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Good day, fellas. Have you realized that ladies easily get help from guys or their fellow ladies than guys do? I want you to ponder on it carefully. Ladies too do help their fellow ladies but my guys rarely help their fellow guys but they are swift in helping ladies with the speed of a light. Ibom Air saga is a good example of my point. The other day, a guy splash water on a lady with his car and gave her 500k with apology. Just like that. Nlfpm.

The truth is, guys mostly help ladies because they expect/get something in return, and not genuinely.
Most of them hardly help in true sense of the word, and helping their fellow guys is where it is tested and proven.

Some are different though.

Mariangeles:
The truth is, guys mostly help ladies because they expect/get something in return, and not genuinely.
Most of them hardly help in true sense of the word, and helping their fellow guys is where it is tested and proven.

Some are different though.

Some of them are perverts but not all guys expect something in return, based on my experience. The funny part is that, these guys tend to tell their friends or fellow guys that they don't have money but if you see or hear how they spend on ladies who don't have anything with them, you will be astonished.

Mariangeles:
The truth is, guys mostly help ladies because they expect/get something in return, and not genuinely.
Most of them hardly help in true sense of the word, and helping their fellow guys is where it is tested and proven.

Some are different though.

At back of it all is possibility of sex (no matter how far-fetched). If a guy removes possibility of sex from his mind he'd deal with females same way he deals with guys - which is the normal human way. It is NOT normal to.meet someone and want to buy them a drink or something!

DoctorStanley:
At back of it all is possibility of sex (no matter how far-fetched). If a guy removes possibility of sex from his mind he'd deal with females same way he deals with guys - which is the normal human way. It is NOT normal to.meet someone and want to buy them a drink or something!

Then again, meeting someone and deciding to buy them a drink is not actually help.

Help is help when it is asked for, and it is rendered.

Most of the guys who've helped me in the past never expected anything in return from me except this one security guard from varsity during my first year... I started distancing myself from him.

The only thing I've never been comfortable in doing is hitch hiking private vehicles... I've only hitch hiked a police van, hearse, and this one time my cousin managed to convince me to hitch hike from Polokwane to Johannesburg, I was reluctant at first, but ended up agreeing to it.

One beautiful BMW car then stopped and the main fact that the car was beautiful only made me even more uncomfortable... ... The guy spoke to us in Sepedi and asked us where we were heading, my cousin told him and it turned out that he was also going to Johannesburg, him being a Pedi kinda gave me some relief, but then I noticed a gun on his waist... I then froze for a second while I stared at the gun, I started whispering at my cousin that he has a gun, but she didn't seem that much bothered, she was used to hitch hiking.

The guy noticed how uncomfortable the gun made me and he assured me that he wasn't a criminal or planning anything sinister with us, that he worked for the State Security Agency in Johannesburg... I was still reluctant to get in the car, but he reassured me that we were in safe hands, so I gave in and got in.

While in the car, I started stylishly asking him about himself, every crucial detail he gave about himself, I wrote it down on my WhatsApp and sent it to my sister... While on our way, I then asked him to stop at the next petrol station because I needed to take the loo... I needed to find a way to check his car number plate and sent it to my sister in case something bad happened to me, so I used the loo as an excuse to get out of the car and check it... I was already imagining my own funeral in my head... ... But fortune enough, the guy lived up to his word and dropped us at the exact spot we were going and left without asking us anything in return.

From that day on, I never hitch hiked ever again...😅😅😅

DoctorStanley:
At back of it all is possibility of sex (no matter how far-fetched). If a guy removes possibility of sex from his mind he'd deal with females same way he deals with guys - which is the normal human way. It is NOT normal to.meet someone and want to buy them a drink or something!

Samantha na oke akuko. 😄

They expected something dear (you just didn't know), even though there was no chance of them getting it.

Samantha125:
Most of the guys who've helped me in the past never expected anything in return from me except this one security guard from varsity during my first year... I started distancing myself from him.

The only thing I've never been comfortable in doing is hitch hiking private vehicles... I've only hitch hiked a police van, hearse, and this one time my cousin managed to convince me to hitch hike from Polokwane to Johannesburg, I was reluctant at first, but ended up agreeing to it.

One beautiful BMW car then stopped and the main fact that the car was beautiful only made me even more uncomfortable... ... The guy spoke to us in Sepedi and asked us where we were heading, my cousin told him and it turned out that he was also going to Johannesburg, him being a Pedi kinda gave me some relief, but then I noticed a gun on his waist... I then froze for a second while I stared at the gun, I started whispering at my cousin that he has a gun, but she didn't seem that much bothered, she was used to hitch hiking.

The guy noticed how uncomfortable the gun made me and he assured me that he wasn't a criminal or planning anything sinister with us, that he worked for the State Security Agency in Johannesburg... I was still reluctant to get in the car, but he reassured me that we were in safe hands, so I gave in and got in.

While in the car, I started stylishly asking him about himself, every crucial detail he gave about himself, I wrote it down on my WhatsApp and sent it to my sister... While on our way, I then asked him to stop at the next petrol station because I needed to take the loo... I needed to find a way to check his car number plate and sent it to my sister in case something bad happened to me, so I used the loo as an excuse to get out of the car and check it... I was already imagining my own funeral in my head... ... But fortune enough, the guy lived up to his word and dropped us at the exact spot we were going and left without asking us anything in return.

From that day on, I never hitch hiked ever again...😅😅😅

The journey must've been long for you to ask the guy to make a stop.

If they wanted something, then why couldn't they ask? It's not like I look intimidating or anything like that.

I lied by telling him that I needed to take the loo, I just needed a way to get his car number plate and sent it to my sister in case something bad happened to me...

The journey took about 6 hours.

Mariangeles:
Samantha na oke akuko. 😄

They expected something dear (you just didn't know), even though there was no chance of them getting it.



The journey must've been long for you to ask the guy to make a stop.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Have you realized that ladies easily get help from guys or their fellow ladies than guys do? I want you to ponder on it carefully. Ladies too do help their fellow ladies but my guys rarely help their fellow guys but they are swift in helping ladies with the speed of a light. Ibom Air saga is a good example of my point. The other day, a guy splash water on a lady with his car and gave her 500k with apology. Just like that. Nlfpm.

And no man has helped me since i was born except my family abi i no fine?

Samantha125:
If they wanted something, then why couldn't they ask? It's not like I look intimidating or anything like that.

I lied by telling him that I needed to take the loo, I just needed a way to get his car number plate and sent it to my sister in case something bad happened to me...

The journey took about 6 hours.

Having you and your cousin in the car was "something" enough at that point.

6 whole hours? 😳
That is too long a journey to hitch a ride.

Michaelspresh:
And no man has helped me since i was born except my family abi i no fine?

Na lie jor!

There are still some genuine men out there, they're called Pedi men... ... Not all of them, but a good number of them, specifically those ones from Limpopo... You know even if you forget something or mistakenly leave something in their taxi, they'd take it to the taxi rank office where you can go and reclaim it free of charge.

Yep, it was a long journey... It took about 5 or 6 hours, I can't remember correctly.

Mariangeles:
Having you and your cousin in the car was "something" enough at that point.

6 whole hours? 😳
That is too long a journey to hitch a ride.

Forget all this help,they are either expecting kuntus now or in the nearest someday,some guys are even sertisfied with the girl just smiling with them,they will be filling like one leornado de caprio🤣🤣🤣