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Most of the time, you must have heard women say, “all men are the same”. But I tell you, the phrase should be reversed to all women are the same.
When a man talks about women in general, most women will attack him by saying, “including your sisters and mother”. Well, the truth is, there is no exception when it comes to female characters.

Just as a girl will give you special attention when she knows that you have money or something of value that she could get, so it is for female family relatives in whatever form they are related to the man. Just that, unlike a random girl out there, the family female members are a little more patient until a time when they will no longer be patient, especially if it is taking too long for you to give them the value they expect.

An example of the herd mentality common among women is in the choice of men that they want. When you ask a woman the kind of man that she want’s, 99% of them will say a man that is tall, dark, and handsome. This sounds so rhythmic. The question is, are men who do not fall into this category not getting women? They are. And no, not all of them get the girls because the girls did not get the type of man they desire; those men are genuinely attracted to those ladies, but online, they will say something different.

In the world of men, the game is different. Some men will beat their chest and tell you that they don’t like chubby girls, do not care about ass and boobs, and will maintain their choice and preference in women, no matter what other guys want or say.

Here are other areas where women exhibit the herd mentality.

Trending fashion and beauty standards.
Many ladies tend to wear the same things that the other ladies are wearing. There is this colored skirt that my ex-girlfriend wears to my house, and whenever I see some girls wearing that skirt on the street, I will just laugh. Now, that is the problem with buying trendy clothes. It will reign and fade. When you wear it later than the trending period, it will look funny on you.

Wedding and Relationship Goals
You see that girl you are dating? Forget whatever good girl and understanding girl that she is showing you. Low key, she wants to be proposed to in the most romantic way, have the most talked about wedding in town, and take the most exotic photoshoot, all just to post online and feel among. To them, your proposal is not valid unless done like the ones they see on Instagram and TikTok.

Soft Life Movement
You know the saying that if wishes were horses, beggars might ride? That’s women! If you know the mentality of an average girl, you will marvel. Many will go online and watch videos of women and what their men did for them. And when they are not lucky enough to get a man with the financial capacity to give them that baby girl treatment, they feel like the gods have cursed them.

Celebrity Influence
Just as women go to church the most, and worship pastors like their God, so are their herd following of celebrities and their trends. A large number of women quickly make adjustments to their preferences and choices because of a celebrity endorsement. Even if a girl is using a product that she is very comfortable with, the urge to try something because someone they know or a public figure claims to be using that product is very high.

Massive Support for Victim Narratives
I do fight my sisters because of this. Whenever a man is accused of any wrongdoing by a woman, a large group of women will immediately take side in solidarity, even before the fact is established. Their default position is to always support women online, even when deep down, they do not believe in what they are saying, but they don’t want to sound different from what every other woman is saying online.

Friend Group Mentality in Dating
If you have been close to women enough, you will agree with me that the saying that the friend of my enemy is my enemy. Once you are dealing with a group of girls, just remain in the good books of all. Because once one of them dislikes you, all of them will dislike you. This is why ladies are advised to avoid keeping so many female friends once they are married. A woman can avoid dating a man or continue dating him, just to align with what her friends think is acceptable. Her friends’ standard is mostly her standard.

Gender War Argument.
This one is the funniest of them all. Anytime there is a discussion online that involves men versus women, certain phrases are repeated across all platforms, even by women who may not personally believe in them. Such phrases as “men are intimidated by successful women”, “high-value men do XYZ”, “men are scum”, etc. The question is, if all women share this belief about men, how come they are all still hooked with men in real life?

In the end, herd mentality among female circles often trades personal judgment for group loyalty. While solidarity has its place, following the crowd blindly can blur the line between support and bias. Real strength lies in thinking independently, even when it’s unpopular.

Source: https://web.facebook.com/share/p/1CRNyxA8Pc/

The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar corroborates this claim.

Absolutely truth, Woman can never be contented,they will always look for better one,have zero my mind on Woman matter, there behavior can't surprise me again

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Some women...

Double0h7:
Women are beautiful, fascinating, mystical, strong, smart and powerful. We’re worth all this attention! In fact you’ll should open a university to study us! Who runs the world… 💅🫦🎶🎵🎼💃💃💃

Double0h7:
Women are beautiful, fascinating, mystical, strong, smart and powerful. We’re worth all this attention! In fact you’ll should open a university to study us! Who runs the world… 💅🫦🎶🎵🎼💃💃💃

yes yes

Shame to the men! What is in a woman that you should devout hours of study to her?
Tell me....

KnowledgePower7:
I don't take a Woman's words serious. Even my mom
I see thier words as a snapshot of how they feel at the current moment.

They don'treally mean what they say

One of comrade that knows women

Double0h7:
Women are beautiful, fascinating, mystical, strong, smart and powerful. We’re worth all this attention! In fact you’ll should open a university to study us! Who runs the world… 💅🫦🎶🎵🎼💃💃💃

You run the world?

Howmany women are among technology inventors?

Howmany women are among top richest in the world?

Howmany women are president world wide?