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Good day my dear Nairalanders! I'm the only child of my late mother and I have a health issue that's taken a lot from me even as I don't make much. My late mother was also the only child of my late grandma.
I don't have anybody to talk to right now as I struggle to live life. I've ideas but nobody to share or discuss with. Right now, am sick, am not married and I feel very lonely. Loneliness is taking a toll on me. I don't want to do anything crazy. How can I make friends that'll be concerned about me? How can I make friends that'll care about me? Please, help a lonely person

I feel your pain and I understand the struggles, you're not In this alone. As am typing this my father is down with colon cancer and I cant even help, I could barely feed myself.

But you can do better except you're an introvert like me you should make friends easily go out and make friends,I wish i knew this earlier.

In addition I see you're diabetic, I have seen people share testimonies of reversed diabetes esp if its Type 1 like yours.

Good luck bro

DisLifeSha:
Good day my dear Nairalanders! I'm the only child of my late mother and I have a health issue that's taken a lot from me even as I don't make much. My late mother was also the only child of my late grandma.
I don't have anybody to talk to right now as I struggle to live life. I've ideas but nobody to share or discuss with. Right now, am sick, am not married and I feel very lonely. Loneliness is taking a toll on me. I don't want to do anything crazy. How can I make friends that'll be concerned about me? How can I make friends that'll care about me? Please, help a lonely person

even if you have brothers and sisters if u r broke they wont give shit about u

I lost my mother to hypertension, arthritis, broken bone and overweight this year May. I don't have friends I eat once a day. And there's no cure for type 1 diabetics right now. Any testimony you see or hear are false

Kudducini:
I feel your pain and I understand the struggles, you're not In this alone. As am typing this my father is down with colon cancer and I cant even help, I could barely feed myself.

But you can do better except you're an introvert like me you should make friends easily go out and make friends,I wish i knew this earlier.

In addition I see you're diabetic, I have seen people share testimonies of reversed diabetes esp if its Type 1 like yours.

Good luck bro

DisLifeSha:
I lost my mother to hypertension, arthritis, broken bone and overweight this year May. I don't have friends I eat once a day. And there's no cure for type 1 diabetics right now. Any testimony you see or hear are false

Sorry for the loss,ita heartbreaking to watch people we love die and I just think in night be the next person to experience this. You really have to go out and make friends it will help you a lot. I just think you're scared to try new things just like me,I was like that few years ago until I sat down and have a rethink. Mingle with people try new things, try and get a better job this might just help.

DisLifeSha:
Good day my dear Nairalanders! I'm the only child of my late mother and I have a health issue that's taken a lot from me even as I don't make much. My late mother was also the only child of my late grandma.
I don't have anybody to talk to right now as I struggle to live life. I've ideas but nobody to share or discuss with. Right now, am sick, am not married and I feel very lonely. Loneliness is taking a toll on me. I don't want to do anything crazy. How can I make friends that'll be concerned about me? How can I make friends that'll care about me? Please, help a lonely person

First be concerned about someone and care about someone .. that's how to start ..

DisLifeSha:
✓ Good day my dear Nairalanders! I'm the only child of my late mother and I have a health issue that's taken a lot from me even as I don't make much. My late mother was also the only child of my late grandma.
I don't have anybody to talk to right now as I struggle to live life. I've ideas but nobody to share or discuss with. Right now, am sick, am not married and I feel very lonely. Loneliness is taking a toll on me. I don't want to do anything crazy. How can I make friends that'll be concerned about me? How can I make friends that'll care about me? Please, help a lonely person

You wish to make friends but you are sick? Go sit outside of your house each day and start by saying, "Hi," to your neighbors each day as you sit out enjoying the sun and breeze.

Kobojunkie:
You wish to make friends but you are sick? Go sit outside of your house each day and start by saying, "Hi," to your neighbors each day as you sit out enjoying the sun and breeze.

😂 This one wey you talk mKe he sit outside and say hi, hope no be say dem go think say he don open new POS stand for front of house o. Sorry it's just funny but OP you have to make friends, someone is outside waiting for you to be friends.

Ibkay32:
➜😂 This one wey you talk mKe he sit outside and say hi, hope no be say dem go think say he don open new POS stand for front of house o. Sorry it's just funny but OP you have to make friends, someone is outside waiting for you to be friends.

He says he is sick, meaning he might not be able to go far in his condition to find friends. Provided his condition is not caused by the sun and air quality, going out to get some sun and do some people watching regularly when sick is known to help stave off depression,

Kobojunkie:
He says he is sick, meaning he might not be able to go far in his condition to find friends. Provided his condition is not caused by the sun and air quality, going out to get some sun and do some people watching regularly when sick is known to help stave off depression,

True o, since he can’t go far, he could just turn his front door into a friendship booth, anyone who passes by, he greets them like, “Hello there! How’s your day going? before they even think of what to say he don they gather friends.. 👏👏👏👏 good advice 😂

Make friends with who? Nigerians abi Americans? If its Nigerians then you don't mean well for Op.
This place right now is a jungle, everybody is a potential predator.
Unfortunately op doesn't have money, I would have told him what to do.

Kudducini:
I feel your pain and I understand the struggles, you're not In this alone. As am typing this my father is down with colon cancer and I cant even help, I could barely feed myself.

But you can do better except you're an introvert like me you should make friends easily go out and make friends,I wish i knew this earlier.

In addition I see you're diabetic, I have seen people share testimonies of reversed diabetes esp if its Type 1 like yours.

Good luck bro

heracles1:
even if you have brothers and sisters if u r broke they wont give shit about u

This is a lie!

Where do people like you come from?

Mariangeles:
This is a lie!

Where do people like you come from?

I am talking from experience even my own parents dont give shit about cuz im broke they prefer my brthr

heracles1:
I am talking from experience even my own parents dont give shit about cuz im broke they prefer my brthr

It is not the same with everybody.
So, don't generalize.

Mariangeles:
It is not the same with everybody.
Don't generalize.

my friends too avoid me due to brokeness also nigerian girls too avoid me due that so i think its general

heracles1:
my friends too avoid me due to brokeness also nigerian girls too avoid me due that so i think its general

And this could not be related to you simply being hard to handle or hang out with? 🥱🥱

heracles1:
my friends too avoid me due to brokeness also nigerian girls too avoid me due that so i think its general

Then, get yourself new friends.
Even if they're ones you can be broke with together.

Mariangeles:
Then, get yourself new friends.
Even if they're ones you can be broke with together.

Two blind walking together is a recipe for disaster. Same goes for two broke men - a recipe for poverty.

Mariangeles:
This is a lie!

Where do people like you come from?

Seriously are you in Nigeria at all?


No be for this same country wey them no go allow senior brother talk or fully engage in decision makings just because him no get money, sometimes them fit do family meeting without am.....


Keep feigning ignorance...

You don't have brothers, you don't have sisters. Ok, but do you have MONEY?

Walai:
Make friends with who? Nigerians abi Americans? If its Nigerians then you don't mean well for Op.
This place right now is a jungle, everybody is a potential predator.
Unfortunately op doesn't have money, I would have told him what to do.

As if you don't have anybody you call friends.

DisLifeSha:
Good day my dear Nairalanders! I'm the only child of my late mother and I have a health issue that's taken a lot from me even as I don't make much. My late mother was also the only child of my late grandma.
I don't have anybody to talk to right now as I struggle to live life. I've ideas but nobody to share or discuss with. Right now, am sick, am not married and I feel very lonely. Loneliness is taking a toll on me. I don't want to do anything crazy. How can I make friends that'll be concerned about me? How can I make friends that'll care about me? Please, help a lonely person

You don't need friends but something that will occupied your time and mind. Do what you love doing at your lonely hours, you may as well need intimate love from a girl. You seriously need love at this moment, and that special love can only be found in a girl that care about you.

yemmit90:
✓ You don't need friends but something that will occupied your time and mind. Do what you love doing at your lonely hours, you may as well need intimate love from a girl. You seriously need love at this moment, and that special love can only be found in a girl that care about you.

Would you be willing to suggest your daughter or sister as a solution for OP then?

Kobojunkie:
Would you be willing to suggest your daughter or sister as a solution for OP then?

Unfortunately, I don't have.

He should find one by himself. He need love at the moment, not friends. He need something that will elevate his body and soul. That beautiful smile, soft touch and encouragement from his lovely girlfriend has a long way to do in his healing process. He should just avoid gold digger or wayward girl, that is all.