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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Kobojunkie: 5:30pm On Aug 06, 2025

Babangidapikin:
➜I don't think it was the money she spent that is hurting her, but the deciet, saying she's not in his level,
➜ thank God for GoodLuck Jonathan.. Aunty Patience Luck elevated him ... If he was looking at the Agberosim altitude compare to his Gentility he would have port too.

What in the world are you on? She is obviously not on his level. How is that deceit? undecided

2. What in the world does any of this have to do with anything? Is the OP's life exactly like the lives of those you compare to them abi wetin? huh

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Babangidapikin: 5:31pm On Aug 06, 2025

Kobojunkie:
What in the world are you on? She is obviously not on his level. How is that deceit?

2. What in the world does any of this have to do with anything?

Hmmm so you think she can't use her money for herself ba ..okay ask the man to refund if you think it's all about money .

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Kobojunkie: 5:31pm On Aug 06, 2025

MaziObinnaokija:
there's karma,law of SEED/HARVEST TIME.She should take heart. Beta man is coming

That one na poor man fable you dey talk there. undecided

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Dancebreaker: 5:32pm On Aug 06, 2025

Kobojunkie:
Men complain when it happens to them, so she is within her right to also complain.

Sure, she can complain up to White House, but no pity here. Since women say it's fine for women to do it to men.

The Great Achebe wrote " Aneke the bird said since men began to shoot without missing, it has learnt to fly without perching."

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Kobojunkie: 5:33pm On Aug 06, 2025

Babangidapikin:
➜Hmmm so you think she can't use her money for herself ba ..
➜ okay ask the man to refund if you think it's all about money .

What in the world are you going on about now? She confessed to using her money to level up another human being—her boyfriend—, not herself. And after leveling up, the man turned around and told her she was not on his level. How in the world is that deceit? undecided

2. Huh?

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Meerahbel: 5:34pm On Aug 06, 2025

Be kind, be generous — but be wise."

Love can be a beautiful thing, and it's natural to want to support someone you care about — even to the point of paying their school fees or helping them build their future. But here’s the truth: you shouldn’t train anyone in school or take on huge financial burdens for someone who isn’t your spouse, especially when there’s no clear, mutual commitment.

Many people have given their heart and resources to someone they believed in, only to be left hurt, used, or forgotten once that person found their feet. It’s painful, and unfortunately, it's common.

This doesn’t mean don’t help at all. It just means:
- Know the difference between supporting and sponsoring someone’s entire life.
- Don't let emotions cloud your judgment.
- Ask yourself: Would I still do this if the relationship didn’t work out tomorrow?
- Always put yourself in a position where, if things fall apart, you won’t be left empty — emotionally, mentally, or financially.

Love wisely. Give with sense. Build yourself too.
Because in the end, the right partner will grow with you, not drain you.

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Babangidapikin: 5:35pm On Aug 06, 2025

Kobojunkie:
What in the world are you going on about now? She confessed to using her money to level up another human being—her boyfriend—, not herself. And after leveling up, the man turned around and told her she was not on his level. How in the world is that deceit?

2. Huh?

You don't want to kiss the truth, you know fully well the man who have promise heaven and earth .

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by xtianchris(m): 5:37pm On Aug 06, 2025

Therock5555:
Men 1- Women -308362725

But seriously if she swear for the guy e fit catch am...

But on the other hand she admitted that she was warned many times but she had to learn the hard way in VDM's voice.

See as she squeeze face sef, the matter still dey pain her no be small...

Naturally women do not mind spending on guys they adore wholeheartedly, but when they realized that the guy was only using them as a pay day and cum pocket, it hurts..

That shit hurts!!!

Shit hurt bro.. Goes same for both Genders....

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by seunoyeleyep(f): 5:42pm On Aug 06, 2025

I can only say the guy is foolish. Any lady who spends her money on you is worth marrying. Quote me anywhere.

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by sprints1: 5:47pm On Aug 06, 2025

Life is like a food web you lose guard you get pounced on that is how the ecosystem works. I feel no sympathy for the girl, she was just a helper and the guy is grateful for her assistance, the guy caught a good fish with better upstairs and might be richer and she has a more secured future. The guy is not wicked, it is just how life is, unfair, brutal and life f*cking goes on

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by amazonguru001: 5:49pm On Aug 06, 2025

Omoboricash:
They were dating, the lady is helping out for the fact that the guy woe her not for humanitarian services.
The karma is waiting for the guy.

Absolutely.

Same thing happened to a lady living around me.

She jilted the guy that sponsored her hair dressing training, got her a shop & equipped the shop.

She got married to someone she said was more responsible.

The guy went to the shop ans started laying curse on her using the sand of the shop.

By the time Karma came calling.
The lady a once beautify lady, started drying up till she eventually died.

Chaiiiiiiiiii

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Kobojunkie: 5:49pm On Aug 06, 2025

Babangidapikin:
➜You don't want to kiss the truth, you know fully well the man who have promise heaven and earth .

You are not making any sense! What does it matter if he promised heaven and earth? huh

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Ayostephen1(m): 5:50pm On Aug 06, 2025

If the lady didn't love the guy she won't sponsor him now the guy disappointed her, lady just wait you will cry for the guy when his sin pay him back ,

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Kobojunkie: 5:51pm On Aug 06, 2025

seunoyeleyep:
➜I can only say the guy is foolish. Any lady who spends her money on you is worth marrying. Quote me anywhere.

You seem like you have not invested much time into studying life and human beings. undecided

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Jaapu: 6:00pm On Aug 06, 2025

Nobody is even talking about the free knacking every weekend. All down the drain. Life is sweet for the wicked sha.

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by donbenie(m): 6:02pm On Aug 06, 2025

Omoboricash:
They were dating, the lady is helping out for the fact that the guy woe her not for humanitarian services.
The karma is waiting for the guy.

How many of them Karma done catch all the women using the same strategy?
Abi na for men body it dey get strength?

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Nobody: 6:17pm On Aug 06, 2025

luminouz:
Are you ok?

Win in court as how?

Even if you want to correct me, do you need to be rude?

If you don’t know about such privilege in court of law, just research about it.

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Nobody: 6:17pm On Aug 06, 2025

Kobojunkie:
Well, she probably didn't surround herself with friends who could give her such advice.

Exactly.

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Lezzlie(m): 6:19pm On Aug 06, 2025*

labake1:
But why is this not everywhere?
If it's a lady that dumps a man that sponsored her education, here for full of misogynist

The irony.

These things happen for various reasons. The dude wants a submissive and obedient woman not the one who took up the responsibility of a man!

For real men don't actually care about the education or financial powers of their female partner, they care much about loyalty, exclusivity amd obedience.

A woman who saw her partner through school will havei little or no respect for that man.

In reverse if a man sponsors an illiterate female to higher institution, she will see the bigger world and thinks she can do better than her partner and jump ship as is in the nature of the average female.

Tough reality.

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by Celewayne: 6:19pm On Aug 06, 2025

This has always happened the other way around. I think I am glad to see it happen this way this time

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by SAMBARRY: 6:27pm On Aug 06, 2025

Kobojunkie:
She is not a good person, but a gullible individual who thought she could buy the love of her boyfriend by paying his fees and all.

lol she is what we call Barbara the builder. Another pickmesha and I do not feel bad for her because pickmesha no dey ever hear word until they collect hot breakfast

If you are a woman in nigeria of today witnessing all the things men do to women and witnessing what 2face did to annie and you're still a Barbara the builder then you deserve the breakfast

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by SAMBARRY: 6:30pm On Aug 06, 2025

Lezzlie:
The irony.

These things happen for favours reasons. The dude wants a submissive and obedient woman not the one who took up the responsibility of a man!

For real men don't actually care about the education or financial powers of their female partner, they care much about loyalty, exclusivity amd obedience.

A woman who saw her partner through school will havei little or no respect for that man.

I'm reverse if a man sponsors an illiterate female to higher institution, she will see the bigger world and thinks she can do better than her partner and jumb shop as is in the nature of the average female.

Tough reality.

another reason and another evidence straight out of a man why you must never be Barbara the builder

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by SAMBARRY: 6:33pm On Aug 06, 2025

amazonguru001:
Absolutely.

Same thing happened to a lady living around me.

She jilted the guy that sponsored her hair dressing training, got her a shop & equipped the shop.

She got married to someone she said was more responsible.

The guy went to the shop ans started laying curse on her using the sand of the shop.

By the time Karma came calling.
The lady a once beautify lady, started drying up till she eventually died.

Chaiiiiiiiiii

nice nollywood film

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by geoworldedu: 6:33pm On Aug 06, 2025

Node911:
If the lady have previous chats as evidence, she’ll win in court.

Bad behavior is bad behavior regardless the gender involve.

Win what in court? The guy didn't legally promise her marriage. There's no legal backup.

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by geoworldedu: 6:35pm On Aug 06, 2025

amazonguru001:
Absolutely.

Same thing happened to a lady living around me.

She jilted the guy that sponsored her hair dressing training, got her a shop & equipped the shop.

She got married to someone she said was more responsible.

The guy went to the shop ans started laying curse on her using the sand of the shop.

By the time Karma came calling.
The lady a once beautify lady, started drying up till she eventually died.

Chaiiiiiiiiii

Her death has nothing to do with the curse. Even Kumuyi's wife died drying up without being cursed. My adorable Dora Akunyili died same way without a curse. Anybody can die of cancer without a curse.

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by lexy2014: 6:35pm On Aug 06, 2025

Racoon:
Moral; Do your good deeds or works without expecting anything in return. God will bless you well for your alms doing. This is the kingdom principle of giving.

She did not give him cos she was expecting. She gave money to support his dreams cos of who he was to her

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Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by seunoyeleyep(f): 6:38pm On Aug 06, 2025

Kobojunkie:
You seem like you have not invested much time into studying life and human beings.

Maybe you can start lecturing me then. What do you think?

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by lagonovo: 6:40pm On Aug 06, 2025

Jaapu:
Nobody is even talking about the free knacking every weekend. All down the drain. Life is sweet for the wicked sha.

She enjoyed the nacking and decided to pay for it. That's how it should be cool

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by lagonovo: 6:43pm On Aug 06, 2025

lexy2014:
She did not give him cos she was expecting. She gave money to support his dreams cos of who he was to her

How do you know she was not expecting?

If she was not expecting then everything is fine. What is the problem?

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by lexy2014: 6:44pm On Aug 06, 2025

lagonovo:
How do you know she was not expecting?

If she was not expecting then everything is fine. What is the problem?

Which problem is that?

Re: Oshodi Lady Who Sponsored Boyfriend Through School Gets Dumped For Educated Woma by tunapawizzy: 7:06pm On Aug 06, 2025

labake1:
But why is this not everywhere?
If it's a lady that dumps a man that sponsored her education, here for full of misogynist

Go and call your fellow misadrist to come and fill up the thread then

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