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This thought has always being on my mind for many years now.
I have interacted with a few married women who are already mothers and they opened up to me that their husbands have Never made them to climax or reach orgasms. At the time, I didn't believe it. In my small and juvenile mind, I used to that for a woman to conceive, she needed to reach that climax and zenith of Sex. It felt weird to me. But overtime, I realized they were actually correct.

Till date, I'm yet to understand the biological makeup of a woman. I only know that a woman gets wet. I don't know how they cum. Do they cum externally or internally?. I had sex with one of my girlfriends some years ago, and before a few thrusts here and there, I had seen some foamy whitish fluid all over my Dick. I was so happy. I felt like a real man and able to satisfy her. I don't know if that was her cum.
So, right now, I'm thinking, what if a man needed to make a woman reach orgasms before she can get pregnant. That means that our population wouldn't have been this high and explosive. 9 out of every 10 married women complain that their husbands can't satisfy them in bed. Women are sexually insatiable and it takes a lot of effort to satisfy their sexual needs. This is why some women cheat in their marriages because as soon as they come across any man who can satisfy them, they never leave. They hold on to such men. If a woman had an ex boyfriend who was satisfy her only sexually and same woman got married to a different man who can't satisfy her, there's a very high possibility that she would have extramarital affairs. It's even worse if they reside in same town.

We wouldn't have been up to 100 people in Nigeria because majority of women are yet to experience orgasm. The case is even worse when the woman is Circumcised. Women who are circumcised never enjoy sex.

God is indeed wonderful.

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Climax for woman dey they
Men no get d patience for a woman to climax

Wetin concern man,in and out. End of play

Make I dey read comments in this interesting topics

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Why's the OP using a female moniker?

Anyways, the true question should be, "How many women/ladies even know what orgasm is?"

Many Nigerian females, including married and randy single ones, have never experienced orgasms. Some females may read about it, or accidentally come across it in those bad French novels, Mills & Boon fiction, etc.

But only a handful have truly experienced it. I know, because I'm a writer, and have done lots of research, online and offline, about this matter.

E too long.

What I have discovered is that once a woman, who has never experienced orgasms before, gets handled by a man that gave her that heavenly experience, she will never let go.


....unless the man is toxic in other ways...or is dead.


It is well...

olaleke1:
Why's the OP using a female moniker?

Anyways, the true question should be, "How many women/ladies even know what orgasm is?"

Many Nigerian females, including married and randy single ones, have never experienced orgasms. Some females may read about it, or accidentally come across it in those bad French novels, Mills & Boon fiction, etc.

But only a handful have truly experienced it. I know, because I'm a writer, and have done lots of research, online and offline, about this matter.

E too long.

What I have discovered is that once a woman, who has never experienced orgasms before, gets handled by a man that gave her that heavenly experience, she will never let go.


....unless the man is toxic in other ways...or is dead.


It is well...

Orgasm no be beans o. If u be woman and u see man wey give u Orgasm, u go gree leave am?
Ok make OP change I'm gender to male 😄😄

It's very easy to make a woman experience orgasm. Very easy.

The truth is many women are not attracted to the men they marry. Most women do not end up marrying the person they want.
Making a woman cum during sex is the easiest thing to do if she wants you to make her climax. But if she doesn't want it, you would just die trying.

MufasaLion:
It's very easy to make a woman experience orgasm. Very easy.

Lol.
One minute man don drop quote

Leep:
Orgasm no be beans o. If u be woman and u see man wey give u Orgasm, u go gree leave am?
Ok make OP change I'm gender to male 😄😄

You can say that again, my brother...


No be beans at all oh...


Na me know wetin my eye see...

It is well...

Climax when you feel that you're doing the man a favor by fuckin him.

Climax from a boring sexual activity from the female.

Climax, but they never seduce their husbands.

Climax, but you always complain you're tired

Climax, but when it comes to sex, you let the man beg as if he's begging for his life.

If you have those horrible attitude (+more I didn't list), climax go far from you o. Sex is meant to be enjoyed, not looking like you're doing the opposite a favor.

Babamide:
The truth is many women are not attracted to the men they marry. Most women do not end up marrying the person they want.
Making a woman cum during sex is the easiest thing to do if she wants you to make her climax. But if she doesn't want it, you would just die trying.

It's like you're not getting it. Some women don't even know that females can also achieve orgasms just like their male partners.

It's also harder for women who have been circumcised...whose clit*ris has been removed completely. You go work tire to bring such women to orgasm...unless you know what you're doing.

One thing I noticed is that most guys are selfish lovers. Note, I stated "most" guys, not all guys. Selfish lovers are all about reaching their own climax and don't bother about their female partners, who may - or may not - even know they can also climax.

This trend is even heightened in the majority of porn videos out there. The focus is nearly always on the guys and how to make the guys cum.

You can confirm this.

It is well oh...

olaleke1:
It's like you're not getting it. Some women don't even know that females can also achieve orgasms just like their male partners.

It's also harder for women who have been circumcised...whose clit*ris has been removed completely. You go work tire to bring such women to orgasm...unless you know what you're doing.

One thing I noticed is that most guys are selfish lovers. Note, I stated "most" guys, not all guys. Selfish lovers are all about reaching their own climax and don't bother about their female partners, who may - or may not - even know they can also climax.

This trend is even heightened in the majority of porn videos out there. The focus is nearly always on the guys and how to make the guys cum.

You can confirm this.

It is well oh...

Your orgasm is completely your business.
As a man, you know how you achieve your orgasm and how to slow it down. Most women know their rhythm too. What I am trying to say is, if a woman wants you to make her cum, the process is pretty simple. You don't have to be roaming around like a blind puppy. If a woman doesn't know her rhythm, all that is necessary is communication and 2 or 3 tries.

To make it even more difficult, she must teach orgasm when on her ovulation in order for her to get pregnant.

Leep:
➜This thought has always being on my mind for many years now.
I have interacted with a few married women who are already mothers and they opened up to me that their husbands have Never made them to climax or reach orgasms. At the time, I didn't believe it. In my small and juvenile mind, I used to that for a woman to conceive, she needed to reach that climax and zenith of Sex. It felt weird to me. But overtime, I realized they were actually correct.
Till date, I'm yet to understand the biological makeup of a woman. I only know that a woman gets wet. I don't know how they cum. ...

You can easily pick up a book or two to learn this for yourself. There are numerous biology books out there filled with the information you seek. Why hold on to ignorance instead?

marlow1962:
Climax when you feel that you're doing the man a favor by fuckin him.

Climax from a boring sexual activity from the female.

Climax, but they never seduce they husbands.

Climax, but you always complain you're tired

Climax, but when it comes to sex, you let the man beg as if he's begging for his life.

If you have those horrible attitude (+more I didn't list), climax go far from you o. Sex is meant to be enjoyed, not looking like you're doing the opposite a favor.

You said it all.

You want go dey pass camel through the eye of the needle...?

olaleke1:
You can say that again, my brother...


No be beans at all oh...


Na me know wetin my eye see...

It is well...

E be like say u wan kpai urself untop opueh

Like I will always say any woman can make a man cum but not every man can make a woman cum. 🤷🏼‍♂️🤔👌

olaleke1:
Why's the OP using a female moniker?

Anyways, the true question should be, "How many women/ladies even know what orgasm is?"

Many Nigerian females, including married and randy single ones, have never experienced orgasms. Some females may read about it, or accidentally come across it in those bad French novels, Mills & Boon fiction, etc.

But only a handful have truly experienced it. I know, because I'm a writer, and have done lots of research, online and offline, about this matter.

E too long.

What I have discovered is that once a woman, who has never experienced orgasms before, gets handled by a man that gave her that heavenly experience, she will never let go.


....unless the man is toxic in other ways...or is dead.


It is well...

hmmmm women matter everytime well, thank God some of you have sisters or Even wife.

The first problem here is listening to what women claim. The only women who will tell a man the truth are his mother, sister, cousin (maybe), aunties, daughter and niece. His wife surely will not. You had sex and found it easy to make a woman cum despite the many stories stating otherwise. Who now is telling lies?

SenecaTheYonger:
To make it even more difficult, she must teach orgasm when on her ovulation in order for her to get pregnant.

Are you for real..she must climax before she gets pregnant..wow wow.