₦airaland Forum

bdon123:
D man will die in 7 day if he dey naija...it appears d powers of tradition cannot cross go abraod as they very local

Abroad is too far, even Lagos see, e no fit work!

Like saying only real men marry ashawo. The writer of the post dey craze.

Thank you. I already know that I am not a real man so therefore you don't need to tell me again

Chubhie:
As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals.

If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.

This is very true especially with the Edo's. Believe it or not at your own risk

irumole1975:
Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.

Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego

Mtchewww.

All this nonsense just to put out content on the social space.

irumole1975:
Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.

Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego

Olosho will always look for one way or the other to support bad behaviors.

kakaG:
This is very true especially with the Edo's. Believe it or not at your own risk

Na lie. Am from Edo, I know some men that their wives na coded olosho and the rumors have even entered their husbands ear yet their husbands are still living with them, alive.

I even know one impotent man whose wife slept around to conceive two kids for him after the first two wives divorced him for his infertility. The man is still with that his third wife till today, him never die. Him na baller for area sef, very rich man. Just unfortunate that he is impotent.

I'll need to get me a new wife.

She'd been donated to the street

If I know that my partner is cheating, all I will do is to free her to let her have all the freedom she needs.

Her action has indicated that I am not good for her, therefore I will let her loose. Each of us will have to go our separate ways. All I want is peace of mind.

oz4real83:
Unfortunately, this is one of such situations I don't want to be called 'a real man'. Even if I cheat, if she cheats back, she goes

na real man you be!!!
i dont have to catch her cheat sef, if she decides to be ignorant and starts to innocently play around what can lead to cheating, i dun dey plan her exit

It easy to know Christianity talks

Lol!
The wife will not sleep in same house again lol! What a post.

Towma:
Na lie. Am from Edo, I know some men that their wives na coded olosho and the rumors have even entered their husbands ear yet their husbands are still living with them, alive.

I even know one impotent man whose wife slept around to conceive two kids for him after the first two wives divorced him for his infertility. The man is still with that his third wife till today, him never die. Him na baller for area sef, very rich man. Just unfortunate that he is impotent.

Believe whatever you want and I will do same. No quarrels.

Na aero plane go jam you

Ana ezuzu nu..

irumole1975:
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[/b]and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego

An African proverb goes something like “many are mad, only few are roaming”.

A woman that cheated well cheat again and again and again till she ka-put the so-called husband

irumole1975:
Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.

Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego

Before you'll start taking care of someone elses children, you'll not know. A man that cheats can only bring diseases and a new wife home. A woman that cheats can bring diseases, another man, children and poverty home

irumole1975:
[s]Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.

Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego[/s]

Nothing makes any sense here.

In this type of situation I have agreed that I don't want to be a real man simple...

Love56743:
My brother nor be cho cho, most of you thinks africa tradition doesn't exist, in my community if a woman cheat on her husband and d husband knows and he keep eating her food and sleeping with d woman, he would become sick and die i know more than 5 men who has die because of that mistake

una can lie, 5 men hmmm abeg spare us the story.

where you there when the wife was cheating? so they all confession it was wife cheating.
abeg this is 21st century, leave those tales for village people not exposed yet,
you picked up phone and typed this SMH

Dead end road

A man can sleep with other women and still love his woman.. same is not the case for women.
The moment another man unwraps your wife and give her better las.hing.. my brother it's finished, So pe 'o ti lo'.
You don become old taker be that, na the new b0.bo she go dey think about.

Very senseless post even bible say send her out