before she told you 36, she already asked for your age so she can lie about hers.

Sure, we can have a sitout. I'll be in Port Harcourt next month, you can send a PM let's connect

lordnkem000:
Thanks so much bro, you re very right both about me being naive and her style. She's too nice to be true. Abeg you open my eyes o, Damm. U deserve at least 3bottles from me o. Thanks for helping a brother out

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cassidy1996:
My sister is 37yrs, she's need a husband. She's a good girl.

Hello please send me her contact details. I am interested. My email address is kaladajumbo74@gmail.com

ediko5:
You're welcome bro, I'm glad you're following the gospel. Please follow the gospel and don't fall astray you're a real man. A single mother of 36 years as claimed by her is a big red flag. I believe before she told you 36, she already asked for your age so she can lie about hers.

Sure, we can have a sitout. I'll be in Port Harcourt next month, you can send a PM let's connect

That will be great to see you in ph, I like it.
Do we now don't PMs on nairaland? Never knew it existed, I only know Quotes

Tightpussy2024:
Which gospel isn't spreading enough?
Men don't understand themselves until they have money.i am ready to swear with my mother life that if you dash redpillers 10 million each,ask them their spec,and it will be different from what they have been typing.

All this redpill is coping mechanism,women reject them. They need to rant and cook up a theory.they need to dig deep and answers questions. Hormones are what controls a man.then later peace of mind and Respect. Nothing aside this three things control a masculine man.

It is the one that has chop poverty or rejection or both that will start adding theories and rules and gospel.

Finish.

Will you understand yourself when you with a man without money?

AfahaAbia:
Hello please send me her contact details. I am interested. My email address is kaladajumbo74@gmail.com

You wan destroy person sister ba?

Dzzzz:
Will you understand yourself when you with a man without money?

For this reason I chose a man with money