Why Do Many People Talk Bad About Marriage? - Family (4)

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Re: Why Do Many People Talk Bad About Marriage? by Xinjin: 12:12am On Aug 21, 2025

Kobojunkie:
Try to pay close attention to your original claims so you don't begin sounding like your don't even know what your mind has been spitting.

Singlehood is the natural state of every animal out there, even the lower life forms. Marriage is a not a natural state.

What do you mean by singlehood? Don't animals take care of their offsprings? Don't survivals of many animals depend on their Families?

Re: Why Do Many People Talk Bad About Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 1:03am On Aug 21, 2025*

Xinjin:
➜What do you mean by singlehood?
➜Don't animals take care of their offsprings? Don't survivals of many animals depend on their Families?

This post from earlier is yours, right?

Xinjin:
Nature isn't build for singlehood , you still get to deal with pple even outside marriage.
I don't know about ur personal experience. At some point we question even investment, but with time you'll appreciate ur marriage

. Regardless, all animals are born single from nature. Marriage between animals of the same species is an option whether of instinct or choice. undecided

If procreation were all that was necessary for survival, then we would have no extinct animals, would we? Anyways, that is an entirely different topic altogether. undecided

Re: Why Do Many People Talk Bad About Marriage? by Roycemadeit(m): 9:25pm On Aug 23, 2025

lexy2014:
how does community and society raise children?

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A parent can only do their best, but no child remains under a parent’s watch from morning till night. Inevitably, children are shaped by the world around them. These influences come from the larger body of society. Society is not only what is shown on television, though television itself is part of it—it is everything children see, hear, and interact with beyond the home.

No matter how carefully a parent raises a child, they cannot be present every hour of the day. The classroom is society. The church is society. The neighbourhood, friends, cousins, and even the streets—all are parts of society. By the end of the day, what a child learns from a parent may be far less than what they gather from these wider encounters.

This is why it is said that a community raises a child. Human beings are social by nature, and no child can grow in isolation. Parenting begins at home, but society continues the work.

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