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folake4u:
Don't try me. 😂😂😂😂

I'm not scared of you, Naz.

But you are. If you weren't, we would have seen each other a long time ago.

Fear fear. After you go de form Benin girl. 😒

You guys are the ones who gave those ladies the impression that there's no love without money... Nigerian men are known for using money to buy women's love, it's not only Nigerian ladies, but every woman who's either dating or has dated a Nigerian man before would talk about how you guys are big spenders.

So you brought this onto yourselves.

fedorahat:
No billing is not billing.
You don't leave in Nigeria and will not understand, this girls take pride in making this outlandish and outrageous requests, am in a group where they use it to catch cruise make jest of guys that can't spend and give themselves update.

As soon as you see someone you are interested in, it's either her phone camera goes bad, she falls sick or any of her relatives fall sick, has not eaten, has a house problem or just anything to get money from you as fast as possible.

Once she can't get anything from you she looses interest in you,
Most Nigerian girls derive satisfaction from collecting whether they need it or not

Which Dangote? The cement?🤔🤔🤔

Kalulu44:
Oshey! Dangote

Samantha125:
You guys are the ones who gave those ladies the impression that there's no love without money... Nigerian men are known for using money to buy women's love, it's not only Nigerian ladies, but every woman who's either dating or has dated a Nigerian man before would talk about how you guys are big spenders.

So you brought this onto yourselves.

By Generalising I can see you are just out here to troll.
No need engaging you.
Good bye

Nazgul:
But you are. If you weren't, we would have seen each other a long time ago. 😒

Lol na by that one? E nor mean say I dey fear you na.

Samantha125:
You guys are globally known for using money to buy women's love... So you gave those women the impression that there's no love without money... Blame yourselves.

Ok.

It is the entitlement for me, promise them small change they go wan use calls wound you, you don't do it timely for them problem!

A lot of them have to snap away from this TV fantansy where some guy is comming to save them because they are pretty being with a woman who dosent have a job or always asking to fulfill her cravings is dangerous.

Confirm4real:
Same way I went for one of my friends wedding and met a girl and we exchanged numbers and started talking, around 2 weeks she said they stole her phone and it's an Iphone worth 300k and the funny part was that she called me on video call in a phone shop shading crocodile tears, thinking I would send her the 300k immediately to purchase a new phone. I just found a way to end the call, she became angry and found out I didn't want to send her the money. I now reduced communicating with her, she later sent me a message that she was hoping at least I would have helped her even if it's like 150k.
I didn't even reply the message...

Na who fall mugu dem dey chop

IMAGINE!

Person wey you juss meet 300k fall out from thin air when it isn't that you guys are dating or something.

It is the entilement for me, you meet someone new and start bamboozling them with financial request, and they be complaining as to why Nigerian men are commiting to them emotionally.

Met a girl on a dating site, few days she is already saying she is craving this and that it is too early to make this ask in a relationship!

grandstar:
When my younger brother had lived in the UK a few years while studying and came to sort out a few things, he complained suddenly that Nigerian girls like money.

That was when I knew he was going to marry a foreigner.

Stop lying to yourself.

It is on our custom for the man tobe seen as the bread winner, and to be the major provider. That was what the man brought to the table, and women seem fine with that. Unfortunately, the downside was that in marraige, many men became promiscious knowing they wielded financial control over the woman.

And you know what that era is gone, a lot of Naija babes in the diaspora haven't yet snapped into this era of being two income households, paying equally for a date or contributing financially into their relationship/marriage. That ear of pairing up with a financial saviour who would cater for all your bills whilst you do nothing is slowly fading. Why Nigerian babes are having a rough time with dating 2.0.


Both men and women have to contribute equally to make the relationship work.

fedorahat:
I told a girl I've been dating and even sent money occasionally that any day she ask me for money for food again I will block her.
I am a friend, I can take you on dates buy gifts for you, but am not a replacement for your family member.
I can't disrespect your dad by feeding you.

One told me i should help her with house rent for 500kpa and she is working, i asked her how much do you have on deck? She replied Nothing.

LOL

But you generalised Nigerian ladies first...

You can't expect objectivity when you're on the receiving end while you generalise others.

fedorahat:
By Generalising I can see you are just out here to troll.
No need engaging you.
Good bye

No girl is any boy's responsible, but her father. Until they are married. So even if she has a boyfriend it's not his responsibility to cater for her. No go pressure your for any liability or amaljiri

Samantha125:
But you generalised Nigerian ladies first...

You can't expect objectivity when you're on the receiving end while you generalise others.

Can you point to where I generalised Nigerian ladies

Samantha125:
Some of us have been billed by both genders and didn't cry, but wena you're here crying because of a single gender? Come on, don't be such a cry baby.

I've had a whole married woman asking me to buy her child pampers diapers and a whole grown man asking me to help him with his electricity bill just to mention the few... And neither was I related nor friends with the people... Just say you're broke.

from the way u talk it’s obvious you are a very matured person, most in this forum are not yet matured in the brains, keep helping sister Nature rewards kindness greatly….

Towncrier007:
What's this new trend with ladies these days,you can't ask a lady out and she won't begin billing you, some will tell you they have a boyfriend but still ask you for help,

The new one is if you give her greenlight she will tell you let's be friends, because she can't date for now, and next day she will ask you for help.

So for us to find love now we must first send like 10 girls our money. I don't blame those who don't marry. You will think church sisters are different, but now they're worse, they will tell you let us see how it goes, and billing will begin.

Well my strategy is if we don't get very into ourselves, nothing drops.

No, rather blame the simp who give them money around. Any lady who bill you because you approached her should be regarded as street and should be approached as one.

You don't take a street on a date.
You don't buy gift for a street.
You don't give a street money to make her hair.
A street lady is strictly on a short time or day break basis (how much for your market)

Lol...I pity who no wise

Samantha125:
You guys are the ones who gave those ladies the impression that there's no love without money... Nigerian men are known for using money to buy women's love, it's not only Nigerian ladies, but every woman who's either dating or has dated a Nigerian man before would talk about how you guys are big spenders.

So you brought this onto yourselves.

What are South African men known for?

fedorahat:
No billing is not billing.
You don't leave in Nigeria and will not understand, this girls take pride in making this outlandish and outrageous requests, am in a group where they use it to catch cruise make jest of guys that can't spend and give themselves update.

As soon as you see someone you are interested in, it's either her phone camera goes bad, she falls sick or any of her relatives fall sick, has not eaten, has a house problem or just anything to get money from you as fast as possible.

Once she can't get anything from you she looses interest in you,
Most Nigerian girls derive satisfaction from collecting whether they need it or not

😂💯

zanshi:
One told me i should help her with house rent for 500kpa and she is working, i asked her how much do you have on deck? She replied Nothing.

LOL

This your story go be like lie to who never experience am.

My guy call me say girl when he never talk to for 2 days tear am half a million bill as loan unto wanting to buy car.

He come dey ask me how far? I yell am say for am to dey ask sef e dey craze. Wether e think say that girl go ever repay am 5k for that money?

Omo fear catch me that day.