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Nigerian man shares the advantage of not marrying into a poor family as he hangs out with his rich father-in-law.

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Nairaland mod let's take this to front page and I don't have 5 more characters

"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

is your husband or your father in law Rich

SpencerForbes:
Nairaland mod let's take this to front page and I don't have 5 more characters

Why front page? Are you the owner of the post?

No room for parasites but at the same time, no time to asslick anybody be it your rich papa or your mama.

Firebox123:
is your husband or your father in law Rich

Are you a child?

Mariangeles:
Are you a child?

I'll rather ignore you to avoid spambot wahala

labake1:
Why front page? Are you the owner of the post?

Yes. Any problem??

Nonsense

Rich
Poor
Big
Small
Tall
Short
No difference

Contentment is key

My friend married into a rich family. He constantly had to spend to maintain his wife’s standards. He is divorced and broke now

Na this type of men dey wash their wife pant for inside.
Come online dey claim Alpha male

Him fit dey kneel down like Chief priest. Just to greet his wife🤣🤣

You can still be the rich man... Riches no get specifications........

To date a both rich and poor has their own wahala, until she knock you for head

The risk and probability of divorce and separation when marrying into a rich home is higher than a person from a poor or average home.

Living with a rich spoilt child is not fun and is frustrating.

The guy is an Igbo and a typical Igbo will understand what he's talking about.

Same thing I was arguing with pocohantas in another thread

kolente:
The risk of divorce and separation when marrying into a rich home is divorce and separation from your partner.

Living with a rich spoilt child is not fun and a catch.

That's true. The man may be subject to abuse but won't be able to defend himself cos he's at the mercies of his in-laws

The conversation is always different.

Nothing like transfer of responsibilities as a father to your daughter inlaw

Nothing like tell your husband to help us renovate the family house

No crazy wedding list

If you still don’t meet up, you will be a slave to the family. You will have no say!

Their many instances of people who find themselves in that helpless position and remain a maid or house boy.

The point is working hard on yourself to be able to afford a top lady.

Forget what you see from outside, most men and ladies who fall into those circumstances are maids and houseboys.

kolente:
The risk of divorce and separation when marrying into a rich home is divorce and separation from your partner.

Living with a rich spoilt child is not fun and a catch.

You grammar is turning my stomach.

This is enough internet for today

Good night

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

The thing dey pain you? Ōbe do vwē ganga? ganga! ganga! E dey pain ni you, ganga. But why?

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

Not always the case. He may be doing really well for himself and only imagining what he'd be going through if he wasn't married into a financially stable family

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

All the things you mentioned are no big deal, neither are they too much sacrifice to pay for lifetime financial security.


If you know what men born into poor family go through to overcome poverty and financial lack, then you will see those things you wrote up there as a privilege.


Can you compare those things to carrying drug to cross Malaysian airport where it is boldly written that if you are caught you will be killed instantly? Can you compare it to swallowing pills of hard drug to board an 8 hours or 16 hours flight to a foreign land?


Can you compare it to staying awake looking for people's account to hack or sending unsolicited emails to people all around the world hoping to get a response? Can you compare it to being an internationally wanted internet scammer who lives a fearful and vigilant life all year round? Or is it equal to sitting in one shop from morning till night praying for a customer to come buy your goods? Or can you compare it to a boy turning himself to a girl or qay just so he can get men to rim him for some money?



Ebuka Obi can squander all the money he makes from hosting Big Brother today knowing fully well that whether he makes money or not, the future of his children are secured just because he married the daughter of a billionaire (owner of Young Shall Grow Motors)

Oh so now men are also gold diggers, good to know they aren't the only one wanting financial security in marriage.

I know say na SE family. In laws can truly stress the husband in Igbo land, no be small. The wife would want the husband to set up business for her brother, sponsor her younger siblings to school and open shop for her mum in the east, even when the man is "killing" himself with hustle. But if you are rich and have no problems supporting your in-laws, you will be highly respected and valued. Even you will also feel happy and fulfilled that you are doing all these for your wife. If you have the means, please do it. You are creating legacy for yourself

kolente:
The risk and probability of divorce and separation when marrying into a rich home is higher than a person from a poor or average home.

Living with a rich spoilt child is not fun and is frustrating.

All the prominent rich kids always end in quick divorce!

Enjoy your moment. Everyone no get the same DNA so enjoy what you have. Congratulations though 🎉

Congratulations 🎊

Not everyone has such opportunity, so we create such environment for our children and children children to not go through steps we've passed

That nomenclature Op quoted married a carribean woman, then decided to keep disgracing his lineage on X, insulting Nigerian females, his mother included, extreme nonentity of a person.

So many naija ladies from rich homes, they don't want those ones because of deflated ego and low self esteem, they'd rather simp lick the feet of a semi white woman and her family mainly because she isn't the colour of their skin,

Coonish clowns.