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I will advise that you Record and permissively allow her leave to join the man. Make sure no blows will be exchanged at that moment.
In fact your safety should remain a priority at that time because they may attempt to kill u. One must create a safety distance in such situations because death is usually imminent

"To Record" them will be an evidence that you will be keep in ur archives and not for public consumption except when necessary because they lie a lot. They really Lie and can shed tears alongside.

I will send her packing immediately, It's non negotiable

bdon123:
U seem to be a violent person.Did d man rape ur wife?
I feel sick wen people like u are not ashamed to say this.Imagine d cutlass talk.if i find a man wit my wife i wont do a thing.I will jst ask her to park n go.i will lock my home n go on a holiday to cool down n forget.

lol.. what if the other guy try to attack you..

Walk away silently if they didnt see you. And never return. Your life is at risk.
If seen, back away carefully, and walk away.

If possible, get a shot (picture), but not at risk of your quick and safe exit.

BY ALL MEANS WALK AWAY.

Its a moment at which you may be killed.

Walk away



Simple!

I can't put my precious life at risk. Any woman that has the courage to bring a man into your matrimonial bed will have the courage to kill you.

Just walk away and get them both arrested.
The wife can leave the station to her father's house once she is able to secure her release

My advice to men not yet married is.... Kindly do your research very well

A cheat is always a cheat and can kill the man.

If a man is trying his best to meet most financial obligations, I see no reason why a wife will go ahead and cheat. But most girls see nothing wrong with it... So open your eyes.

SECRET TIP: Talk bad about a cheat in the presence of your girlfriend/ boyfriend and take note of his/her reactions

ediko5:
I heard a story how a man returned from a journey without informing his wife and met the wife with a man on their matrimonial bed. When he threatened to divorce and expose the wife, she immediately connived with her man friend to terminate the husband's life and they took his corpse to the road side so it will appear like a robbery.

There are similar cases like this which were never discovered and may never be known.

Any woman who can bring a man to your matrimonial bed can unalive you without thinking twice.

How to be safe when you find yourself in this scenario as a man:

1. Be calm: Don't over panic and don't raise your voice when you're in the same enclosed room with them. Make sure to stand at the door and don't move away from the door.

2. Don't Threaten to Expose or Divorce Her: Be calm and diplomatic. This isn't the time to threaten to lose hell fire.

3. Locate Any Available Weapon and Stand Close to it: If You're a real African man, you should have at least a machete in your house, stand close to your machete or gun in case of any wrong move but don't be the first to engage them in a fight while you're still alone in the house. If you can lay hold of your weapon, find your way out of the house immediately.

4. Raise Alarm for Witnesses: Raise alarm and inform few or trusted neighbours to come and witness it, you can then descend on them depending on the kind of environment you live or call the police to pick them up so she can explain what they were doing in your matrimonial bed.

If na me o! I no dey fight any fight. I don swear with my hands raised to heaven that I won't kill another man because of a woman. I no sabi beat woman but if she no respect herself, i go help her fling her things outside. I dey end every affiliation with that woman that very day, she must leave my house within 3hrs. I run a DNA on my kids, if dem fail or some fail, all of them to there papa.

You can leave the house for her if you cannot pray for her to change. Men full everywhere.

A cheating woman is a dangerous woman. I wonder how men would accept to still stay under the same roof with a cheating wife. One man was telling me how he knows his wife cheats,but doesn't care. That's very bad...even if he doesn't care what his wife does with her body,it should not be under his roof. The moment you start suspecting your wife for cheating,send her away it means she has lost all respect for you and would kill you if given the opportunity. If I catch her cheating on me,I would leave the house for them to finish and when I come back,I throw her out of my house. I don't have any business with the man she cheated with.

I think the first and most appropriate thing to do is to raise alarm.. like you'd do when you catch a thief that broke into your house.
Let people gather and make sure you take photo or video evidence of the scene. Then terminate the marriage.

A cheating spouse (male or female) can kill you.. don't wait till they kill you before you flee because after you die, she'll still fvck around.
Jejely send her packing, let her go and enjoy her lover(s) the way she wants.

Silentgroper:
Just keep fvcking..

Then finally divorce ..

Nothing like forgive here...

just keep fuvking... naso ur ego, dignity, value as a man less reach?

But you know that a Man's reason for cheating is different from a woman's.
A man cheats because it's flex and the women know that is they will not bat an eye
But a woman cheats because she believes the man she is cheating with is better than you the husband. That is why a woman's cheating affair is painful and bruises a man's ego

Nnamdipapa:
Most of these men foaming in the mouths have side chick's and the wives have never packed out of the marriage. I will forgive my wife if I catch her with a lover and no big deal.

Scarrr:
just keep fuvking... naso ur ego, dignity, value as a man less reach?

I don't know what you talkin about but amah just keep fvcking ..


I play by my rules

I can't go to jail because of any woman, I will jejjely take a walk at that time, if I can forgive good otherwise we path ways

Nnamdipapa:
Most of these men foaming in the mouths have side chick's and the wives have never packed out of the marriage. I will forgive my wife if I catch her with a lover and no big deal.

Please,for your safety don't forgive a cheating wife.A cheating wife will poison you.

Several things can be done.
Snap their picture on the action and post it as poster in environment or social media to relatives.
Paste it on bill board.
Call the family members right while they are still naked and do meeting with them on what to do next.

Silentgroper:
I don't know what you talkin about but amah just keep fvcking ..


I play by my rules

my bro, change that ur rule and mentality, pvssy is not as high on pedestal as you think ....as a man , never joke with your value

I'm guessing this is fiction content but it's simple. Whip out the cellphone and take a pic of them frolicking in the bed for divorce court and send copies to her family. Clear head, no arguing and fighting. Nice n smooth. Bro can have the damaged goods.

Walk away from her and the marriage
Cos for sure she'll know that's the red line for me

Simple answer. Divorce her. Abi you go fight with any of them thereby committing a criminal offence? No. None of them committed a criminal offence by having sex on your matrimonial bed.

paragon10:
Please,for your safety don't forgive a cheating wife.A cheating wife will poison you.

I have cheated in the past and she forgave me, why should I not forgive her if she begs for it?

As a real man, you should go into the secret corner of your house and pray fervently that the evil spirit leaves her, thereafter watch "War Room" and make a covenant with God that your marriage will work.

kayyyy44:
But you know that a Man's reason for cheating is different from a woman's.
A man cheats because it's flex and the women know that is they will not bat an eye
But a woman cheats because she believes the man she is cheating with is better than you the husband. That is why a woman's cheating affair is painful and bruises a man's ego

That may not always be the case. I think people cheat for different reasons which may not be the same.

One of the easiest things to do in life is to postulate.

Someone who has never caught his wife in bed with another man giving a list of what to do in such scenario .

Social Media na WA for you oo.

I will join them.

Nnamdipapa:
I have cheated in the past and she forgave me, why should I not forgive her if she begs for it?

A woman's cheating and man's cheating is not the same. A man will cheat on his wife without loving his wife less but women tend to have emotional connection with whoever she cheats with. For your wife to cheat on you she has lost all respect for you and should not be in your life anymore once you find out. Even if you didn't find out,she won't regard you anymore. She will start disrespecting you. Those are some subtle signs she has cheated on you. A cheating wife is an enemy. The man she cheats with can easily influence her to steal from you or kill you.

Coming from the gender who bring in side chicks to their matrimonial beds even if their wives just step out for few hours.

See how they are foaming in the mouth
They can't swallow one-tenth of the bull...shit they serve women.

Una never see anything.
Gen Z women no be like Una mama

SamuraiXXX:
Oga na which woman do you this thing?

All your threads and post here only have one thrust - attack women.

Your interest with this has reached an alarming level which borders on obsession!

It has happened to so many people in so many different places.

spiceadole:
Coming from the gender who bring in side chicks to their matrimonial beds even if their wives just step out for few hours.

See how they are foaming in the mouth
They can't swallow one-tenth of the bull...shit they serve women.

Una never see anything.
Gen Z women no be like Una mama

Men are polygamous. It's even the borrowed religion we got here in the south that is confining one man to a wife which overtime nature has defied that. It's only a white knight like you that defends these brainwashed genz women in Nigeria claiming feminists. Person when no fit feed herself dey claim feminist,no be mumu be that. American women that are independent are better than these wanna be genz feminists here.

What did you do is the question.