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Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Toks2008(m): 10:06am On Jul 11, 2020
Whilst it is very sacrosanct for a guy to avoid stinginess towards a lady he deeply desires, I strongly believe that It is perfectly normal for any lady to want to be with a guy who can provide but not for her needs but for his family and until she becomes part of his family she has no right whatsoever to make demands except what the guy chooses to give to her.

Many ladies are quick to say... "I can't be with a man who can not take care of me, I can't suffer from any man''... and I tend to ponder over this statement...'' does it mean their ability to make wealth is dependent on a man or are they destined to suffer without a man fending for them?''...

In My opinion, the entitlement mentality is an easy bondage every woman must avoid at all costs. It breeds redundancy and loss of self-worth... It makes them look like leech only in search of a host to feed on. .. gives them a deluded self-belief and inflated sense of importance and in most cases makes them easy prey for sexual predators and men with Satanic motives.

I want ladies reading this to understand this homemade truth... YOU don't need any "well to do" man in your life before you can survive or make wealth regardless of your background, ... It is a silly mindset. You can make insane wealth all by yourself and this should be the paramount focus so that meeting a man ''who can take care of you'' will only be a plus and not a hustle...

Hope this makes sense.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by geez18(m): 10:10am On Jul 11, 2020
word! if only they'll listen.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 10:32am On Jul 11, 2020
Well written. I can't fault ladies for preferring to settle down with a wealthy man or a man with the potential to be successful in life.

Now, ladies are innately wired to seek out mates with the ability to provide for 'her' and 'her' future offsprings. It is a natural phenomenon and every lady is guilty of this. No matter how hard some ladies try to deny this fact or sugar coat it.

The fact still remains this - Women want to be taken care of financially, materially e.t.c.

As a young man, it would be quite smart on your part to choose the best lady out of the lot when you decide to settle down without lowering your standards. Go for the best. Never settle for less. Humans are innately self-centered, regardless of the sex. Every Human.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Toks2008(m): 10:34am On Jul 11, 2020
NockMedia:
Well written. I can't fault ladies for preferring to settle down with a wealthy man or a man with the potential to be successful in life.

Now, ladies are innately wired to seek out mates with the ability to provide for 'her' and 'her' future offsprings. It is a natural phenomenon and every lady is guilty of this. No matter how hard some ladies try to deny this fact or sugar coat it.

The fact still remains this - Women want to be taken care of financially, materially e.t.c.

As a young man, it would be quite smart on your part to choose the best lady out of the lot when you decide to settle down without lowering your standards. Go for the best. Never settle for less. Humans are innately self-centered, regardless of the sex. Every Human.

A lady must first strive to achieve financial independence before any other thing and not make searching for a man to take care of her the priority...That is the point.

And note that a lady having that innate desire to be with a man that can take care of her is way different from a lady with an entitlement mentality...the former will not make demands but will support the man to reach his goals whilst the latter will outrightly make demands cos she strongly believes she is entitled.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ashewoboy(m): 10:45am On Jul 11, 2020
awon feminist will not like thischeesy.


awon alpha males will like thischeesy.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 10:50am On Jul 11, 2020
Toks2008:


A lady must first strive to achieve financial independence before any other thing and not make searching for a man to take care of her the priority...That is the point.

And note that a lady having that innate desire to be with a man that can take care of her is way different from a lady with an entitlement mentality...the former will not make demands but will support the man to reach his goals whilst the latter will outrightly make demands cos she strongly believes she is entitled.
Well said. Cheers!

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jul 11, 2020
I think it has become more of a cultural thing than the real entitlement itself. Upbringing, society and culture adds to this as well.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Toks2008(m): 7:06pm On Jul 11, 2020
rockstarB:
I think it has become more of a cultural thing than the real entitlement itself. Upbringing, society and culture adds to this as well.

Seconded.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Toks2008(m): 7:44pm On Jul 11, 2020
ashewoboy:
awon feminist will not like thischeesy.


awon alpha males will like thischeesy.

Do feminists depend on men? I don't think so.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Ejenavi18(f): 8:11pm On Jul 11, 2020
But Toks2008 you nor dey tire for ladies matter? Everyday, ladies this and ladies that..
Anyways, you made sense with your write up. I agree with you 100%

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Toks2008(m): 8:53pm On Jul 11, 2020
Ejenavi18:
But Toks2008 you nor dey tire for ladies matter?
Everyday, ladies this and ladies that..

Anyways, you made sense with your write up. I agree with you 100%

I no dey tire o. I dey enjoy am. It is my trademark to write about the ladies and it is geared towards making them wiser and better.
See, it is very sad that we live in a wicked and uncaring world of men where ladies have become endangered in many ways. Men can get away with almost anything when it comes to romance but it is not the same with women even when many want to live in self-denial.

This is why I chose to focus on the female gender so that they will be well informed...it is now left for those who are wise to learn.

Even lalasticlala know sey i dey make sense.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jul 11, 2020
If you write it from now till December it won't change anything to them that entitlement mentally has filled their mind and eaten up their brain

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Jul 11, 2020
Toks2008:


I no dey tire o. I dey enjoy am. It is my trademark to write about the ladies and it is geared towards making them wiser and better.

Even lalasticlala know sey i dey make sense.
Even some will tell you they don't want to marry someone that is broke I agree with them but what if they end up marrying a poor man how will they cope,, and have promised myself if I make that fûcking money I won't go for a broke girl even the girl I'll date must have a car

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:35am On Jul 12, 2020
rockstarB:
I think it has become more of a cultural thing than the real entitlement itself. Upbringing, society and culture adds to this as well.


Absolutely
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Mandela27: 7:09am On Jul 12, 2020
No be who fall mugu go accept that nonsense drama

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Ikennamurphy: 8:08am On Jul 12, 2020
You made sense.. I hope they listen

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Toks2008(m): 9:22pm On Jul 16, 2020
Toks2008:
I strongly believe that It is perfectly normal for any lady to want to be with a guy who can provide but not for her needs but for his family and until she becomes part of his family she has no right whatsoever to make demands except what the guy chooses to give to her.

Many ladies are quick to say... "I can't be with a man who can not take care of me, I can't suffer with any man''... and I tend to ponder over this statement...'' does it mean their ability to make wealth is dependent on a man or are they destined to suffer without a man fending for them?''...

In My opinion, the entitlement mentality is an easy bondage every woman must avoid at all costs. It breeds redundancy and loss of self-worth... It makes them look like leech only in search of a host to feed on. .. gives them a deluded self-belief and inflated sense of importance and in most cases makes them easy prey for sexual predators and men with Satanic motives.

I want ladies reading this to understand this homemade truth... YOU don't need any "well to do" man in your life before you can survive or make wealth regardless of your background, ... It is a silly mindset. You can make insane wealth all by yourself and this should be the paramount focus so that meeting a man ''who can take care of you'' will only be a plus and not a hustle...

Hope this makes sense.
Oya guys food don land.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Toks2008(m): 1:13pm On Jul 18, 2020
Lalasticlala Biko help me shift this to the front page to balance up the previous thread. Nairaland guys have practically baked me.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by bolaayenimo: 8:52pm On Jul 18, 2020
All ladies have entitlement mentality

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Slawormir: 8:53pm On Jul 18, 2020
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Op is a real niggarrr

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by OkoAmarashy: 8:53pm On Jul 18, 2020
That is how the OP has been avoiding ladies since. He's now almost 45 years old and he can't even manage to get a lady.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Pharraooh76(m): 8:54pm On Jul 18, 2020
Dem no dey telli person

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by paulolee(m): 8:54pm On Jul 18, 2020
good and pls loud it because we are tired of talking this same matter but the girls wont learn...
women should stop that entitlement mentality because its makes no sense atall...
a rich man can easily meet a broke woman, get married to her and change her life but a rich woman wont even look at a broke Mans way...

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by loadedvibes: 8:55pm On Jul 18, 2020
First the title got me.. now let me read the content.


Okay after reading I Iike to say the title is even more interesting than the article itself. The article is not robust atall.. I was expecting to see how to spot a lady with the entitlement mentality even how a lady will detect she is now been too entitled.


Also I like to state here that Ladies by default are entitled species men love it that way. A lady that's too independent creates a competition for the male folk and such are not so desirable to the male folks. As you cant be competing with your partner creates an unrest you leave your work place to your work place (supposed home) too much stress. Men don't like stress.

I know some lady will come here and say one spoil but I'll to tell you that.. men have fragile egos and believe it or not if you go and create unimaginable wealth without creating room for the man to come in and feel like a man in your life. You would just be alone you might get some gold digging men here and there but you still will be essentially alone.

Last last I would say as a lady be entitled but don't be too entitled.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by chukwuibuipob: 8:55pm On Jul 18, 2020
sad Gone are those days Wen u see a wife that believe, struggle with their husband for their betterment.Not so with nowadays girls.Even b4 u toast dem,u go hear something like wic work u do for a living/how much u earn.If a girl can't struggle with u,Free her.Let her stay in her papa house

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by PureGoldh(m): 8:55pm On Jul 18, 2020
Louder biko...No matter what you do...You can NEVER please a woman...
even my mom can attest to that.

Anyways,there is a man for every woman and there is a man for every man.

Just be careful make you no go carry another person's own cos na heartache you go buy go house

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Aflix(m): 8:56pm On Jul 18, 2020
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by SweetCunt97(f): 8:56pm On Jul 18, 2020
Do not offend me! That one is valid naw, abi I come make one guy dey offend me anyhow?


Men should drop this their entitlement to pvssy too. I know una argument go be say na the woman enjoy pass but then must you all be focused on the coochie?

You'll hear stupid talk about sex showing love.. Bullshiit

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