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Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.

Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego

You are right!
As a real man, I can forgive, but nothing stops me from meeting my side-chick. Honestly, We will keep on forgiving each other

Nnamdipapa:
You are right!
As a real man, I can forgive, but nothing stops me from meeting my side-chick. Honestly, I will forgive wholeheartedly

He's of course being sarcastic



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As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals.

If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.

Chubhie:
As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals. If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.

Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Kobo love, you nor dey study history?

Chubhie:
➜Kobo love, you nor dey study history?

What history? The history of the brainwashing of you and all others like you who believe such fairy tales?

Kobojunkie:
What history? The history of the brainwashing of you and all others like you who believe such fairy tales?

Kobo love, I mean actual African history.

Chubhie:
➜Kobo love, I mean actual African history.

History of Africans according to your traditional and religious leaders who brainwashed you lot into believing such fairy tales?

Chubhie:
As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals.

If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.

you're right bro in my place

Kobojunkie:
History of Africans according to your traditional and religious leaders who brainwashed you lot into believing such fairy tales?

Kobo love, actual study of African societies as done in Harvard or university of dares Salam.

Baronthecelebri:
you're right bro in my place

Now, imagine children from your place living carelessly? They would pay the ultimate price. Man know thyself.

Kobojunkie:
Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

He's correct
In my home town if you are somehow aware that your wife has cheated within the forbidden enclave prohibited by tradition and still meet your wife sexually or defend her against the act pretextually, you will suffer the embarrassing consequences including a shameful death. Nobody will touch you oo, it's just you and the natural law of the land that would be battling. This includes sudden pooing in the presence of people as if you didn't know when the poo was telling you to go and poo.

Unfortunately, this is one of such situations I don't want to be called 'a real man'. Even if I cheat, if she cheats back, she goes

Chubhie:
As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals.

If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.

D man will die in 7 day if he dey naija...it appears d powers of tradition cannot cross go abraod as they very local

oz4real83:
Unfortunately, this is one of such situations I don't want to be called 'a real man'. Even if I cheat, if she cheats back, she goes

Na wah bros u too harsh

Chubhie:
As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals.

If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.

Hmmm, my cousin's stepmother is still alive and her ex-husband lived even longer than the man she left him and her kids for o...🤔

Even the one that came home from abroad with a biracial baby, the Nigerian husband didn't die in 7 days o...🤔. Natural causes of old age got him.

Even the Ghanaian one that packed herself and her child into a wealthy Yoruba man's house, her ex lived o...🤔

Has anyone checked on Yul's baby Mama's ex-husband? Itzz laike he's alive o...🤔

Infact, when I think of all the Grandmothers I know who left their husbands for another (usually richer) man, most are alive. Sure, the relationship built on Infidelity and Greed failed and the consequences affected their children and everyone regretted it (because God is a God of mercy yes, but also justice), but nobody didn't die in 7 days o...🤔

E be like say the juju no dey work in Igbo land, South South and Yoruba tribes 😔 (because that's not how the devil works, he loves sin and won't kill anybody when he knows that the longer they live, the more likely they too will join the cheating wife to sin, which is a win-win for the devil).

My brother nor be cho cho, most of you thinks africa tradition doesn't exist, in my community if a woman cheat on her husband and d husband knows and he keep eating her food and sleeping with d woman, he would become sick and die i know more than 5 men who has die because of that mistake

FreeIgboho:
He's of course being sarcastic



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I don't understand the reason for the sarcasm tho. You make sarcastic quips to criticize, with subtlety, an action you feel was silly. If we're accepting your comment, it means the op was happy with the way the husband handled the situation, then why create this thread in the first place?

bdon123:
D man will die in 7 day if he dey naija...it appears d powers of tradition cannot cross go abraod as they very local

I hope you're being sarcastic 🤌

Mabuggi88:
He's correct
In my home town if you are somehow aware that your wife has cheated within the forbidden enclave prohibited by tradition and still meet your wife sexually or defend her against the act pretextually, you will suffer the embarrassing consequences including a shameful death. Nobody will touch you oo, it's just you and the natural law of the land that would be battling. This includes sudden pooing in the presence of people as if you didn't know when the poo was telling you to go and poo.

Where's this hometown?

irumole1975:
Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.

Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego

So far God no forgive Satan up till today, I will not

Very useless post
Very irritating post
Very useless post
Weak men shouldn't get married how will you forgive a cheating wife

Love56743:
My brother nor be cho cho, most of you thinks africa tradition doesn't exist, in my community if a woman cheat on her husband and d husband knows and he keep eating her food and sleeping with d woman, he would become sick and die i know more than 5 men who has die because of that mistake

Were you there when their wives cheated?

Onegai:
Hmmm, my cousin's stepmother is still alive and her ex-husband lived even longer than the man she left him and her kids for o...🤔

Even the one that came home from abroad with a biracial baby, the Nigerian husband didn't die in 7 days o...🤔. Natural causes of old age got him.

Even the Ghanaian one that packed herself and her child into a wealthy Yoruba man's house, her ex lived o...🤔

Has anyone checked on Yul's baby Mama's ex-husband? Itzz laike he's alive o...🤔

Infact, when I think of all the Grandmothers I know who left their husbands for another (usually richer) man, most are alive. Sure, the relationship built on Infidelity and Greed failed and the consequences affected their children and everyone regretted it (because God is a God of mercy yes, but also justice), but nobody didn't die in 7 days o...🤔

E be like say the juju no dey work in Igbo land, South South and Yoruba tribes 😔 (because that's not how the devil works, he loves sin and won't kill anybody when he knows that the longer they live, the more likely they too will join the cheating wife to sin, which is a win-win for the devil).

I enjoyed the long read from you. Now, in tradition that 7 days windows is for rites of cleansing and redemption to take place.

Consequences take root afterwards. It could be literal death or death in things that once made the man an Odogwu.

A core traditional man that's backed by high tension powers understands that even after sleeping with his dear wife must cleanse himself and not appear in headquarters under 24 hours.

Perhaps a ready example since you sighted some. Watch closely how Brother Ned and Senior man Obama of lfe handles their women.

Love56743:
My brother nor be cho cho, most of you thinks africa tradition doesn't exist, in my community if a woman cheat on her husband and d husband knows and he keep eating her food and sleeping with d woman, he would become sick and die i know more than 5 men who has die because of that mistake

Is it in kwale or unkuwani area make I know.

Chubhie:
I enjoyed the long read from you. Now, in tradition that 7 days windows is for rites of cleansing and redemption to take place.

Consequences take root afterwards. It could be literal death or death in things that once made the man an Odogwu.

A core traditional man that's backed by high tension powers understands that even after sleeping with his dear wife must cleanse himself and not appear in headquarters under 24 hours.

Perhaps a ready example since you sighted some. Watch closely how Brother Ned and Senior man Obama of lfe handles their women.

Is it in kwale or unkuwani area?

franugo:
I hope you're being sarcastic 🤌

No am not...i dont believe in tins like that especially if the person involved is out of d country

In urhobo if your wife cheated on you and you know your wife cheated and you went on to eat her food also makes love with her bye bye sorry is your name. Nor be joke my brother don't even consider forgiving her or you just dug your grave by yourself.

irumole1975:
Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.

Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego

Who be this one na?

Mabuggi88:
✓ He's correct. In my home town if you are somehow aware that your wife has cheated within the forbidden enclave prohibited by tradition and still meet your wife sexually or defend her against the act pretextually, you will suffer the embarrassing consequences including a shameful death. Nobody will touch you oo, it's just you and the natural law of the land that would be battling. This includes sudden pooing in the presence of people as if you didn't know when the poo was telling you to go and poo.

Storyland! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Chubhie:
✓ I enjoyed the long read from you. Now, in tradition that 7 days windows is for rites of cleansing and redemption to take place.
Consequences take root afterwards. It could be literal death or death in things that once made the man an Odogwu. A core traditional man that's backed by high tension powers understands that even after sleeping with his dear wife must cleanse himself and not appear in headquarters under 24 hours.
Perhaps a ready example since you sighted some. Watch closely how Brother Ned and Senior man Obama of lfe handles their women.

Storyland! So, these downtowns which are common to most all men(and women alike), particularly those from underprivileged backgrounds, are a result of this curse from your village, abi? 🙄🙄🙄

Inyan!🥱🥱🥱