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Mazzatov:
Yes I know it is common among the Igbo circle, I have one as a Neigbor way back in 2012, he’s a bachelor when he first come to south west, he got married in 2017, all his wife families started living with him, he started funding all the wife sisters education not to mention the ones he can’t even talk about how he’s dining the family’s.

This isn't life abeg. Well, good luck to such men.

franchasng:
All the things you mentioned are no big deal, neither are they too much sacrifice to pay for lifetime financial security.


If you know what men born into poor family go through to overcome poverty and financial lack, then you will see those things you wrote up there as a privilege.


Can you compare those things to carrying drug to cross Malaysian airport where it is boldly written that if you are caught you will be killed instantly? Can you compare it to swallowing pills of hard drug to board an 8 hours or 16 hours flight to a foreign land?


Can you compare it to staying awake looking for people's account to hack or sending unsolicited emails to people all around the world hoping to get a response? Can you compare it to being an internationally wanted internet scammer who lives a fearful and vigilant life all year round? Or is it equal to sitting in one shop from morning till night praying for a customer to come buy your goods? Or can you compare it to a boy turning himself to a girl or qay just so he can get men to rim him for some money?



Ebuka Obi can squander all the money he makes from hosting Big Brother today knowing fully well that whether he makes money or not, the future of his children are secured just because he married the daughter of a billionaire (owner of Young Shall Grow Motors)

You sef

Why use crime as the only way to escape poverty?

A poor person doesn't have to do all these things you mentioned to escape poverty. It will be hard, thats true, but crime is harder and costlier.

This mindest is the reason lots of our girls are prostitutes, and guys doing all manner of evil just to have a feel of softlife, and in most cases, it consumes them in the end, and affect society.

I see northerners as humble people, They may be the poorest ethnic group living in Lagos, but you dont see them do all these thing you mentioned simply because they have this thing called contentment.

If person dey poor, make he no allow wetin he no fit afford dey hungry am. Contentment is a shield, and its his strength.

I love yacht, but I cannot afford it. Yacht no dey worry or hungry me as I dey like this. When time reach to buy yacht, I will buy if I can afford it.

This thing no hard.

VaginaAcademic:
e pain you no be small chai

If my family were poor, maybe it would've, but, fortunately, my whole family is thriving, so there.

Nevertheless, insulting struggling families should never be tolerated.

SpencerForbes:
Nigerian man shares the advantage of not marrying into a poor family as he hangs out with his rich father-in-law.

guy you don finish matter, Nigeria in-law with their entitlement mentality.

All of you saying he won't be respected, what made you guys think he's poor.

Silentgroper:
Eazii family get money oo .. but not like the otedola Sha

Yes na. I heard Easi sold one company that brought so much profit to him.. So it's best to find a well to do partner,than going for some that thinks marriage is poverty allivation scheme. Inlaws will be telling you to place them on salary

For one non virgin girl with many body counts o

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

you are very wise and sharp,are you single?

franchasng:
All the things you mentioned are no big deal, neither are they too much sacrifice to pay for lifetime financial security.


If you know what men born into poor family go through to overcome poverty and financial lack, then you will see those things you wrote up there as a privilege.


Can you compare those things to carrying drug to cross Malaysian airport where it is boldly written that if you are caught you will be killed instantly? Can you compare it to swallowing pills of hard drug to board an 8 hours or 16 hours flight to a foreign land?


Can you compare it to staying awake looking for people's account to hack or sending unsolicited emails to people all around the world hoping to get a response? Can you compare it to being an internationally wanted internet scammer who lives a fearful and vigilant life all year round? Or is it equal to sitting in one shop from morning till night praying for a customer to come buy your goods? Or can you compare it to a boy turning himself to a girl or qay just so he can get men to rim him for some money?



Ebuka Obi can squander all the money he makes from hosting Big Brother today knowing fully well that whether he makes money or not, the future of his children are secured just because he married the daughter of a billionaire (owner of Young Shall Grow Motors)

U are just a negative person, can't you hustle,must you do illegal stuff or have you not seen some one that was poor that became rich?

ednut1:
My friend married into a rich family. He constantly had to spend to maintain his wife’s standards. He is divorced and broke now

It really comes with some disadvantages years ago I also have a close friend that married into a very rich family we all envied him then until few years later this my guy start regretting it his wife is like a lion in his house she virtually controls almost everything.

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

But ladies are doing the and winning from it. Why are guys own now different? Janet Jackson did the same and cash out. Oga, rest. The dude has a point. Everyone is interested in his or her advantage in marriage. And you know what? The ladies are good at it than the guys.

franchasng:
All the things you mentioned are no big deal, neither are they too much sacrifice to pay for lifetime financial security.


If you know what men born into poor family go through to overcome poverty and financial lack, then you will see those things you wrote up there as a privilege.


Can you compare those things to carrying drug to cross Malaysian airport where it is boldly written that if you are caught you will be killed instantly? Can you compare it to swallowing pills of hard drug to board an 8 hours or 16 hours flight to a foreign land?


Can you compare it to staying awake looking for people's account to hack or sending unsolicited emails to people all around the world hoping to get a response? Can you compare it to being an internationally wanted internet scammer who lives a fearful and vigilant life all year round? Or is it equal to sitting in one shop from morning till night praying for a customer to come buy your goods? Or can you compare it to a boy turning himself to a girl or qay just so he can get men to rim him for some money?



Ebuka Obi can squander all the money he makes from hosting Big Brother today knowing fully well that whether he makes money or not, the future of his children are secured just because he married the daughter of a billionaire (owner of Young Shall Grow Motors)

Completely wrong mentality and defeatist mindset thousands and even millions of people have become extremely rich in life without engaging in drug trafficking or involving in any illegal activity those rich men you are targeting their daughters to marry have their own stories of rags to riches someone like cosmos maduka who is a confirmed multi billionaire started business with just #200 but still defiled all the odds to make it big in life the problem of this our genz generation is just impatience
and mental laziness.

pansophist:
You sef

Why use crime as the only way to escape poverty?

A poor person doesn't have to do all these things you mentioned to escape poverty. It will be hard, thats true, but crime is harder and costlier.

This mindest is the reason lots of our girls are prostitutes, and guys doing all manner of evil just to have a feel of softlife, and in most cases, it consumes them in the end, and affect society.

I see northerners as humble people, They may be the poorest ethnic group living in Lagos, but you dont see them do all these thing you mentioned simply because they have this thing called contentment.

If person dey poor, make he no allow wetin he no fit afford dey hungry am. Humility is a shield, and its his strength.

I love yacht, but I cannot afford it. Yacht no dey worry or hungry me as I dey like this. When time reach to buy yacht, I will buy if I can afford it.

This thing no hard.

They are some things that you no fit a afford but you can't control the hunger you have to acquire such thing.

Thing like Good car and a house or a better accomodations.

Some guys doing yahoo and other crimes are doing it to afford this two things I mentioned.

Is very hard to control the urge to have it.

Melezenawii:
Nonsense

Rich
Poor
Big
Small
Tall
Short
No difference

Contentment is key

how many doors e don open

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

He should marry into a family that will stress him, sap his money until he dies with his dignity at a young age isn't it Mr dignity? Una go carry dignity for head until pressure choke una, na once man dey kive for life ooo

ednut1:
My friend married into a rich family. He constantly had to spend to maintain his wife’s standards. He is divorced and broke now

Some people don't put their own precedence in life, how is he married to a rich family without support coming from his wife to the family? There are liabilities everywhere whether rich or poor, you better choose a poor lady who is an asset than a rich lady who is a liability but the best is a rich lady who is an asset. Most just choose without knowing that rich people can also be a financial liability to a man.

JovialJune:
Oh so now men are also gold diggers, good to know they aren't the only one wanting financial security in marriage.

Do you know what gold digging means? Avoiding parasites isn't gd digging, avoiding people who can make you broke when you are financially stable isn't gold digging. Hold digging is when a poor you wants to marry a rich man

Focusmind:
I know say na SE family. In laws can truly stress the husband in Igbo land, no be small. The wife would want the husband to set up business for his brother, sponsor her younger siblings to school and open shop for her mum in the east, even when the man is "killing" himself with hustle. But if you are rich and have no problems supporting your in-laws, you will be highly respected and valued. Even you will also feel happy and fulfilled that you are doing all these for your wife. If you have the means, please do it. You are creating legacy for yourself

Which legacy are talking about? Transfer of responsibility you mean? This is why most young men in the south east can't get married early because of this nonsense pressure from people who failed to take care of their own responsibility and then expect someone to do that for her.

whippersnapper:
The prayer is to date and marry a rich girl who spends money on you. Some rich girls ehn them no dey give shi Shi and you go spend. Them no dey ask for urgent 2k na urgent 500k

Anyone who dates an Almajiri who is rich is digging his own grave, i will wonder how will a human have money money and still be begging with pride without ever wanting ro share with her partner who also shares his own with her. Run from sich women

Owning a Chevrolet Chevelle is great but don't necessarily mean you are rich. That is the US. Homeboy should hustle because divorce is extremely popular there

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

Ass wey them lick no be your own, rich in-law no be your Papa, I see your envy in black prints.
I'm married to a rich in-law too, I don't Ass lick and I believe the guy doesn't too the highest ASS he can lick is that of the Wife.

I can relate, Imagine your brother and sister's (3 in number) In-laws visited you from the states after spending days with you, on returning to the states your in-law sent you a million bulks as a token for taking care of your in-laws, not you just sending him mandatory gifts with seris of further requests as most in-laws do, that was my experience.

Its one of the best feelings in the world. I wish you that so you can stop hating.

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

lol, if you no carry yourself well be it rich or poor in-laws you wont be respected.

haggai247:
For content YouTube blogging affiliate cpa kdp or any online business 99.9% get it wrong.

If you do it right 6 months you'll earn money.

there's a nairaLand here less than 6 months his YouTube channel has more than 50k sub.

The basic of online business is research.

Most people want to caught fish using chocolate chips and cheese instead of the old school worm.

They are producing content nobody but themselves want to read watch or even look at... that's why it takes them very long time to see results.

Singing too is the same write song that attract the most people call it sell out but it's the same premise.

Give people what they want and they'll give you what you want...very easy.

But what do people want to do they want to reinvest the wheel.

Pioneer come home full of arrows you don't want to be a pioneer follow what's working.

And you can't know what's working without research.

Not using chatgbt it's a fools tool in the hand of anyone not skill enough.

In blogging and seo it has helped people do more bad SEO that Google step up to clean the system.

The days of vanilla writing is over.

Your content must be magnetic it should attract your audience like light attract moths on a dark night.

It boils down to research.

Here's what Gary halbert said to Dan Kennedy as a student Dan if you want to get good like me do this.

Find 100 of the best sales letter and write them hand by hand.

Dan did it and guess what?

I'm telling anyone reading this too do it.

How many people do you think will do it?

For blogging I got good at this when someone here on nairaLand introduced me to Kyle roof.

Fun facts I actually sold the course to him because I've thousands of courses I sell.

Even had a website selling courses but I was not putting any of these to use until I meet this guy.

I'm telling you if you want to just publish content and make money find Kyle roof or all his SEO tests.

This guy is making a full of himself blogging is dead.
Well if you'd think it's dead good luck infact it's good for guys like us.

Let me not just rant please pay attention.

Google in it index has billions of pages for some keywords especially questions.

And here's a mistake most people make.

They try to write for that same keywords with billions of pages Google or YouTube already has.

Here's the smart way.

Why not find a keyword that has 50 results in Google SERPS that has search volumes.

My oga use to say the majority is always wrong.

Find people who will tell you from experiment not the majority who tell you their opinions.

Remember opinion is like a@sss everyone has it but facts based on experiments and experience is as rare as an ants teeth.

If you take my rant to heart maybe you might see things a little differently.

Hi good afternoon. Nice write up. Please do you still have the Kyle roof course? I’m looking for where to buy it

kolente:
The risk and probability of divorce and separation when marrying into a rich home is higher than a person from a poor or average home.

Living with a rich spoilt child is not fun and is frustrating.

Bump.