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Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by OdefaGirl(f): 8:14pm On Jul 28, 2025
Therock5555:
Omor if I come back house, jam my wife with another man for bed, Naturally I'll be pissed off but ain't gonna give her that pleasure to know.

Just strip off in their presence and change clothings then walk out like a Boss.


Definitely person wey marry me would know that kind of psychopath she's with, so someone with full understanding would have fled with all her properties before I returned.


I'll never call her papa or involve my self inside any reconciliation meeting, that's my deal breaker and even Bible supports me.

If you like carry divorce papers come give me to sign, my own be say I don delete you from my existence, if you no gree bring the papers come, you go remain permanent married woman for her papa house while I continue to Obleee Obleee.



Seriously, I've promised myself that if I ever keep woman for house, I'll never cheat on her and I'll never forgive her if she cheats on me...


Pickim... Packam...
Senseful 👌
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Boyooosa(m): 8:15pm On Jul 28, 2025
Nope!
I pray for the strength of moving out of the scene, go to a pub, gulp a couple of alcoholic glasses, find a friendly girl or mature Osho and have a nice rest.... I prefer she has discharged before I come around tho

The following day, I decide
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Boyooosa(m): 8:16pm On Jul 28, 2025
Boyooosa:
Nope!
I pray for the strength of moving out of the scene, go to a pub, gulp a couple of alcoholic glasses, find a friendly girl or mature Osho and have a nice rest.... I prefer she has discharged before I come around tho

The following day, I decide
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by OdefaGirl(f): 8:19pm On Jul 28, 2025
kayyyy44:
But you know that a Man's reason for cheating is different from a woman's.
A man cheats because it's flex and the women know that is they will not bat an eye
But a woman cheats because she believes the man she is cheating with is better than you the husband. That is why a woman's cheating affair is painful and bruises a man's ego
Can you just imagine.... Very laughable indeed.
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by AutomatedMoney: 8:22pm On Jul 28, 2025
tanigororo:
Instead of the man to just ask for Tutorial from the co-husband how e dey go, get them cold water to drink, then tell her to call when they are done.
Life 🧬 no hard
This Your Response Na "Abito Shaker" ooo

O DI Gan!
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by membranus: 8:25pm On Jul 28, 2025
folake4u:
As a real man, you should go into the secret corner of your house and pray fervently that the evil spirit leaves her, thereafter watch "War Room" and make a covenant with God that your marriage will work.
Whaaaaaaaaaat?

You must be joking!
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Barcalee: 8:29pm On Jul 28, 2025
Try and take a picture of them and I'll walk as way
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Okhuadams(m): 8:39pm On Jul 28, 2025
ediko5:
Note: Settlement is never an option for any wife who can bring a man to your matrimonial home.
What about if it's the Man that brought a woman
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Okhuadams(m): 8:42pm On Jul 28, 2025
ediko5:
I heard a story how a man returned from a journey without informing his wife and met the wife with a man on their matrimonial bed. When he threatened to divorce and expose the wife, she immediately connived with her man friend to terminate the husband's life and they took his corpse to the road side so it will appear like a robbery.

There are similar cases like this which were never discovered and may never be known.

Any woman who can bring a man to your matrimonial bed can unalive you without thinking twice.

How to be safe when you find yourself in this scenario as a man:

1. Be calm: Don't over panic and don't raise your voice when you're in the same enclosed room with them. Make sure to stand at the door and don't move away from the door.

2. Don't Threaten to Expose or Divorce Her: Be calm and diplomatic. This isn't the time to threaten to lose hell fire.

3. Locate Any Available Weapon and Stand Close to it: If You're a real African man, you should have at least a machete in your house, stand close to your machete or gun in case of any wrong move but don't be the first to engage them in a fight while you're still alone in the house. If you can lay hold of your weapon, find your way out of the house immediately.

4. Raise Alarm for Witnesses: Raise alarm and inform few or trusted neighbours to come and witness it, you can then descend on them depending on the kind of environment you live or call the police to pick them up so she can explain what they were doing in your matrimonial bed.
Special adviser for men affairs and advocate . So tell us what a woman would do if the husband brings a woman. And don't mention is a men's world
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by highchief1: 8:45pm On Jul 28, 2025
ediko5:
I heard a story how a man returned from a journey without informing his wife and met the wife with a man on their matrimonial bed. When he threatened to divorce and expose the wife, she immediately connived with her man friend to terminate the husband's life and they took his corpse to the road side so it will appear like a robbery.

There are similar cases like this which were never discovered and may never be known.

Any woman who can bring a man to your matrimonial bed can unalive you without thinking twice.

How to be safe when you find yourself in this scenario as a man:

1. Be calm: Don't over panic and don't raise your voice when you're in the same enclosed room with them. Make sure to stand at the door and don't move away from the door.

2. Don't Threaten to Expose or Divorce Her: Be calm and diplomatic. This isn't the time to threaten to lose hell fire.

3. Locate Any Available Weapon and Stand Close to it: If You're a real African man, you should have at least a machete in your house, stand close to your machete or gun in case of any wrong move but don't be the first to engage them in a fight while you're still alone in the house. If you can lay hold of your weapon, find your way out of the house immediately.

4. Raise Alarm for Witnesses: Raise alarm and inform few or trusted neighbours to come and witness it, you can then descend on them depending on the kind of environment you live or call the police to pick them up so she can explain what they were doing in your matrimonial bed.
snap a pic so I can have evidence to show her family and the world,walk her out of my house with a big smile.i can’t hurt adults that chose to have fun.
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by pocohantas(f):
All these emotions and show of force over marriage _an institution you don't benefit from. You should be happy she destroyed it. Hit the streets and be a happy single man.
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Nnamdipapa(m): 8:54pm On Jul 28, 2025
paragon10:
A woman's cheating and man's cheating is not the same. A man will cheat on his wife without loving his wife less but women tend to have emotional connection with whoever she cheats with. For your wife to cheat on you she has lost all respect for you and should not be in your life anymore once you find out. Even if you didn't find out,she won't regard you anymore. She will start disrespecting you. Those are some subtle signs she has cheated on you. A cheating wife is an enemy. The man she cheats with can easily influence her to steal from you or kill you.
I respectfully disagree with your line of reasoning. Uou won say this if you are abroad because in Nigeria, women have limited rights. No difference between a man or woman cheating.
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by latiephwald: 9:19pm On Jul 28, 2025
You won't know what to do untill it happens. That is psychology
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Spiff20(m): 9:28pm On Jul 28, 2025
If you caught them without their notice, record the act first and alert them. Be talking while recording so they won't say it's AI. While recording use one hand to remove the house key then lock them inside and go call the police or neighbors. Do this is if you're a very brutal person. As for me, I'll record the act until they're done. When they're done I'll clap for them and leave. Then forward the video to her parents and tell them to expect their daughter soon.
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by ChilliPepper(f): 9:42pm On Jul 28, 2025
What if na your wife catch you for bed with another woman?
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by maasoap(m): 9:44pm On Jul 28, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
I am not the jealous type, I allow my wife overnight parties alone, I even asked my friend to take her and her friend to clubs. Life is too short and sweet to fight over kpekus.
Really? Sounds more like you are renting your wife out (pimping) or something in addition to the freedom you already gave her cheesy. That's cool
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Nnamdipapa(m): 9:45pm On Jul 28, 2025
maasoap:
Really? Sounds more like you are renting your wife out (pimping) or something in addition to the freedom you already gave her cheesy. That's cool
It was a different, She went on a vacation alone and I was back home. I am not insecure and have nothing to fear.
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Melonsmasher: 9:55pm On Jul 28, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
I am not interested in some of her activities and cannot stop her from enjoying herself. A lot of my own stuff I love doing, she has no Interest and I cannot force her.

Life should be very easy.
Trying hard to hide your 40 SIMP characters
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by valentineuwakwe(m): 9:57pm On Jul 28, 2025
Its hard as a man to bear but we will all go our separate ways if she brings any man to our house for the knacking spree.....
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by paragon10(m): 9:57pm On Jul 28, 2025
Melonsmasher:
Trying hard to hide your 40 SIMP characters
Omo,the guy matter dey shock me oooo
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by descartes400: 9:58pm On Jul 28, 2025
What would dexter Morgan do?
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by maasoap(m): 9:59pm On Jul 28, 2025
Mariangeles:
She should rather be alone than be with you.
You don't deserve her.
It's not her all along, it's you.
You're bland. Cold.

There's something you're lacking in your spirit...I can't find the right word. 🤔
Like, you've lost will.
Thank you. There are some things one would read and cringe. Look at what he's saying with pride
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by NAC1666: 10:57pm On Jul 28, 2025
ediko5:
I heard a story how a man returned from a journey without informing his wife and met the wife with a man on their matrimonial bed. When he threatened to divorce and expose the wife, she immediately connived with her man friend to terminate the husband's life and they took his corpse to the road side so it will appear like a robbery.

There are similar cases like this which were never discovered and may never be known.

Any woman who can bring a man to your matrimonial bed can unalive you without thinking twice.

How to be safe when you find yourself in this scenario as a man:

1. Be calm: Don't over panic and don't raise your voice when you're in the same enclosed room with them. Make sure to stand at the door and don't move away from the door.

2. Don't Threaten to Expose or Divorce Her: Be calm and diplomatic. This isn't the time to threaten to lose hell fire.

3. Locate Any Available Weapon and Stand Close to it: If You're a real African man, you should have at least a machete in your house, stand close to your machete or gun in case of any wrong move but don't be the first to engage them in a fight while you're still alone in the house. If you can lay hold of your weapon, find your way out of the house immediately.

4. Raise Alarm for Witnesses: Raise alarm and inform few or trusted neighbours to come and witness it, you can then descend on them depending on the kind of environment you live or call the police to pick them up so she can explain what they were doing in your matrimonial bed.
Nothing. I will just ask her about the performance
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jul 28, 2025
Okhuadams:
Special adviser for men affairs and advocate . So tell us what a woman would do if the husband brings a woman. And don't mention is a men's world
I can only talk about the women as a prophetic messenger to the men. If you need to know about what a lady should do if the reverse is the case, then ask Mariangeles, Samantha125,
Tightpussy2024, Rokiatt or Proserpina to write about that.
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by folake4u: 12:11am On Jul 29, 2025
membranus:
Whaaaaaaaaaat?

You must be joking!
Did you see me shining my teeth? 😂
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by 198800Mam(m): 12:18am On Jul 29, 2025
End of situationship called marriage
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by hush15: 12:27am On Jul 29, 2025
ediko5:
I heard a story how a man returned from a journey without informing his wife and met the wife with a man on their matrimonial bed. When he threatened to divorce and expose the wife, she immediately connived with her man friend to terminate the husband's life and they took his corpse to the road side so it will appear like a robbery.

There are similar cases like this which were never discovered and may never be known.

Any woman who can bring a man to your matrimonial bed can unalive you without thinking twice.

How to be safe when you find yourself in this scenario as a man:

1. Be calm: Don't over panic and don't raise your voice when you're in the same enclosed room with them. Make sure to stand at the door and don't move away from the door.

2. Don't Threaten to Expose or Divorce Her: Be calm and diplomatic. This isn't the time to threaten to lose hell fire.

3. Locate Any Available Weapon and Stand Close to it: If You're a real African man, you should have at least a machete in your house, stand close to your machete or gun in case of any wrong move but don't be the first to engage them in a fight while you're still alone in the house. If you can lay hold of your weapon, find your way out of the house immediately.

4. Raise Alarm for Witnesses: Raise alarm and inform few or trusted neighbours to come and witness it, you can then descend on them depending on the kind of environment you live or call the police to pick them up so she can explain what they were doing in your matrimonial bed.
Very easy, unmatrimonize the bed... but on serious note, I will be disappointed and I will move on. I can't kill myself because one woman cheated... her cheat, her loss...
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by saysoo: 12:30am On Jul 29, 2025
What about if kids are involved?
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by Nobody: 6:33am On Jul 29, 2025
highchief1:
snap a pic so I can have evidence to show her family and the world,walk her out of my house with a big smile.i can’t hurt adults that chose to have fun.
I don't think you guys read with understanding at all. I'm talking about your own safety here and how they can unalive you so you don't expose her
Re: What To Do If You Catch Your Wife With A Man In Your Matrimonial Bed by highchief1: 6:37am On Jul 29, 2025
ediko5:
I don't think you guys read with understanding at all. I'm talking about your own safety here and how they can unalive you so you don't expose her
I no really read am finish,they can’t kill me except them carry gun.
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