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Anytime I engage in sexz with any girl, the moment i finish, I regret it instantly? Is it normal? She now disgusts me

vybzkartel:
Anytime I engage in sexz with any girl, the moment i finish, I regret it instantly? Is it normal? She now disgusts me

it's normal. You begin to wonder if this is what your efforts went into...you begin to see that it's not worth it after all.

It happens yeah...

But I don't think it's normal though.

There is a story in the Bible like that. I can't remember the names of the parties involved or the verse. But I think the victim was a daughter of Jacob if I remember accurately.

The story goes that this young man really loved this fair maiden. He had sleepless nights thinking of her. His love was so intense that he couldn't think of anything else. What made matters worse was that the maiden refused his advances and told him to go see her parents if he was really interested in her so they could give their blessings.

But the young man couldn't wait or for whatever reasons so he tricked her to his bed and had his way forcefully.

After he was done he felt so disgusted with her and hated her with the same passion and intensity with which he loved her at first. I think he threw her out immediately if I remember accurately.

She cried to her brothers who later went to the village the man was from and killed his kin and looted their property.

Something like that.


Like I said it happens but may not be normal especially when the disgust and hate after is so intense.


I mean it's ok to feel under whelmed like "is this it" after a lot of expectations after the act but not outright disgust or hatred after the act with every girl .

Many things we take as normal sometimes especially in Africa have deep psychological roots!

It's absolutely normal.

The condition has a name

Post nut clarity

When you are done cum-ming you cum to your senses.

Konji Na bastard

You are experiencing what Proverbs 8:36
But he that sinneth against me wrongeth his own soul:

Your soul is cursing and abusing you

brain54:
It happens yeah...

But I don't think it's normal though.

There is a story in the Bible like that. I can't remember the names of the parties involved or the verse. But I think the victim was a daughter of Jacob if I remember accurately.

The story goes that this young man really loved this fair maiden. He had sleepless nights thinking of her. His love was so intense that he couldn't think of anything else. What made matters worse was that the maiden refused his advances and told him to go see her parents if he was really interested in her so they could give their blessings.

But the young man couldn't wait or for whatever reasons so he tricked her to his bed and had his way forcefully.

After he was done he felt so disgusted with her and hated her with the same passion and intensity with which he loved her at first. I think he threw her out immediately if I remember accurately.

She cried to her brothers who later went to the village the man was from and killed his kin and looted their property.

Something like that.


Like I said it happens but may not be normal especially when the disgust and hate after is so intense.


I mean it's ok to feel under whelmed like "is this it" after a lot of expectations after the act but not outright disgust or hatred after the act with every girl .

Many things we take as normal sometimes especially in Africa have deep psychological roots!

It is the story of David's son who raped his sister, Tamar. He was sick in love for her, but after sex with her, he hated her.
The story can be found in 2 Samuel 13.
The truth is this. Fornication is a sin. Sex is only allowed between married couples. Sex in marriage is happiness while sex outside marriage is sorrows.
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

terrezo2002:
It is the story of David's son who raped his sister, Tamar. He was sick in love for her, but after sex with her, he hated her.
The story can be found in 2 Samuel 13.
The truth is this. Fornication is a sin. Sex is only allowed between married couples. Sex in marriage is happiness while sex outside marriage is sorrows.
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

Absolutely...

terrezo2002:
It is the story of David's son who raped his sister, Tamar. He was sick in love for her, but after sex with her, he hated her.
The story can be found in 2 Samuel 13.
The truth is this. Fornication is a sin. Sex is only allowed between married couples. Sex in marriage is happiness while sex outside marriage is sorrows.
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

No it Jacob daughter he mixed the story up

brain54:
It happens yeah...

But I don't think it's normal though.

There is a story in the Bible like that. I can't remember the names of the parties involved or the verse. But I think the victim was a daughter of Jacob if I remember accurately.

The story goes that this young man really loved this fair maiden. He had sleepless nights thinking of her. His love was so intense that he couldn't think of anything else. What made matters worse was that the maiden refused his advances and told him to go see her parents if he was really interested in her so they could give their blessings.

But the young man couldn't wait or for whatever reasons so he tricked her to his bed and had his way forcefully.

After he was done he felt so disgusted with her and hated her with the same passion and intensity with which he loved her at first. I think he threw her out immediately if I remember accurately.

She cried to her brothers who later went to the village the man was from and killed his kin and looted their property.

Something like that.


Like I said it happens but may not be normal especially when the disgust and hate after is so intense.


I mean it's ok to feel under whelmed like "is this it" after a lot of expectations after the act but not outright disgust or hatred after the act with every girl .

Many things we take as normal sometimes especially in Africa have deep psychological roots!

U just pick random story for bible dey drop na wow ohh religious people ehhhh.

Una naaa make the girl brother go him village kill the elders then

Post-coital tistrease

Yeah, it's normal, it happens to me alot.

Some reasons are:

The girl isn't your spec or generally you don't like her or really feel happy to have her as someone you should be piping but konji Na something else sometimes.

She's forcing herself on you for a relationship.

It's called post nut clarity and it happens more times than not. When the expectations/anticipation of having sex with a female far supercedes the actual deed/activity. 🥱

but after maybe 3 weeks when the balls are finally full, you will still admire that same girl that disgusts you..its just normal, sex is part of life. its just biology

Tenrack:
it's normal. You begin to wonder if this is what your efforts went into...you begin to see that it's not worth it after all.

josielewa:
but after maybe 3 weeks when the balls are finally full, you will still admire that same girl that disgusts you..its just normal, sex is part of life. its just biology

for real bro. Very mysterious thing at that

ediko5:
Yeah, it's normal, it happens to me alot.

Some reasons are:

The girl isn't your spec or generally you don't like her or really feel happy to have her as someone you should be piping but konji Na something else sometimes.

She's forcing herself on you for a relationship.

I have been throwing up since morning

Sex is overrated

vybzkartel:
Anytime I engage in sexz with any girl, the moment i finish, I regret it instantly? Is it normal? She now disgusts me

is normal if you are doing it outside marriage. I can sex my wife 100 times a day without feeling tired or regret.

100 times abi ?

jesmond3945:
is normal if you are doing it outside marriage. I can sex my wife 100 times a day without feeling tired or regret.

I don’t want to call it norms,but if I don’t really feel anything greater than just sexual desire for you,you’d see it after sex

Talkisneeded:
I don’t want to call it norms,but if I don’t really feel anything greater than just sexual desire for you,you’d see it after sex

yea and i wont feel tired, regret or any emotional shit