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Hmmm
It’s a dicey situation. I was in a similar situation in the past .
I got involved with a friend’s ex ( my guy actually broke up with the girl ).
The girl and I found each other in same environment and one thing led to the other .

I eventually broke up with the girl despite the girl showing me the greatest amount of love any lady had shown me in this life .
My head couldn’t just get past the fact that she was smashed by a friend multiple times . I also felt like a betrayer for going close to my friend’s ex

In hindsight, I now know I shouldn’t have had anything to do with the lady in the first place . It was a poisoned chalice

Well, I don’t know how it is with ladies sha but I’m willing to bet my SA node that your relationship with the guy is headed for the rocks.

You should know the friend of one's enemy, is also an enemy.

And,

The enemy of one's enemy is a friend.

Hmmm

This honestly hurts. You knew him through me I was the first person who cared about him in silence. I stepped aside when you showed interest, even though it pained me deeply. I didn’t fight, I didn’t complain, I let you take a chance with someone I once prayed would see me.

Now that things didn’t work out between you two, and me and him slowly found our way back into each other’s space suddenly I’m the villain? You read my private chats, judged me without a word, and turned others against me without even hearing my side. That cuts deeper than anything.

I’ve always been quiet about how I feel, but that doesn’t mean my emotions don’t matter. I never stole anyone. I just stopped hiding how I felt. If that makes me wrong, then maybe I’ve always been alone in this friendship.

Jeweltz:
But he likes me. That’s just it. She snatched him.

How did she snatch him when you were the one who gave her the dude’s number in the first place ?
No be so fine girl !

Did you try to find out why they stopped dating before trying to replace your friend.

When there's issues like this what friends do is to at least try reconcile both parties and not replace them.

Your friend has every reason to be angry at you but you also have every reason to move forward with the guy.

Why will you date her ex and expect her to talk to you

Forget whatever anyone says, it is about you and your happiness…..if she doesn’t want to talk to you please leave her alone.

OP. Maybe you want the guy to pump you till you meet his spec. He has stated who and what he wanted. He made advance on your friend and you still want to put head. This guy without doubt will forever cheat on you if he go on a relationship with you. You will just spray his bed to satisfaction. Your friend is right to have ignored you. How can one tell you wouldn't go after the guy if he had married your friend?
You actually broke the street code. Never date your friend's Ex.

Hmmm.

Lesson you learned from this is if you like anybody, no introduce am to your friend if you sef still single. Even if it’s the last person on earth and your friend go kpai if e no date am. E get why.

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

You must be very funny.
I also like big bumbum but my babe does not have that.
Don't ever make that a criteria of not pushing further.
Sensible men will choose peace over anything

So your friend got the big ass?

Let's here from your friend first

You did nothing wrong, its natural for friends to feel betrayed when this happens, if there is a chance take it. Its not like you were the reason for their breaking apart

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

Why will you go to the same guy as your friend, worse still after introducing them? You didnt know why they broke up. She could suspect you were clandestinely behind that and your mutual friends would believe that. There are guys everywhere. Dont share gbola with ur friend. It ruins everything.

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

lol

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

You cannot blame her. She's right to be angry. U gave her a guy and now u romantic with him Naaaaa even as a player... I won't encourage you. You have to apologise to her and admit you are wrong. You can't justify this. It's totally wrong. You may have a good hear and didn't mean to hurt her... but she has every right to ge pissed with you

brain54:
You know you didn't have a chance...

Because you didn't have big ass... big this and big that.

What makes you feel like you have a chance now? Your ass has grown bigger?

Or does I have anything to do with his going to Canada?

Your friend is right to keep away from you... chasing your friend's ex!

Egbon dey never dated

Jeweltz:
But he likes me. That’s just it. She snatched him.

There is nothing like she snatched him, he saw you before asking your friend out, I think you have watched a lot a movie, girl wake of front your slumber

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

I don't know why people get entitled to girl friend and big friend. No one owns a girl friend or a big friend whether together or broke up.

ediko5:
For the fact that a guy tells you he only likes women with big ass and the rest doesn't mean that he's gonna stick to that criteria when choosing someone for a relationship that may lead to marriage (If that's what they doing except just normal piping things). I'm also that kinda person, I like 'em big behind for piping but that doesn't mean that's my top criteria for a partner. (Besides big ass ladies too dey quick get health issues - talking from experience)

Jeweltz, shebi your friend said he's arrogant, then why she come dey para ? Make she park oneside make the guyman collect your own and if unalike unaself, carry go.

Meanwhile, did your love for him increased because of his travel/relocation to the western world?

She liked him from the start but he belittled her . Dont judge her.. that he travel self no mean. Na him come back text her and told her she's arrogant .. dont you code ?

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

Go and donate your puzzy to the guy when he visits Nigeria later this year

MrSly:
I don't know why people get entitled to girl friend and big friend. No one owns a girl friend or a big friend whether together or broke up.

Give this man a cold origin.

PS . Be like seun don commot 40 characters

Don’t take anybody advice life is too short do what makes you happy and if it eventually becomes a mistake own up to it

What ever you do as a man just make money, that guy is loaded.

brain54:
You know you didn't have a chance...

Because you didn't have big ass... big this and big that.

What makes you feel like you have a chance now? Your ass has grown bigger?

Or does I have anything to do with his going to Canada?

Your friend is right to keep away from you... chasing your friend's ex!

Maybe she dun do BBL. The is is top notch betrayal, anything EX that belongs to your present friends is a NO! To both boys and girls..