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Nnamdipapa:
You have to understand how dating works abroad, and you would realize it is easy to get what you want. You have to understand non-verbal communication and body languages a lot. The problem is most of our guys try to use Nigerian style of dating on foreign ladies and this makes them unattractive or always backfires. It is easy for me get babe abroad that in Nigeria and I would be lost in the Nigerian dating scheme.

Na so. Flying aeroplane in your head. You dey Nigeria dey tell how to do it there.

MrHandsome2013:
This is to advise all youths planing to japa to take a second thought on this matter.
I couldn’t do the when I travel for a year. I have to run back to naija
I no fit cope.
Home sweet home

So sex is a factor for you?

Nnamdipapa:
You have to understand how dating works abroad, and you would realize it is easy to get what you want. You have to understand non-verbal communication and body languages a lot. The problem is most of our guys try to use Nigerian style of dating on foreign ladies and this makes them unattractive or always backfires. It is easy for me get babe abroad that in Nigeria and I would be lost in the Nigerian dating scheme.

That's why I like U.K the made sure that prostitution doesn't thrive. Not a single prostitute in the U.K. 😁

Stilloracle:
Go to South Africa, U will get sex Easy, left right center. They will give U on platter of free gold

With a touch of HIV or STI.

GOFRONT:
Na to do Soapy na.

But what happened to Onlyfans app........Are there no girls to order from Onlyfans anymore??

Tinda fa??...........Dont they have a Redlight Zones like we have here in Lekki and Aminu Kano crescent of Abuja??

Patronising sex workers is expensive in the abroad, especially in more wealthier countries. Sex work is inversely linked to prosperity. The more prosperous a country is, the fewer its women venture into it and vice versa.

Don’t travel to Saudi Arabia if you have high drive. Travel to South Africa if you have high drive.

erad:
Non verbal communication and body language are the worst things you can bank on when dating outside the country. You're verbal sef, and they are still accusing men for rape.

Now imagine what happens when you jam that one werey, you'll tell the court you got consent from body language? No dey give this kine advice abeg, it has ended lots of men's careers.

😂😂😂

bdon123:
Toto is part of destiny.it dates back centuries

Wahala oo.

I think the OP is lady. Ladies don't easily have it abroad when it comes to sex. Guys can easily wangle their ways out.

GOFRONT:
Na to do Soapy na.

But what happened to Onlyfans app........Are there no girls to order from Onlyfans anymore??

Tinda fa??...........Dont they have a Redlight Zones like we have here in Lekki and Aminu Kano crescent of Abuja??

You know how much you go pay ? It’s not as cheap as what you have in Nigeria ooo. Lol

Stilloracle:
Go to South Africa, U will get sex Easy, left right center. They will give U on platter of free gold

With HIV

Simply say you didn't know how to navigate the dating game . People are having sex recklessly here

Simply say you didn't know how to navigate the dating game . People are having sex recklessly here.

People just write whatever tickles them and generalize their ignorance

Softmirror:
That's why I like U.K the made sure that prostitution doesn't thrive. Not a single prostitute in the U.K. 😁

Which UK are you yapping about?

MrHandsome2013:
This is to advise all youths planing to japa to take a second thought on this matter.
I couldn’t do the when I travel for a year. I have to run back to naija
I no fit cope.
Home sweet home

What was your purpose of traveling abroad, in the first place?
Didn't you have a goal?
Who funded your traveling?

You lack self-discipline.

fykes:
Which UK are you yapping about?

That is reversed psychology for you.

DUTY:
s3x impulse is like a fiery fury horse. It's uncontrollable and destructive.

It’s controllable. There are people who control it.

Lies from the pit of hell.

If you need sex that much and can't cope, what stops you from patronizing the various Apps or even visit massage centers or stuffs like that? Which country did you migrate to; maybe Afghanistan or Yemen cos I can't imagine the truth in what the op wrote. You guys will just wake up and start telling c0ck and bull stories to gain likes as if you are the first Nigerian to migrate abroad

fykes:
Simply say you didn't know how to navigate the dating game . People are having sex recklessly here.

People just write whatever tickles them and generalize their ignorance

Honestly its annoying. Maybe the op resembles an am0eba or something for him not to be able to get sex abroad for a whole year, can you imagine that?

ednut1:
A lot of people have been deceived that black guys are in demand abroad. The black guys in demand are usually the tall, the ones with swag, that has good job /money or that are handsome. Which is usually like 20%. The remaining 80% without swag, without papers, broke , living in shared apartments etc cant get babes or kpekus.

Also in some countries like USA that have significant black population its easier to nack when compared with Canada or Europe. That is why many guys come home for dirty December. With 100 dols you can get 3 babes to nack without stress

I don't know about Canada.....but don't talk about Europe.

Black guys like you said are in demand. Unless the class of black guys you mentioned which most Nigerian guys abroad; the educated ones don't fall into....the issue is more individualistic than general. Your experience can never be my own experience.

Even in Nigeria, a lot of guys struggle to get laid....reason they come to Nland to fight and bash Naija ladies....its even more difficult for broke guys to get laid in Nigeria than abroad.


If you are talking about finding a young, attracting white girl for serious relationship or marriage abroad as a Nigerian guy that just arrived abroad, that is not always easy unless the guy is lucky and probably came in via study route (undergraduate not graduate study route though).


Most foreign (white chicks) love tall black guys, be it broke or not, but most tall handsome broke guys in Nigeria can't even get a girl to reply their "hello", its not same abroad if a tall, handsome black guy approach a white chick...he will most likely get a good attention if he dresses well and speaks well more than he would get in Nigeria

Na wetin my cousin Dey tell me 😂😂😂
E no see babes knack Edinburg

Yeye post for irresponsible men. Smh!😑

Softmirror:
That's why I like U.K the made sure that prostitution doesn't thrive. Not a single prostitute in the U.K. 😁

For real? Cos everyone has opportunity to work menially and being paid I guess??

Nnamdipapa:
You have to understand how dating works abroad, and you would realize it is easy to get what you want. You have to understand non-verbal communication and body languages a lot. The problem is most of our guys try to use Nigerian style of dating on foreign ladies and this makes them unattractive or always backfires. It is easy for me get babe abroad that in Nigeria and I would be lost in the Nigerian dating scheme.

This is a very very dangerous advice that can land you in jail faster than you can blink

MrHandsome2013:
This is to advise all youths planing to japa to take a second thought on this matter.
I couldn’t do the when I travel for a year. I have to run back to naija
I no fit cope.
Home sweet home

Honestly,
I don't understand where this is coming from.
Can you speak for yourself..?
...na the same Abroad wey Foreign Girls they call us Chocolate Lolipop?
It's easier for me to hang out and have my way with a diasporan lady than a lady of similar class in Nigeria 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
Probably you suffered so much because you barely have something to make yourself attractive. Those gals are influenced by demeanor a lot and not just money.

First, u must be culturally sensitive b4 taking a leap. No be Naija where anything goes. Charisma matters to most gals out here.
Most Diasporans are constantly upgrading their profiles, be it way of life and CV. U must be on your toes to measure up, hence the reason you chickened out.