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I noticed single and unmarried ladies above a certain age are verbally abused and bullied on nairaland most of the time, I hear names like old layers, evening newspapers, expired ovaries etc.

Not every woman is lucky enough to get a husband in her early age of life, some are due to personal mistakes, even men makes mistakes, but mistakes in men can be corrected almost anytime but for women as day passes it becomes more difficult.

I have really sat down putting myself in the shoes of a woman and really those shoes does not fit very comfortable as you think. Imagine a 20 years old girl as an emotional creature meeting her first liar boyfriend that lied about loving her all to get in between her legs for several years, many guys reading this are guilty of this, most of our girls whole heartedly showed true and genue love to their first time love, broke guys most times, but as time goes on if they don't find truthful man they swipe to transactional relationships, I won't tell you that they are not born prostitutes, No! but majority of the girls we call bad we spoilt them,truth is bitter may God forgive all our sins and give us the grace to become better People.

Nd Chris.

I have really sat down putting myself in the shoes of a woman and really those shoes does not fit very comfortable

Go and find a more constructive use of your time. This surely is not it.

1.
There are Nairalanders that abuse the single mothers you are talking about. I am not among them.

2.
There are Nairalanders who speak the bitter truth whenever necessary, whether the bitter truth is about males, female, single mothers or anything else. I am among them. This is not abuse. Hiding truth is destructive, voicing the truth may be unpalatable to ears but definitely saves life.

3.
If men can correct all their mistakes, women can correct theirs. If women cannot correct all their mistakes, men cannot correct all their own mistakes. The biggest issue here is that, on average, men get to a certain age where they start admitting their flaws but women keep denying their flaws and keep shifting their blames to either men or fellow women. I said, "on average", because there are exceptions in everything. Correction is like restitution. No restitution without genuine repentance. You can't correct a mistake you deny. So many women are saying they want a man who will love them the way they are. It shows they are not willing to work on themselves. I have not heard a man saying he wants a woman that will love him the way he is.

So many men tell their children or the youths in public, "Listen to me so that you won't make the mistakes I made...". How many women have made such a statement to their children or to the youths in public? Does it mean that women are prefect or does it mean that women, on average, don't like admiting their flaws? So many fathers sit their sons down and teach them how to be good husbands and how to choose a good wife, they also advise their daughters on how to be good wives. How many mothers do this to their sons and daughters?

In conclusion, those single mothers that are abused should help (respect) themselves by admitting their flaws and telling younger females the truth instead of promoting the ideology of "Men are scum, I don't need a man, marriage is not an achievement". Remember, a ship sinks because of the water that enters it, not because of the water around it. If it is not within you, it cannot defeat you.

There is no abuse here, just stating the obvious facts as it is. It's a social forum and people can air their opinions, you can air yours too.
The sky is wide enough for all birds

If I talk my own, na ban straight so lemme face front ...

Guys are simply retaliating what they have taken for so long from the ladies here. Before now, ladies were abusing and disrespecting guys on this forum, especially guys who are financially struggling aka broke men. You needed to see the likes of Siofra, Jennieclay and co mocking broke men. Then came the red pill movement led by His Excellency Mr Ubunja who opened our eyes about women and their antics. We then learnt the red pill and adjusted quickly.

The ladies saw they no longer mattered to us and started campaigning against the red pill and crying about how we denigrate them on the forum. But they'll not tell you how they started the gender war.

Jman06:
Guys are simply retaliating what they have taken for so long from the ladies here. Before now, ladies were abusing and disrespecting guys on this forum, especially guys who are financially struggling aka broke men. You needed to see the likes of Siofra, Jennieclay and co mocking broke men. Then came the red pill movement led by His Excellency Mr Ubunja who opened our eyes about women and their antics. We then learnt the red pill and adjusted quickly.

The ladies saw they no longer mattered to us and started campaigning against the red pill and crying about how we denigrate them on the forum. But they'll not tell you how they started the gender war.

Wow this is getting interesting, any lady in the house to defend this because after this thread even Seun cannot stop nairaland guys again.

Jman06:
Guys are simply retaliating what they have taken for so long from the ladies here. Before now, ladies were abusing and disrespecting guys on this forum, especially guys who are financially struggling aka broke men. You needed to see the likes of Siofra, Jennieclay and co mocking broke men. Then came the red pill movement led by His Excellency Mr Ubunja who opened our eyes about women and their antics. We then learnt the red pill and adjusted quickly.

The ladies saw they no longer mattered to us and started campaigning against the red pill and crying about how we denigrate them on the forum. But they'll not tell you how they started the gender war.

You're talking rubbish, what Siofra and Jennyclay were doing was just lighthearted fun and not bullying unlike what some idiats here do especially that buf_fo_on Ediko5

Maleandfemale:
I noticed

This post will change NOTHING.

nobody will even remember it tomorrow.

SamuraiXXX:
You're talking rubbish, what Siofra and Jennyclay were doing was just lighthearted fun and not bullying unlike what some idiats here do especially that buf_fo_on Ediko5

You are the one talking rubbish because we all read posts from Siofra and Jennyclay. Besides, who said that what guys say in retaliation is also not light-hearted?

Jman06:
You are the one talking rubbish because we all read posts from Siofra and Jennyclay. Besides, who said that what guys say in retaliation is also not light-hearted?

Thanks for educating the SIM pSon.
Nairaland dey ban me when I respond to his post. Let me relax for now,.I go wipe am response on a later date

Please you people should stop chasing away all the ladies.

I love ladies

SamuraiXXX:
You're talking rubbish, what Siofra and Jennyclay were doing was just lighthearted fun and not bullying unlike what some idiats here do especially that buf_fo_on Ediko5

Jennyclay's own is fun but men's own is bully. Define double standards.

The truth is bitter and true friends like us will tell you the truth always on this platform..
At least if it's too late for you , you'd still be able to correct the upcoming generations

ediko5:
Thanks for educating the SIM pSon.
Nairaland dey ban me when I respond to his post. Let me relax for now,.I go wipe am response on a later date

Hahahahahaha. Bad guy.

Maleandfemale:
I noticed single and unmarried ladies above a certain age are verbally abused and bullied on nairaland most of the time, I hear names like old layers, evening newspapers, expired ovaries etc.

Not every woman is lucky enough to get a husband in her early age of life, some are due to personal mistakes, even men makes mistakes, but mistakes in men can be corrected almost anytime but for women as day passes it becomes more difficult.

I have really sat down putting myself in the shoes of a woman and really those shoes does not fit very comfortable as you think. Imagine a 20 years old girl as an emotional creature meeting her first liar boyfriend that lied about loving her all to get in between her legs for several years, many guys reading this are guilty of this, most of our girls whole heartedly showed true and genue love to their first time love, broke guys most times, but as time goes on if they don't find truthful man they swipe to transactional relationships, I won't tell you that they are not born prostitutes, No! but majority of the girls we call bad we spoilt them,truth is bitter may God forgive all our sins and give us the grace to become better People.

Nd Chris.

Hmmm 🤔

SamuraiXXX:
You're talking rubbish, what Siofra and Jennyclay were doing was just lighthearted fun and not bullying unlike what some idiats here do especially that buf_fo_on Ediko5

Your first statement to a response shows how untrained you are, instead of responding to the issues he raised you ate abusing him because he didn't say what is in your head, very pathetic.

See how you think what the females were doing was fun and harmless while what the guys were doing were harmful , you lack accountability and responsibility and this is a typical example of double standards, demonize what guys do and trivialize what women fo, pathetic.

Maleandfemale:
I noticed single and unmarried ladies above a certain age are verbally abused and bullied on nairaland most of the time, I hear names like old layers, evening newspapers, expired ovaries etc.

Not every woman is lucky enough to get a husband in her early age of life, some are due to personal mistakes, even men makes mistakes, but mistakes in men can be corrected almost anytime but for women as day passes it becomes more difficult.

I have really sat down putting myself in the shoes of a woman and really those shoes does not fit very comfortable as you think. Imagine a 20 years old girl as an emotional creature meeting her first liar boyfriend that lied about loving her all to get in between her legs for several years, many guys reading this are guilty of this, most of our girls whole heartedly showed true and genue love to their first time love, broke guys most times, but as time goes on if they don't find truthful man they swipe to transactional relationships, I won't tell you that they are not born prostitutes, No! but majority of the girls we call bad we spoilt them,truth is bitter may God forgive all our sins and give us the grace to become better People.

Nd Chris.

Tooh

SamuraiXXX:
You're talking rubbish, what Siofra and Jennyclay were doing was just lighthearted fun and not bullying unlike what some idiats here do especially that buf_fo_on Ediko5

if you can have the mindset siofraa slurs comes from a place of lighthearted fun then what make alfa male jabs at ENPs a fireball punch, i dont think anyone as taken this bants beyond comments here.

you see its all in your head, you gurlz now have block option ... block all male simple

Jman06:
You are the one talking rubbish because we all read posts from Siofra and Jennyclay. Besides, who said that what guys say in retaliation is also not light-hearted?

is it just siofra and jennyclay

ExudeLoveToAll:
Your first statement to a response shows how untrained you are, instead of responding to the issues he raised you ate abusing him because he didn't say what is in your head, very pathetic.

See how you think what the females were doing was fun and harmless while what the guys were doing were harmful , you lack accountability and responsibility and this is a typical example of double standards, demonize what guys do and trivialize what women fo, pathetic.

That's how simp behave. They aren't accountable and responsible as you said and they are ones who also contribute to our ladies becoming useless in the society.

I've said it multiple times that my posts here can be likened to an evangelism. My message and objective is simple: To expose the manipulative strategies of women, the evil strategies they use to rip and also lure innocent men into marriage.

Within last 3 months I've seen men who was ranting like him some years back talking about how women are dealing or have dealt with them. One even came out openly to confess that my advise helped him out of a future disaster.

Therefore, we the RedPill evangelists will continue spreading the gospel of emancipating simps out of the bondage of women

emirate9:
is it just siofra and jennyclay

No. All of them

Jman06:
Guys are simply retaliating what they have taken for so long from the ladies here. Before now, ladies were abusing and disrespecting guys on this forum, especially guys who are financially struggling aka broke men. You needed to see the likes of Siofra, Jennieclay and co mocking broke men. Then came the red pill movement led by His Excellency Mr Ubunja who opened our eyes about women and their antics. We then learnt the red pill and adjusted quickly.

The ladies saw they no longer mattered to us and started campaigning against the red pill and crying about how we denigrate them on the forum. But they'll not tell you how they started the gender war.

Fact!!!


You need bro see those days the females be broke shaming the life out of men here. Men dey suffer here that time now the tides have turned s they're now claiming victims ..
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.. mtcheeeeew

Based on this thread I created, after going through the comments and quotes I understand the angle the men are coming from and I will just advise every man to know that the more you spend time with a woman than chasing your dreams, one day she will want you to provide what you don't have and Na that time wahala go start, without money you may not have 100% peace with a woman unless you go down down the village like the mud house area to find the kind of woman that will give you the Nollywood kind of love that just need poems and lines.

ediko5:
That's how simp behave. They aren't accountable and responsible as you said and they are ones who also contribute to our ladies becoming useless in the society.

I've said it multiple times that my posts here can be likened to an evangelism. My message and objective is simple: To expose the manipulative strategies of women, the evil strategies they use to rip and also lure innocent men into marriage.

Within last 3 months I've seen men who was ranting like him some years back talking about how women are dealing or have dealt with them. One even came out openly to confess that my advise helped him out of a future disaster.

Therefore, we the RedPill evangelists will continue spreading the gospel of emancipating simps out of the bondage of women

Instead of you to use your time to do something more productive you prefer to come here and make countless posts to vilify the womenfolk cause you think all women are like your female relatives!