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I dont need to say much but its gonna be a give and take thingy.

Don't blame the. Babe abeg. They guy most be a dead beat.

Awon omo ti won ti shiere

Avoid such ladies
They are community properties
Irrespective of the circumstances involved.
Na almajiri pattern be that.
Na DNA the thing dey, Dem no fit stop.

Nazgul:
You're obviously still a learner in the game. There is serious hunger in the land. So you don't ask girls out cos that's like opening the door for unnecessary billing.

But you can still get her laid without spending shi shi. The problem with most of you guys is that you're too impatient. You want her for yourself, you want an answer now, you keep bugging and disturbing her every 30 seconds for a reply. No be so my guy...

If you see a girl you like, just vibe with her and avoid mentioning anything relating to love. And as you do, keep complaining about the economy and how things are difficult. That way she won't mistakenly bill you.

Now the question is if she isn't billing you, what is she gaining from you. She should be gaining something from you. This is where my next paragraph comes in.

In Lagos today, just have a good well furnished apartment and if possible a car and like I sad before you won't spend shi shi. Infact she's the one who would be calling you that she wants to come over for weekend. Just respond by telling her you don't have money and she'll tell you no problem and come with her money. Just ensure there's provision in the house so she'll cook when she comes, open your wifi or Hotspot for her, share Netflix with her... Etc.

She'll spend the entire weekend with you and your wallet wouldn't blink.

Now to the issue of dating, you must make sure she genuinely desires you. If she does, you can take it further. If she doesn't just keep enjoying your free coochie until either of you gets tired.

People who suffer the most in the hands of girls are broke guys who are struggling to find their feet. You can't be in that state and be talking about love and relationship. Find your bearing first, then love can come later.

folake4u comman see somethin

GloriousGbola:
folake4u comman see somethin

You too like wahala. 😩

Any woman that wants to get serious with you, will never make you spend unwisely.

Also, some women are lazy, ungrateful and always want more, so they will never appreciate the efforts of their men if they got one.

Samantha125:
Some of us have been billed by both genders and didn't cry, but wena you're here crying because of a single gender? Come on, don't be such a cry cry baby .

I've had a whole married woman asking me to buy her child pampers diapers and a whole grown man asking me to help him with his electricity bill just to mention the few... And neither was I related nor friends with the people... Just say you're broke.

Assuming you've checked the OP names, you don't need to ask the bolded.


I Sha donate the last ₦500 I want to use at the clinic to the OP for this sensational writeup


I just hope Zamfara bandit haven't kidnapped boogyman cos it's has been a while and Nairaland citizens can't help put a call through

Same way I went for one of my friends wedding and met a girl and we exchanged numbers and started talking, around 2 weeks she said they stole her phone and it's an Iphone worth 300k and the funny part was that she called me on video call in a phone shop shading crocodile tears, thinking I would send her the 300k immediately to purchase a new phone. I just found a way to end the call, she became angry and found out I didn't want to send her the money. I now reduced communicating with her, she later sent me a message that she was hoping at least I would have helped her even if it's like 150k.
I didn't even reply the message...

Na who fall mugu dem dey chop

Nazgul:
You're obviously still a learner in the game. There is serious hunger in the land. So you don't ask girls out cos that's like opening the door for unnecessary billing.

Naz what of that your prospective gf you met at a wedding? You didn't update us. I hope this is not your plan for her.

Towncrier007:
What's this new trend with ladies these days,you can't ask a lady out and she won't begin billing you, some will tell you they have a boyfriend but still ask you for help,

The new one is if you give her greenlight she will tell you let's be friends, because she can't date for now, and next day she will ask you for help.

So for us to find love now we must first send like 10 girls our money. I don't blame those who don't marry. You will think church sisters are different, but now they're worse, they will tell you let us see how it goes, and billing will begin.

Well my strategy is if we don't get very into ourselves, nothing drops.

Lol .you are the one desperate to give.

I NEVER GIVE
And I haven't died from being called broke or stingy🙂

Normally na normal thing for the ladies, it's left for you to decide if you want to be a Giver or Helper. 1st Generation Yahoo na be that.

Samantha125:
Some of us have been billed by both genders and didn't cry, but wena you're here crying because of a single gender? Come on, don't be such a cry baby.

I've had a whole married woman asking me to buy her child pampers diapers and a whole grown man asking me to help him with his electricity bill just to mention the few... And neither was I related nor friends with the people... Just say you're broke.

When my younger brother had lived in the UK a few years while studying and came to sort out a few things, he complained suddenly that Nigerian girls like money.

That was when I knew he was going to marry a foreigner.

Stop lying to yourself.

It is on our custom for the man tobe seen as the bread winner, and to be the major provider. That was what the man brought to the table, and women seem fine with that. Unfortunately, the downside was that in marraige, many men became promiscious knowing they wielded financial control over the woman.

Nazgul:
You too like wahala. 😩

Naz, I've said it before and I'd reiterate here.

The day I will see you in real life, I will first knock your head three times.

pocohantas:
Naz what of that your prospective gf you met at a wedding? You didn't update us. I hope this is not your plan for her.

Maybe he's already shining her congo, in alfa meil voice.

Samantha125:
You guys gave those ladies the impression that there's no genuine relationship without money... Nigerian men are known for using money to entice ladies, so why are you now crying when you made your own bed?

It's ok ma'am. Your points is well noted.
How is life over there?
Hope you are doing great.
🤝🤝🤝

That man should be disconnected from supply. Don't encourage someone to use what they cannot afford, how many months have you paid for him again

Samantha125:
Some of us have been billed by both genders and didn't cry, but wena you're here crying because of a single gender? Come on, don't be such a cry baby.

I've had a whole married woman asking me to buy her child pampers diapers and a whole grown man asking me to help him with his electricity bill just to mention the few... And neither was I related nor friends with the people... Just say you're broke.

He asked me for help on three different occasions... He said he was ashamed of asking his fellow men for help because they'd make a mockery of him.

brownbib:
That man should be disconnected from supply. Don't encourage someone to use what they cannot afford, how many months have you paid for him again

Samantha125:
Some of us have been billed by both genders and didn't cry, but wena you're here crying because of a single gender? Come on, don't be such a cry baby.

I've had a whole married woman asking me to buy her child pampers diapers and a whole grown man asking me to help him with his electricity bill just to mention the few... And neither was I related nor friends with the people... Just say you're broke.

Imagine a South African chooking mouth on things she knows nothing about, if you were a Nigerian guy living in Nigeria you will understand what the OP is saying, the best thing is for you to shift and let Nigerians comment, abi una no get randerland for South Africa?

Samantha125:
Some of us have been billed by both genders and didn't cry, but wena you're here crying because of a single gender? Come on, don't be such a cry baby.

I've had a whole married woman asking me to buy her child pampers diapers and a whole grown man asking me to help him with his electricity bill just to mention the few... And neither was I related nor friends with the people... Just say you're broke.

Did you ask those people out as in attempt to date them

author=Samantha125 post=136440446 ]Some of us have been billed by both genders and didn't cry, but wena you're here crying because of a single gender? Come on, don't be such a cry baby.

I've had a whole married woman asking me to buy her child pampers diapers and a whole grown man asking me to help him with his electricity bill just to mention the few... And neither was I related nor friends with the people... Just say you're broke.[/quote]Madam Philanthropist, tell us, who are you currently billing?D

folake4u:
Maybe he's already shining her congo, in alfa meil voice.

He said she is outside Lagos and e no wan pay money for flight. 😀

I told a girl I've been dating and even sent money occasionally that any day she ask me for money for food again I will block her.
I am a friend, I can take you on dates buy gifts for you, but am not a replacement for your family member.
I can't disrespect your dad by feeding you.

What's the difference? Billing is billing.

Had a lady stopped on the road and asked him for money to buy a drink, he'd still complain.

fedorahat:
Did you ask those people out as in attempt to date them

Hubby...😂😂😂

olunavi:
Madam Philanthropist, tell us, who are you currently billing?[s][/s]

I'm doing great, you?

Anijay1212:
It's ok ma'am. Your points is well noted.
How is life over there?
Hope you are doing great.
🤝🤝🤝

Samantha125:
Some of us have been billed by both genders and didn't cry, but wena you're here crying because of a single gender? Come on, don't be such a cry baby.

I've had a whole married woman asking me to buy her child pampers diapers and a whole grown man asking me to help him with his electricity bill just to mention the few... And neither was I related nor friends with the people... Just say you're broke.

You jus had to put in the B word.....?!
Silver spoon respondent

Samantha125:
Some of us have been billed by both genders and didn't cry, but wena you're here crying because of a single gender? Come on, don't be such a cry baby.

I've had a whole married woman asking me to buy her child pampers diapers and a whole grown man asking me to help him with his electricity bill just to mention the few... And neither was I related nor friends with the people... Just say you're broke.

Silver spoon respondent, pls

pocohantas:
He said she is outside Lagos and e no wan pay money for flight. 😀

Lol, no true lovers anymore.

pocohantas:
Naz what of that your prospective gf you met at a wedding? You didn't update us. I hope this is not your plan for her.

Don't worry. I'll keep you posted. I just don't like giving too much details about my love life online.